To have lost all faith in men

[dksjsn]

One of the girls I work with recently slept with a man. He was married, on a dating site. She didn't know he was married until they finished and he asked her to keep quiet. He told her he loved his wife but sex with her is boring "same shit different day".... his wife has no idea but he does this a lot.

My colleague is a sweet girl who is single and horrified at the idea this man is married.

AIBU to have lost all faith in men? Is sex really boring after you've been together years?

Clearly not the claim, but the height thing is, overall, statistically very significant (although not the only factor).

What would turn this from simply an observable phenomenon to incel rubbish is saying that there's something wrong with this.

Yeah that's exactly what I said isn't it?

Or maybe if you want a more nuanced conversation you'll notice that I said short men are at a disadvantage. Not that they're completely overlooked.

... well being short I guess they're harder to spot...