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To ask you for the scenes in films that always make you blub?

453 replies

MaybeIWillFuckOffThen · 09/08/2022 11:57

I've just been reduced to a puddle by the bit in Hunger Games where Katniss volunteers for Prim - you can feel both their panic for each other and it just gets me! gulp Reminds me of the bit in Empire of the Sun when Jamie is separated from his parents in the mob 😭 I feel like this sort of scene hits me harder since having my kids.

Call me bonkers but i love a good film cry, I find it really cathartic. So hit me! Any scene from any film that makes you ugly cry :)

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Rebelmcstreettuff · 09/08/2022 13:58

When Hillary dies in Beaches
When Billy dies in The Champ
When Sam leaves this world for the next and says"you take the love with you" managed to make it from my cinema seat to the car before bawling my eyes out 😄

Mommabear20 · 09/08/2022 13:58

A little princess - when the dad remembers who she is a Shouts of her in the rain and she runs back to him.

Titanic - the elderly couple cuddling on their bed as it sinks and the mum reading to her children.

Harry Potter - Dobbys death.

Goodnight Mr.Tom - when William learns of Zacs death.

Marley and Me - When Colleen gives Marley her stuffed toy to make him feel better. And when he dies.

Fox and the Hound - when the old lady leaves Tod in the wildlife reserve.

And not a film, but a stage musical, Wicked - during the song 'For good'

😭😭😭😭

Edinvillian · 09/08/2022 14:00

Armageddon, when Liv Tyler realised her dad is about to die. "That's my father up there" 😭

ItchyKondera · 09/08/2022 14:06

Reign over me
When Adam Sandler opens up to Don Cheadle about what happened to his family in 9/11

ItchyKondera · 09/08/2022 14:09

Neverending Story - when Artax sinks in to the swamp of sadness

Bridge to Terabithia - when they tell Jesse that Leslie died

KatherineJaneway · 09/08/2022 14:14

@TheOceanClub

And Independence Day when the US president is giving the speech before that one final battle.

Also "Tell my children I love them"

SleepingAgent · 09/08/2022 14:17

I also find kids films make me well up. The start of UP obviously. But also Big Hero 6 when he's shouting for his brother who runs back into the fire ... omg howling!

WhisperGold · 09/08/2022 14:20

When ET dies.
When The Champ dies.
Almost all of Who Will Love My Children?

Sidisawetlettuce · 09/08/2022 14:21

I always cry absolute buckets at the end of West Side Story when Tony is killed and Maria cries "Don't you touch him!" then sobs over his body.

18e6281o62 · 09/08/2022 14:21

Mommabear20 · 09/08/2022 13:58

A little princess - when the dad remembers who she is a Shouts of her in the rain and she runs back to him.

Titanic - the elderly couple cuddling on their bed as it sinks and the mum reading to her children.

Harry Potter - Dobbys death.

Goodnight Mr.Tom - when William learns of Zacs death.

Marley and Me - When Colleen gives Marley her stuffed toy to make him feel better. And when he dies.

Fox and the Hound - when the old lady leaves Tod in the wildlife reserve.

And not a film, but a stage musical, Wicked - during the song 'For good'

😭😭😭😭

I was coming on to say A little princess. I'm always in floods of tears at that part 😭

slashlover · 09/08/2022 14:25

The end of "A Time to Kill". THAT SPEECH.

Brokeback Mountain, when Ennis finds the two shirts in the closet.

ClumpingBambooIsALie · 09/08/2022 14:25

I've never cried at a film — I enjoy films, but don't get emotionally involved that way — but I have a question, if there's anyone who does cry at films and is willing to answer:

Presumably you're crying because the film has made you feel a strong emotion, and often that emotion seems to be sadness… it seems like, for a lot of people, that's a good thing about the film/a reason to watch it/something that you sometimes seek in a film. What is it about being made to feel so sad that you cry that you want to seek out?

I do cry at some music, and deliberately listen to music I know will have that effect on me, but it's not crying from sadness, more intensity or overwhelm after experiencing waves of frissons/shivers for long periods of times. I wouldn't want to feel sad, and if it felt that way I wouldn't do it.

Can someone explain for me? It's a genuine question — I want to understand why it is people value being made so sad by something in a film that they cry (I know that not all the examples people are giving are things that make you cry through sadness, but a lot of them are). If it helps to understand why I'm asking and to assure that this is a genuine question, I have an ASD diagnosis and don't always react to things in the same way others do, or understand their reactions.

totallybonafido · 09/08/2022 14:25

The bit in Armageddon where Liv Tyler has to say goodbye to Bruce Willis on the screen because he's staying on the asteroid to save the world instead of coming home 😭

Also I don't remember which specific bit, but that film Lion about the little Indian boy who gets lost on a train 😭😭😭

Sidisawetlettuce · 09/08/2022 14:26

I remember watching a film on TV with my niece when she was about 6 and it was about a talking bird. I think it was "Paulie". He's taken away from the little girl he loves and as he's driven away, my niece and I were hysterical.

mycatisannoying · 09/08/2022 14:34

I am not a crier, but the scene where Emma Thompson discovers her husband's infidelity in Love Actually gets me every single time.
I guess some things are too close to the bone. And it's beautifully done.

mycatisannoying · 09/08/2022 14:36

And I can't watch Dumbo.

Onlyhuman123 · 09/08/2022 14:37

Oldie but my DH loves it 'somewhere in time' with Christopher reeves.

Goose dying in top gun.

Tarzan, the Disney version...and Phil Collins song 'you'll be in my heart'...lump in my throat just thinking about that song..

Toy story 3...in fact most Disney or pixar films get me, everytime...

JeanMarie · 09/08/2022 14:39

I cry at the drop of a hat these days....equally so at happy scenes...not just the sad ones. The two films I cried the most at ....proper ugly crying , mascara in rivers down my face....were Sophies Choice and The Passion of the Christ. The bit in Sophies Choice where you find out what her choice was...I was practically hysterical. The Passion of the Christ surprised me as I'm not remotely religious but I was in floods....the bit where Jesus was carrying the cross through the streets and his mother was wiping his blood off the ground. I was hyperventilating! I think it's a good idea for me not to wear mascara when watching a film....that stuff stings !

Mumwithapub · 09/08/2022 14:40

Old Yeller,
Lassie come home,
Marley and me,
Anything with a dog and when Charlotte dies in Charlotte's Web.

ticktickticktickBOOM · 09/08/2022 14:41

The Bridges of Madison County is a cry fest. Cried 7 times, I had to get a flannel as tissue wasn't enough! 😭😭😭

paddingtonstares · 09/08/2022 14:44

Hachi A Dogs Tale with Richard Gere..always gets me.

Ilovedthe70s · 09/08/2022 14:45

I don’t cry but Ronnie dying in King Creole chokes me up every time.

NooNakedJacuzziness · 09/08/2022 14:47

"That'll do pig, that'll do" 🐷😭

SalmonEile · 09/08/2022 14:56

Also the sequence in grave of the fire flies where it shows what Setsuko got up to when Seita wasn’t there
just her playing and trying to be a normal child 😭😭😭

princesssparklepants · 09/08/2022 14:59

Steel magnolias funeral scene.
My god I sob every time!