We went to a farm with our dc earlier today and I'd been taking photos on my phone which I then put at the top of the pram in the hood bit. We were going through a maze at the time and dh took over pushing the pram. I then said (thinking out loud), 'oh I need to put the pram hood over dd' (as the sun came out at that moment). I went to move forwards to do it but dh quickly pushed the hood over so fast, my phone shot off and smashed on the path. Now of course, he didn't know the phone was there and I didn't know he would have pushed the hood forward so quickly when I was just about to do it, it was an accident. However, if I'd done that to his phone, I would still have been apologetic.
Not dh. His first words were, that's a stupid place to put a phone, followed by, 'sorry, but that's not my fault you put it there'.
Why could he not just say, I'm really sorry, I didn't see you'd put it there or something like that. I know it wasn't his fault but he's given me such an offish, couldn't care less reaction. We had had an argument over something before at home and I wonder if being unapologetic was his retaliation for that. And now I'm going to have to pay for a new phone as it's so badly smashed and damaged to repair and we're having to really budget this summer holiday as it is. Oh, I did have a protective phone case on it but unfortunately that did nothing.
AIBU to be a bit upset about the lack of apology from dh?