Husband just reflected sunlight in my eyes

[Elvira2000]

For a joke, husband just reflected sunlight into my eyes from his watch. I asked him to stop singing a very repetitive and annoying song (repested with whistling, humming and singing for the last 10 minutes). His response was to shine the light from a perfect sun - no clouds, fully round, very bright sun - into my face.

Well, i lost it. I had to explain why it was dangerous. He replied that people had been doing it for 1000s of years. I just had no sense of humour.

So depressed that I am married to such a stupid arse.

Tbh I couldn't get too mad about this..

He’s coming across as dim across the board here.

People with a good sense of humour know when something is not funny. Your DH clearly has a very poor one.

Dangerous? Were you flying a plane at the time?

He's an idiot. How do you tolerate living with a man that acts like a 10yo?

Yes, I'm intrigued by the danger bit?

He does sound annoying though.

“Fully round” Yep, wouldn’t have been as bad if it was a waning sun.

He was being an arse, both with the singing if it was just to annoy you, and the watch, but you also have responded quite overdrammatically over it too

Where you landing the helicopter at the time?

If you don't like each other at all, which is the implication from your post, why are you still together?

Yes that does sound annoying.

Next time you see him naked laugh at his penis and ask if he has no sense of humour as it was only a joke..

You don't seem to like him so I'm wondering why you're still with him? It sounds pretty miserable for both of you.

Ugh men can be so childish at times....

My OH likes to sing to every single song that comes on, even if he doesn't know the song! drives me insane.

Pretty big assumption....some of the closest people to us can annoy us the most!

Doesn't mean we don't love em.

Hence the term "can't live with them can't live without them."

Irritating? Yes.

To this level of drama? No.

Annoying but not really worth losing it about really.

This is how women get the ick. Just a bloke being a bit of a twat.

Dangerous? Are you a vampire?

How dramatic!

Was you driving or flying?
If not. Once you have regained your sight.
Look for the grip on life you have lost !🙄

I couldn't get so bothered about something like this. It would be a non issue for me. My partner singing or humming also wouldn't fill me with this level of rage.

You're depressed and think he is stupid. You're not a good match. Leave. Find someone more suited to you who stops singing when you tell them to.

I actually think that's kind of funny 🤷

Actually reflected UV light like this is more damaging to your eyes than direct sunlight due to the angle that it hits your eyes. Is your husband a teenager?

Howling 😂😂 @Discovereads

OP you have overreacted which is a particular forte of mine too