Oh this is my very favourite weird thing about my upbringing. Yes, everyone drives outside of the major cities. If there is someone in your family who doesn’t drive, you’re making arrangements for them to get around, because public transport is a fairy tale in all but the most developed American cities.
But remember each state makes its own rules for things like this, so the driving age varies by state. I grew up in a farming state (the same one we’ve already discussed has no regulations for theme parks) and the license to drive a tractor on the road is the same as a car on the road and you’d be expected to help out if you had a family farm so… the driving age is 14.
It’s not an instantly full license. At 14, you can take your written test (which was multiple choice and open book in my day!) and then you are allowed to drive with a licensed driver over the age of 21 in the front passenger seat. So your parents can teach you this way, or you can take a course at school. I took the school course and it was the summer between 8th and 9th grade, so would be the equivalent of the summer before you start your GCSEs. If you went the school route, you logged as many hours as it took for the instructor to sign you off. If your parents or anyone else taught you, you had to go do a driving test at the licensing office. When I was learning, once you passed that then you could drive alone as long as it was to/from school, work, or on farm jobs. You were also allowed to drive to the nearest petrol station to those destinations. If you wanted to drive to other places, you would need to have the adult up front again. Now… as you can guess this was dangerous and there were lots of car crashes so the rule has changed… so you now have to be 15 to drive to work and school alone. I’m not sure what the statistics are for that small change in age. At any rate, once you turn 16 it’s a full license automatically and you can drive anywhere.
The best random fact about it all: the farm element is still present in the driving code, so on that list of things that might come up on a test like parallel parking, reverse round a corner, hill start etc… we also have farm stuff. One day my instructor just drove us up to a field and said we had to reverse the combine harvester onto the road, down to the next gate, and back into the field. So I had a license and a car at 14, but I had to drive a combine harvester to get it! (Aside: it is only a ‘combine’ there and we never had the song and I feel someone in music marketing really missed a trick with that.)
I lived 10 miles from any sort of shop, so no popping in. We did have a company that would drive around a big freezer truck once a week and we stocked up that way. It was only the 80s but a bit like a 50s tv show in that you could leave a key with the freezer man or leave your back door open and just put a list on the door and your money in the freezer and he’d sort it all for you if you weren’t home. For everything else we would drive once a week to the big grocery store. I used to sit in the car and read for an hour or so while my mum did the shopping.
If you start walking along a road there, you will usually get a police car / sheriff pulling up to ask what’s up, because it’s so rare to see someone walking. They are usually worried your car is broken down somewhere and you need help, but if it’s not that they will be genuinely confused as to why you are out walking.