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To expect fair application to faith school?

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ordinaryriffraff · 14/08/2022 18:34

I am slightly disturbed regarding a statement made by MIL.
She suffers from delusions of grandeur so please can you help?
She recently suggested that the school governors and head teacher go through applications made to local faith based school and are thus able to "keep riff riff out".

Can any teachers, especially head teachers let me know if this is actually something that happens??? Or is this yet another fantasy in MILs head?

OP posts:
MrsTerryPratchett · 15/08/2022 16:34

You have friends who keep their children in the house to abuse them? Have you reported them to social services?

Hmm

And I sneer because faith schools get better results when religious people are segregated and discriminating on the grounds of religion. Seems pretty obviously wrong to me.

SleeplessInEngland · 15/08/2022 16:36

Obviously she's full of shit, but it's a shame we still have faith schools anyway.

carltonscroop · 15/08/2022 16:47

The intention was to joke, not to sneer.

And to remind how church schools were the backbone of education in this country before the state became involved (less than 100 years ago) and that CofE schools embraced the change - with many becoming VC (no faith criteria) and most others cooperating with the state sector as VA (most RC ones opted to be VA, and schools of other faiths post-dated the founding of the state sector).

So there always has been a long-standing ethos of provision of education for all in the parish. Oversubscription criteria, and what is allowed/not allowed was decided by the Government, not by the schools themselves.

But population densities have shifted, and in some areas they physically cannot accommodate more pupils (without a miracle of the sort Jesus could do) so other schools need to be founded to deal with the rising numbers. Some of those may be faith schools, and in the 00s there was a number of (long overdue) new state schools of Hindu and Islamic faiths (who, like VA church schools could set their own entrance criteria, including faith criteria, as academies/free schools can be their own admissions authority).

If there is real demand for more faith schools, then parents need to make their voices heard when plans for school places for the medium and long term are being discussed by their councils.

ZeroFucksGivenToday · 15/08/2022 17:04

I always find the faith question interesting in terms of schools.

i "gamed" the system to get dd into what was then an excellent CoE infant school. Two years later it was shocking and did an in-year transfer to a RC school which suited her better. That gives us a feeder guarantee to a brilliant RC secondary school, but it's miles away. I want her to go to the CoE locally. So as of next month it's back to church we go to get the requisite 12 months in. Otherwise we'd be last on the criteria for that school. We may get in on distance; but DD wants to go there. So we've had a discussion about what that means in terms of commitment to pretty much guarantee us the place. Which is twice per month, for 12 months.

I agree with previous posters who say it does exclude children where their parents aren't on the ball, or can't organise themselves.

ErrolTheDragon · 15/08/2022 17:09

Well this would mean all faith schools are white middle class.

Are they?

No. In our area there's a massive excess of faith schools (CofE and RC) versus the number of practicing Christian families. What happens is the nice village faith schools are oversubscribed - lots of big cars clogging the villages at drop off and pick up time. These can apply the 'faith' (ie church attendance & baptism criteria). The faith schools in the poorer urban areas aren't oversubscribed and so can't apply these types of selections. (I'm not sure but would guess many of the Cof E ones are now the totally state funded type rather than nearly totally state funded ones and so can't discriminate like that anyway).

The former with selection are generally high in the league tables, the latter low. It's not the 'faith ethos' of the school which makes the difference, it seems. What a surprise.

MyNameIsAngelicaSchuyler · 15/08/2022 17:23

selecting / excluding children on the basis of their parents faith is an APPALLING practice for any state funded school. I cannot believe this still happens in 2022.

pantsofshame · 15/08/2022 17:40

I used to be a Governor at our local Catholic school (not Catholic myself, but our closest school). Parents had to submit an application form to the school in addition to the Local Authority application so quite a few people seemed to think the school could choose who to admit. Every year there were parents who sent lengthy covering letters explaining how they would be prepared to help the school, how clever their child is, how much their child wanted to be with their friends already at the school etc etc plus quite a few who seemed to be think the open evening was some sort of audition. In reality there was a published set of criteria that were rigidly applied by the school business officer and reviewed for fairness by a Governor. The Head did not see the list of applicants until the selection process was complete and definitely didn't have any discretion to admit or reject a pupil.

Starseeking · 15/08/2022 18:17

MrsTerryPratchett · 15/08/2022 15:18

I also disagree with claims that church attendance is only possible for the middle classes.. mass isn’t just a Sunday morning event and it’s free. In fact almost everything our church does (with exception of fetes and toddler group) is free and involves food!

Actually my friends who are working class do work more on the weekend or evenings. McDonald's, the shopping centre, the DIY shop, all places they work, all open on a Sunday. And then there's kids whose parents are too hungover or high. Ones who simply don't care about education. Ones who keep their children in the house as much as possible because they're abusing them.

I say again, any hoops, no matter how ridiculous, will separate out the most vulnerable children. If you said they have to come and count to ten in French on a Wednesday at 4.30pm in April, you'd lose most of the children with and the abused/neglected ones as well. As well as those with exhausted or depressed parents.

What would Jesus do? Let all the children in. I don't think he'd have admissions criteria, do you? And if he did, it would be TO let the vulnerable children in. I'm not Christian though, what would I know?

All schools have admission criteria though, don't they? It's not just faith schools. From what I understand of some specific areas in North, South and West London, some schools attract DC from a particular demographic because their parents can afford to buy houses of £1m+ to ensure they are within the 300m catchment area when the criteria is based on distance.

Starseeking · 15/08/2022 18:23

Well this would mean all faith schools are white middle class.

Perhaps our school is an anomaly if that is usually the case. My DC's soon to be Year 1 class in a faith school is about 40% white, 60% non-white.

OperaStation · 15/08/2022 18:40

MsPincher · 15/08/2022 16:05

Absolutely. Dds go to a faith school and many are far more mixed than non faith. Quite how @OperaStation is suggesting a Muslim school is selecting white middle class children who can “play the system” I have no idea.

religious schools can select on the basis of religious observance only. Other than that they are the same as any other school. Religious people in the uk are actually not at all necessarily white mc types.

I was referring to Christian schools, which make up the majority of faith schools in the UK.

SundayTeatime · 15/08/2022 19:08

OperaStation · 15/08/2022 18:40

I was referring to Christian schools, which make up the majority of faith schools in the UK.

No. Christian schools are mainly ethnic-minority where I live, at least. I’m in a multicultural area. While they may not have any/many Muslim pupils, for example, Christian schools are ethnically diverse. The majority of pupils are either from an African background or an Afro-Caribbean background -because these are the groups with a strong and very active faith-based traditional culture.

Starseeking · 15/08/2022 21:08

I was referring to Christian schools, which make up the majority of faith schools in the UK.

So was I. The white DC at our RC school tend to be of Irish, Italian, Polish or Greek origin. Very few English. The non-white contingent is from various African countries heritage (though some DC mixed with white), South Asian (Goan, Sri Lankan etc).

balalake · 15/08/2022 21:18

OP I will not ask you to list the other strange fantasies your MIL has. Others have described the process well.

CormoranStrike · 15/08/2022 21:20

Five year olds can be riff raff???

MsPincher · 15/08/2022 22:25

MrsTerryPratchett · 15/08/2022 16:34

You have friends who keep their children in the house to abuse them? Have you reported them to social services?

Hmm

And I sneer because faith schools get better results when religious people are segregated and discriminating on the grounds of religion. Seems pretty obviously wrong to me.

Have you though? That was your claim that you knew people who can’t go to church because of that.

Religious kids getting preference for schools of their religion is fair enough imo. That’s what they’re for. The fact that they may get better marks overall (but not necessarily individually) is incidental. You’re not entitled to go to a Jewish school or Muslim school just because it has the best marks. One reason many Jewish, Muslim and catholic parents want to send their children to religious schools is to protect them from people who sneer at their religion and culture.

MsPincher · 15/08/2022 22:29

As many have said @OperaStation practising Christians don’t tend to be white English mc people anymore in the uk.

PowerPack · 15/08/2022 22:30

No they have to follow the published criteria, although the one really sought after school I worked in, the head did all the parent tours before application and if the parents weren't the "right fit", she would make sure they left with a clear understanding that it wasn't the right school for their child Sad

MsPincher · 15/08/2022 22:33

MyNameIsAngelicaSchuyler · 15/08/2022 17:23

selecting / excluding children on the basis of their parents faith is an APPALLING practice for any state funded school. I cannot believe this still happens in 2022.

Intolerance towards religious education and people because you’re not religious is APALLING in my opinion. Can’t believe it still happens in 2022.

NumberTheory · 16/08/2022 06:16

MsPincher · 15/08/2022 22:33

Intolerance towards religious education and people because you’re not religious is APALLING in my opinion. Can’t believe it still happens in 2022.

You’ve confusing an assertion that state funded schooling should not be allowed to discriminate on the basis of faith with an intolerance towards religious education.

OnlyEverAutumn · 16/08/2022 06:24

I have no problem in faith schools selecting on faith as long as they pay for the privilege.

What makes me absolutely livid is that I have to pay for faith schools that my children are excluded from 🤬.

Absolutely no state funded schools should select on the basis of the church their parents attend (or pretend to attend).

MrsTerryPratchett · 16/08/2022 06:34

That was your claim that you knew people who can’t go to church because of that.

I really didn't claim that.

OperaStation · 16/08/2022 06:41

MsPincher · 15/08/2022 22:29

As many have said @OperaStation practising Christians don’t tend to be white English mc people anymore in the uk.

it depends where you live. But the ones who game the system to get into good schools are.

meditrina · 16/08/2022 06:42

OnlyEverAutumn · 16/08/2022 06:24

I have no problem in faith schools selecting on faith as long as they pay for the privilege.

What makes me absolutely livid is that I have to pay for faith schools that my children are excluded from 🤬.

Absolutely no state funded schools should select on the basis of the church their parents attend (or pretend to attend).

So how would you replace VA schools?

Remember, those schools are owned by the churches. They are currently operating in the state system, but they don’t belong to the state.

So they become private or close.

Where do all the pupils go?

Even if nationalised, the land and buildings have to be bought out at a fair price.

The schools budget is about to break anyhow, and there’s no obvious source of cash from elsewhere in the government (NHS needs max right now too, social care needs more both generally and to ease NHS pressure, and defence - the budget that’s usually raided - is to be increased because of the was in the Ukraine.

If this were to have been attempted, then perhaps in the 00s when we thought we were rich it would have been the time (but the Blair govt opened more faith schools - getting rid really wasn’t their thing). I don’t see it as making its way to the top of govt spending priorities right now, and probably not in the next 5-10 years either.

Stripeydragon · 16/08/2022 06:44

"if the parents weren't the "right fit", she would make sure they left with a clear understanding that it wasn't the right school for their child."

This is a frequently used 'tool' by schools who don't want children with sen as well.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 16/08/2022 07:20

SundayTeatime · 14/08/2022 18:41

How are they meant to know who the riffraff are?

Spelin and 'obbys e.g. scrumping and hare coursing,

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