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To think that holiday let owners with 'unusual' house rules should have to make them clear on the advert?

338 replies

bsidecside · 03/08/2022 09:12

We're regular holiday let-stayers as a we have loads of kids (5), and so have seen a variety of 'house rules' over the years. We're currently staying in an otherwise lovely holiday let that has a house rule that 'all refuse and recycling must be removed from the property'. We're not staying very remotely (small town on the coast close to other small towns) so I can't see any 'need' for this rule other than to cut down the cleaning at the end. Having to remove all our litter (which I'm trying to keep on top of as we go) is making me increasingly cross. I'm not saying I definitely wouldn't have booked if we'd seen this rule, but I certainly would have considered other options more carefully first!

Cheer me up with your tales of the weirdest - unexpected - house rules you've come across in a holiday let!

OP posts:
SirChenjins · 03/08/2022 12:23

HeckyPeck · 03/08/2022 12:14

I'm very intrigued re the rules on how to speak to the ducks 😅🦆

Very quietly. They were to be approached calmly and slowly, and voices had to be kept low around them. I don't know if you've ever come across a load of ducks swimming about in the pond, but they seem fairly robust, resilient and noisy creatures. We had to creep past the pond for fear of giving them all heart attacks.

MercurialMonday · 03/08/2022 12:25

Pre-covid we rented property that insisted you emptied all rubbish to public bins short distance away.

It was a very short walk - so got used to rubbish when went out and then DH or I would often do short walk pop in bin.

It wasn't that much of a faff but DH often organised so it wasn't an additional thing for me to remember along with sun screen hats etc - I think it was because it was down a small alley way with no back garden and didn't seem to be any big black bins.

I think it was only clear once we got there this was the case but it was a short walk public bins were emptied twice a day.

We don't drive so taking things to a dump wouldn't have been possible for us so if that was expectation would want some for warning.

Pbbananabagel · 03/08/2022 12:26

100% normal in most holiday lets

blueshoes · 03/08/2022 12:27

Wideawakeandconfused · 03/08/2022 12:20

Having worked in the industry for years - and with hundreds of owners this only happens when they are cost savings. They will only pay fit cleaners on change over day and therefore that doesn’t usually aline with bin day. Nice owners will pay extra for someone to pop over and do this, or if they are close will manage it. I’d avoid houses like this as it’s telling of the rest of the management of their property.

@Wideawakeandconfused thanks for your perspective.

Based on your experience, if owners put down onerous rules like going to the tip on the last day, do guests comply? What happens if they don't?

HeckyPeck · 03/08/2022 12:29

SirChenjins · 03/08/2022 12:23

Very quietly. They were to be approached calmly and slowly, and voices had to be kept low around them. I don't know if you've ever come across a load of ducks swimming about in the pond, but they seem fairly robust, resilient and noisy creatures. We had to creep past the pond for fear of giving them all heart attacks.

🤣🤣🤣 imagine the poor ducks all fainting because someone said hello in a normal voice.

starfishmummy · 03/08/2022 12:29

Geebee12 · 03/08/2022 11:41

I charge a small cleaning fee which doesn't cover the cost of the clean and the laundry - not even half. So i could put up the cleaning fee i suppose, however i think most people (including myself when i stay at an AirBnb) would rather strip the beds.

And no, emptying the bins is not unreasonable at all!! I wouldn't even need to be asked and i would do that! Somethings they aren't cleaned some day and they will attract vermin. There is a black bin right outside the house. Definitely not a standard cleaning item. Eugh!

I always empty indoor bins - would t occur to me not to. Likewise I strip beds as it means I can find any stray objects of ours - or rather ds's - that have managed tonget into the bed!! Even in a hotel I pull the top covers right back to check.

AgathaMystery · 03/08/2022 12:30

We have stayed in a holiday let with an incredible view - we were NOT to open the Venetian blinds, just tilt them - because they were expensive & might break. It was quite an old house - lots of mullioned windows so not terribly bright, so of course we opened the blinds. The owners lived locally & knocked on the door telling us to put the blinds down. We absolutely refused.

ivykaty44 · 03/08/2022 12:30

The cynic in me is wondering whether they’ve been threatened with business rates for rubbish collection.

musnt get in the way of profit!

yes because airbnb style places don't have to pay domestic council tax - its a loop hole, and as the business may make less than the required amount for business rates this saves a whole chunk of tax

blueshoes · 03/08/2022 12:30

SirChenjins · 03/08/2022 10:10

We stayed in a place in Bavarias that stipulated that too - we had to take our rubbish to the recycling centre. We also had to wear slippers indoors and could only make noise between certain hours of the day (as in, TV on, that kind of noise - not screaming or shouting obviously) and had to be completely quiet on Sunday. There was a rule book written in German that we didn't see (and couldn't have read without spending ages on Google Translate) and we only found out about our many breaches when the landlady who lived underneath us sent me a long email telling us where we were going wrong - apparently she could hear us moving about at 10pm and this was unacceptable because she had to be up at 4am for her job at the local hospital.

Another property in the north of Scotland - this time a ring binder full of rules (as in, a whole ring binder) with such very detailed instructions about which wood pile to use for which wood burner, how to speak to the ducks in the pond and hours at which the gates would be closed. We used the wrong wood on one wood burner and the owner who lived at an adjacent property came knocking at the door in a fury - he knew from the smoke we'd used the wrong wood.

This just sounds mental. I would be afraid.

namechange7654 · 03/08/2022 12:35

It's not OK. We're a family of six, we've generated one black bag of rubbish and two of recycling this week. We don't have space in the car for three bin bags, so our choices are a) 40 min round trip to the dump, or b) sneak it into the big bins at the campsite next door (don't worry- I'm too embarrassed to actually do that). And this made me realise - even the people paying £22 a night for a camping pitch get rubbish removal included in that price!

AgathaMystery · 03/08/2022 12:35

We recently stayed at a place in France that stipulated all glass bottles (beer, wine etc) were to be removed from the property or we would be fined 50 euro per bottle. 5 adults on a long weekend.... well, we took the bottles with us as we didn't fancy the 2,000 euro fine!!

Also another place in USA recently that wanted us to empty bins, put dishwasher on AND unload it, strip beds, put bedding or towels on to wash and 'if we felt like it' we could empty the tumble and re-make the beds! the cleaning fee was £121!!! We didn't do any of it, we had paid £121 for someone else to do that.

Sceptre86 · 03/08/2022 12:44

Putting rhe rubbish on outside bins is a totally acceptable request. Asking you to drop off at a recycling centre isn't. Yanbu, I would be annoyed too. If they email asking for suggestions, mention it's ridiculous.

Malbecfan · 03/08/2022 12:46

Maybe I'm odd but I send all our rules out when I send the booking form. That way, if people don't like the rules, they don't need to book. It's mostly because we have had so many idiotic dog owners who insist on opening the door and letting the mutt out irrespective of us moving our cars or the road outside. Our brochure also explains the lack of mobile phone signal and terrible wifi. If you are coming here expecting to stream Netflix, forget it. If you want to get away from it all, it's great. Lots of people have commented favourably on how I describe it now; at least it stops the whingeing. If something is in my power to change, I will do it. However, rural broadband and mobile phone coverage is beyond me.

SleepingStandingUp · 03/08/2022 12:48

Pbbananabagel · 03/08/2022 12:26

100% normal in most holiday lets

To take all your rubbish to the local tip?

Daftasabroom · 03/08/2022 12:52

@bsidecside 'all refuse and recycling must be removed from the property' I would guess this is due to collection days. There are properties round here where guests put their recycling and refuse out when they leave only for it to distributed round village if there is any wind.

LindseyStauffer · 03/08/2022 12:54

That's funny. Just don't do it. If they say anything point out that you weren't informed of this before booking and haven't agreed to it.

Nutrigrainygoodness · 03/08/2022 12:54

That's a rubbish rule 😂 sorry. I'll see myself out.

I clean a holiday cottage, and we have no silly rules.
As a cleaner I do love it when people strip the bed, empty the dishwasher, flush the toilets, close the windows and doors, but people are rushing about with kids, dogs, parents and inlaws and things don't always get done and it's fine.

Someone could leave the place immaculate, but I would still have to hoover, polish and mop anyway- so it doesn't save me anytime but has probably stressed out the person doing it.

We check our cottage on departure, even if it wobt be cleaned that day cos more than once someone has left the oven on or a tap running.

JustLyra · 03/08/2022 12:59

blueshoes · 03/08/2022 12:13

It is very common that people don't read things properly. I say that as a lawyer, which is basically a job where I am paid to read stuff for other people. I am guilty of that myself whilst on holiday or buying stuff on eBay.

I am a little more forgiving of that.

Not bothering to read the OP’s posts is just laziness, or, very often, just taking the chance to have a pop at someone.

either that or it’s a staggering rate of arrogance to assume that 9 pages in a suggestion of “I’m sure they mean just the outside bin” is going to somehow be new and unique.

Spidey66 · 03/08/2022 13:00

We used to own a holiday let (well, we still own it but it's now a residential let) and we paid council tax, so guests were free to use the bins.

whysomanyvipers · 03/08/2022 13:12

I think this rule is ridiculous, but mind you, I haven't stayed in a holiday let in many, many years.

Definitely sticking to hotels. I don't even take rubbish to the tip at home - it either goes in the wheelie bin or I organise a council collection if necessary. No way I'm doing this on a relaxing break.

I might feel different if it was a corporate let and I was working away for a few months - for a holiday of a few weeks, this just doesn't appeal.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 03/08/2022 13:13

there's a wheelie bin, just instructions not to use it and take rubbish to a refuse/recycling centre (which is a car journey away)

Is this in the UK?
I'm just wondering if you're in a place where the owner has to "book into" a waste service and hasn't bothered in order not to pay - because otherwise it makes no sense at all

And yes, I agree that all T&Cs should be made clear upfront; many won't read them, but then they only have themselves to blame for any surprises.
No doubt some hosts think "Oooo we can just ask this or that" and once started keep adding to the list, but life doesn't work that way when you're charging

ivykaty44 · 03/08/2022 13:14

Spidey66

I don't know why but holiday let business seemed to be different. Had a few airbnb owners change from residential letting and they would come to council tax and get it changed so they didn't have to pay. I guess some accountants knew to tell them to do this and others didn't.

Not sure how bins worked though and whether due they were no longer domestic the wheels bins would be taken away?

Now we only have collections every 3 weeks and I guess with holiday people the rubbish would accumulate over 3 weeks and if the owners are not prepared to get in contractors for rubbish this is the results

Puzzledandpissedoff · 03/08/2022 13:21

I would guess this is due to collection days

But if a guest's departure doesn't coincide with collection days, surely it's up to the owner/manager to shift the bin themselves, or if there's someone else in the property by then, ask them to do it?

Granted some council collections are weeks apart now, but if that's the case get a commercial company in - at the prices too many hosts are charging now it's not as if they couldn't afford it

starfishmummy · 03/08/2022 13:22

And you raise another point, actually - why have a check out time in the morning if the owner/their staff are coming days after to clean?

We have often been told by owners that we don't have to hurry out because they won't be in to clean until the afternoon. I guess it just depends on whether they have more guests arriving or not.

Convertedtodressage · 03/08/2022 13:25

We stayed in a remote house where we were asked to take our rubbish to the recycling centre 10 miles in the opposite direction to our journey home and we had to be out at 9 am. I just accepted it.