Indeed.
I am also one of 'those people'
Like you, I worked from 16. Did 3 jobs at one point. Have been a Civil Servant, Chef, Sports Therapist, Special Constable, Shop Assistant and lots of other things. Have been ambitious in all of those roles and reached some heady heights.
Had DD aged 40. Relationship didn't work as the father was useless. Managed to keep my house as I'd thankfully managed to build up enough capital during the 'good years'
Fast forward to now. I'm 51. I have Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, Postural Tachycardia, Osteoarthritis, High blood pressure, Severe asthma, Autism, Many debilitating skin conditions and allergies along with awful Gastrointestinal problems. I decided I'd lay my pride to one side and try for PIP. I get standard daily living rate. My Tribunal was refused because they simply didn't believe me. Was it because I was the last case of the day? Was I just unlucky? Do I have the energy to push the legal system further and call out some of the downright gaslighting I've experienced? I don't know. I'll tell you tomorrow because my energy is fading. Vitamin deficiencies are now draining my energy too.
It's hard. So bone achingly hard. DD is 10. I'm now in Menopause. I'm a true single parent in so much that DDs Dad doesn't look after her.
What I'd fucking give to be well, have some energy and be able to work and / or feel any sort of degree of 'normal'
I manage what little money I have well. I prioritise, I deny myself even the smallest things. It's simply how life is now. I don't tend to judge others or get jealous about richer people.
But I do think that some people should be careful about their views as you never know what's around the corner.
I do sometimes wonder, however how so many people manage to post multiple times a day on social media as well as being busy with a job or apparently debilitated from their issues. I simply guess they have more energy than me.
I've used my one and only last spoon of the day on this post. I won't be commenting further.