My DH's birthday is next month. A couple we are 'kinda' friendly with usually come with us for a meal/night out as it's her DH's birthday in Feb also (they are more DH's mates than mine).
When I asked her what her plans were for their birthdays she said that we should all go for a meal, then we should go onto a lap bar/strip joint (whatever they are called) because she wants to pay for him to have a private dance with one of the girls .
Now don't get me wrong, I am aware this couple are not in a monogamous marriage, but usually they keep us out of their shenanigans. DH just laughed and told me to take a chill pill. WTF! .
It doesn't sound like my idea of a good night. Would we be unreasobable to make an excuse not to go? I;m thinking of saying we can't get a babysitter, but nearer the time. Or shall I tell her I am a bit uncomfortable about the strip club thing? Am I being a prude about this?