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To be done with cyclists (as a car driver).

460 replies

bluegardenflowers · 26/07/2022 10:02

Have cycled in the past but now only drive.

I'm a considerate driver and always allow plenty of room when overtaking and am patient in following the cyclist when it's unsafe to overtake and leave a big gap. I take care when left turning. They are more vulnerable on the road.

Yet I've been sworn at be a cyclist and it's pissing me off.

Yesterday on a busy road I saw the cyclist and was busy scanning ahead to make sure I could give him half a carriageways room to overtake. I started my overtake as he was wafting his arm around and looking back. It wasn't a clear right turn signal more a 30 degree flap around before swerving into the part of the road I was on, and swearing at me.

Ffs. If you want to turn right, stick your bloody arm out fully and make a clear signal. No wonder drivers and cyclists hate each other.

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Snaketime · 26/07/2022 12:08

I agree with you OP. I always try to give space to cyclists and I wint overtake if it isn't safe to do so (eg a blind corner) but the amount of times cyclists have gotten mad at me for following behind them and start waving their hand for me to overtake them when I can't see if the road is clear or not.
Where I live we have a lot of blind corners on 50mph roads, the change to the law that cyclists can ride 2 a breast is really dangerous, as you go round a blind corner and bam there's a bike in the middle of the road that you will hit no matter what you do as the road isn't wide enough to swerve round them.

TheOrigRights · 26/07/2022 12:09

bluegardenflowers · 26/07/2022 12:04

And they ruin it for the rest of them sadly.

You could swap bike for dog owners throughout this thread and it would have the same essence.

Ooo what about dog owning cyclists? Dogs on bikes?!

Sapphirejane · 26/07/2022 12:09

@vivainsomnia - actually he had zero right to be there no matter how precious his bike was so you can get off your high horse about that one.

It was a GWR high speed inter city train. www.gwr.com/travelling-with-us/on-our-trains/bringing-your-bike

Chooksnroses · 26/07/2022 12:10

vivainsomnia · 26/07/2022 11:41

Waving his arm up and down like that means "slow down" and sticking it out to the right means he was turning right. He was signalling to you to slow down because he was turning right so moving into the right side of the lane
Thank God for someone who actually k is the rules. It's so depressing how many drivers are clueless but then go on to blame cyclists when they are the ones in the wrong!

I have to turn right off a busy road, going up so hard to cycle to get home. If I get to the right to early one, IE when there is gap, I out myself in danger cycling to the right if cars passing and risk being in the way of cars wanting to turn right before me.

If I wait until I get closer to the road, there is a risk that I have to pass between cars. In that case, I'll make a sign for the car behind me to slow down before I indicate I want to turn.

You were totally in the wrong OP, which is bad enough but to then act as the victim and criticizing riders is pretty lame. Maybe all drivers should take cycling proficiency lessons, even if not cycling. As a cyclist, it's petrifying to see how clueless drivers are.

Tell me where, in the Highway code (pages 59 to 82) rules for cyclists, it tells you to use the old "slowing down signal.
In 1970, when I took my driving test, I had to do a "hand signals only" section. This included a signal which was to hold your right arm out, palm down, and move it up and down to indicate that you were slowing down. (Not to tell the driver behind you to slow down) . Hand signals are no longer taught or part of the driving test.
Cyclists should use either a definite left or right signal, no other signals. www.highwaycodeuk.co.uk/rules-for-cyclists-road-junctions.html
@bluegardenflowers is right.

Swizandswap · 26/07/2022 12:10

I always find it highly amusing how cyclists are so against having some sort of identifying feature on their bikes like number plates on cars. Cyclists seem to think its their god given right to report all cars but they seem soo against being identified themselves.

Speaks volumes when cyclists are so defensive about being anonymous with their riding.

Butteryflakycrust83 · 26/07/2022 12:12

As a pedestrian/bus taker, I am done with ALL..

I am done with cyclists running red lights at speed and getting angry that I dare cross the road in front of them.

I am done with sitting in traffic during term time because the roads are back to back with parents driving their kids to the school a quarter of a mile away.

I am done with cars parking halfway across a pavement or racing down my road.

While I am on a soapbox, I am also done with lazy school kids taking the bus ONE stop. ONE!!! You can see the next stop from where they get on!

In conclusion - hate you all. Walk!

vivainsomnia · 26/07/2022 12:12

But he wasn't waving it around he was dangling it about 20 cm from his body, and wanting was purely movement as he rode, not a deliberate movement for slowing down. I know exactly what that is
Of course you do! It's common for cyclist to make weird gestures when cycling and that couldn't possibly have been interpreted as wanting to turn right. He just wanted to look back to admire your car!

You really are in denial of your error!

xogossipgirlxo · 26/07/2022 12:13

Swizandswap · 26/07/2022 12:10

I always find it highly amusing how cyclists are so against having some sort of identifying feature on their bikes like number plates on cars. Cyclists seem to think its their god given right to report all cars but they seem soo against being identified themselves.

Speaks volumes when cyclists are so defensive about being anonymous with their riding.

They only install go pro cameras to protect their asses, but don't want to take any responsibility for their faults.

vivainsomnia · 26/07/2022 12:13

actually he had zero right to be there no matter how precious his bike was so you can get off your high horse about that one
High horse? If he wasn't allowed on that train, that's all you needed to say. Why mention a bike carriage!

rainrelief · 26/07/2022 12:13

araiwa · 26/07/2022 10:14

If you weren't sure what they were signalling you could've waited an extra 5 seconds to be sure.

Your self importance nearly killed someone. You deserved to be sworn at

This! I’d have sworn at you too! He looked behind and moved his right arm out, balance of probability was he was about to turn right!

You were entirely in the wrong.

Hoping rest of thread shows this to be a reverse!

AppleBottomRats · 26/07/2022 12:15

bluegardenflowers · 26/07/2022 12:04

You don't indicate to overtake a cyclist or a parked vehicle.

It wasn't a junction, he wanted to turn into a road at the right. There's no prohibition to overtaking there.

Er, yes you do. And that is a junction.

balalake · 26/07/2022 12:16

You may be a considerate driver to cyclists, but probably 1 out of 50 or more.

Sapphirejane · 26/07/2022 12:16

@vivainsomnia - I was just matching your rather aggressive and self important tone. I mentioned the bike carriage to show he had an option before I got asked what else he was supposed to do with his precious cargo.

vivainsomnia · 26/07/2022 12:16

Cyclists should use either a definite left or right signal, no other signals
Which he did but OP didn't compute it meant turning right. She is lucky that he was cautious and didn't just go ahead and turn.

Namechangehereandnow · 26/07/2022 12:16

bluegardenflowers · 26/07/2022 12:04

You don't indicate to overtake a cyclist or a parked vehicle.

It wasn't a junction, he wanted to turn into a road at the right. There's no prohibition to overtaking there.

Eh?? Of course you indicate to overtake a cyclist or parked vehicle. Very confused as to how it wasn’t a junction … your words ensured no oncoming cars, and moved out around 10 m before the junction he was turning into. So I was being extra safe. He wasn't ….

bluegardenflowers · 26/07/2022 12:17

So I need a diagram. The star is where he starts to turn and 'signal'.

The signal also deserves a diagram

To be done with cyclists (as a car driver).
To be done with cyclists (as a car driver).
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vivainsomnia · 26/07/2022 12:18

I mentioned the bike carriage to show he had an option before I got asked what else he was supposed to do with his precious cargo
Yes of course!

What annoys me is people who act self righteous when are actually in the wrong and out people in danger as a result. I'm both a motorist and cyclist. I see poor behaviour on both sides but feel much more vulnerable to the errors motorists make rather than cyclists.

BerryBerryBerryBerry · 26/07/2022 12:18

ComtesseDeSpair · 26/07/2022 10:38

I drive a 3.2l convertible Audi TT with a gun exhaust, a body kit and an aftermarket spoiler, so I know a little bit about some road users “hating” you because of what you choose to drive. As a cyclist, it’s still the drivers of large SUVs and Range Rovers who don’t seem to realise quite how wide the vehicle they’re driving is and fail to give sufficient room when passing. If you like to drive large cars, perhaps some driving lessons in one would be useful so a professional instructor can talk you through the impact on more vulnerable road users so you can change your road stance?

Sounds awful, why don't you get something a bit more grown up 😅

AppleBottomRats · 26/07/2022 12:18

Itsbackagain · 26/07/2022 12:06

Just because its permissible doesn't mean its sensible. Riding 2 abreast simply holds up traffic and if you don't understand that that's another reason lots of us detest cyclists.

Cycling two abreast makes it FASTER to overtake - unless you are overtaking unsafely.

Simonjt · 26/07/2022 12:18

bluegardenflowers · 26/07/2022 12:17

So I need a diagram. The star is where he starts to turn and 'signal'.

The signal also deserves a diagram

I’m amazed if you’re not a troll, if you’re genuine I’m amazed you can be both so entitled and stupid at the same time.

TheOrigRights · 26/07/2022 12:19

Snaketime · 26/07/2022 12:08

I agree with you OP. I always try to give space to cyclists and I wint overtake if it isn't safe to do so (eg a blind corner) but the amount of times cyclists have gotten mad at me for following behind them and start waving their hand for me to overtake them when I can't see if the road is clear or not.
Where I live we have a lot of blind corners on 50mph roads, the change to the law that cyclists can ride 2 a breast is really dangerous, as you go round a blind corner and bam there's a bike in the middle of the road that you will hit no matter what you do as the road isn't wide enough to swerve round them.

The point is that you should be driving round a blind corner being prepared for ANYTHING to be round it.

But the change to the highway code does not give cyclists permission to cycle 2 abreast round blind bends.

ComtesseDeSpair · 26/07/2022 12:20

Swizandswap · 26/07/2022 12:10

I always find it highly amusing how cyclists are so against having some sort of identifying feature on their bikes like number plates on cars. Cyclists seem to think its their god given right to report all cars but they seem soo against being identified themselves.

Speaks volumes when cyclists are so defensive about being anonymous with their riding.

I wouldn’t have a problem at all in theory. But it’s been repeatedly eschewed as completely unworkable and cost prohibitive by the police, who have correctly pointed out the complexities of concerns about how to register children, whether the registration is for the vehicle or the person, what rules one would have to follow in order to acquire such a licence, and the general pointlessness of having such a system in a country where more than 99% of road accidents are caused by the driver of a motor vehicle not a bicycle.

vivainsomnia · 26/07/2022 12:20

Yep, that signal to turn. What so you think he was doing with his hand out? Even if unsure, you should have acted as if that's what it meant and wait to see what he was doing next.

shootfromthehip145 · 26/07/2022 12:21

AppleBottomRats · 26/07/2022 12:18

Cycling two abreast makes it FASTER to overtake - unless you are overtaking unsafely.

No on narrow country roads it does not.

AppleBottomRats · 26/07/2022 12:22

bluegardenflowers · 26/07/2022 12:17

So I need a diagram. The star is where he starts to turn and 'signal'.

The signal also deserves a diagram

That looks like a clear signal to me and you should not have been overtaking there. Rule 167 of the Highway Code.