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Questions you have about other nationalities!

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WatermelonWaveclub · 18/07/2022 21:11

Just for fun. DD and I were just watching a video where Americans were asking questions about the UK. What are your questions (can be for any nationality from any nationality)? And please feel free to answer other people's questions!

I'll start with some questions for Americans:

Are your grocery bags really those ones without handles? They look really awkward to carry!

Why do you not have electric kettles?

In High school films the English teacher for example always gives them some homework to do by the next day and says 'see you tomorrow' - do you have the same classes every day? We just had English twice a week or something!

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gimmepeaceandsky · 20/07/2022 22:25

Hahaha I agree, and then make that as the very special Christmas dinner as well , just for a change 😛

PoppyDrug · 20/07/2022 22:25

Pallisers · 20/07/2022 22:05

I'm sure you can figure out why a black american might want to claim some of their heritage or why it might be useful to see how various segments of society are faring vis a vis the white/european descended majority.

When people say they are Irish they don't believe it literally (even in Boston :) ) it is a short hand and people often have nice memories of grandparents and stories from great grandparent. They are proud of where those people came from. I can never figure out why so many Irish (not saying you Hopefully) love to sneer at Irish Americans - the people who gave them a huge leg up in green cards with Morrissey and Donnelly visas.

Somebody mentioned americans not using "fortnight". I was in a meeting once in the US where we were working on a big tender in a country that used British English. There was a bit about "every fortnight" and the guy faciliating the meeting said "where did that come from anyway". His mind was blown when I told him it was a contraction of fourteen nights.

The British class system does really elude me - as an Irish person and an American. It seems terribly important and terribly immutable.

49 years on this planet I never spent a second thinking why is it called a Fortnight and I’m English

SenecaFallsRedux · 20/07/2022 22:27

blueshoes · 20/07/2022 22:16

Has anyone answered why public toilets in the US (I guess you would call them restrooms) have toilet stalls with big slits down the side so that people can see in.

I visited my company's US offices. One wrong eye move and I would have seen my colleague in all her glory. Why?

www.mentalfloss.com/article/642735/reason-public-bathroom-stalls-have-gaps

CraftyGin · 20/07/2022 22:28

amoobaa · 18/07/2022 23:24

I’m British, I have a question for Americans… it’s a really strange question but my Mum is always commenting on it when we watch US dramas or movies…

So, on American TV shows, whenever there is a phone call/conversation between characters, they never seem to say goodbye at the end of the call- they just hang up.

Is that just for the purposes of filming better scenes, or do you usually just hang up at the end of a phone call without explicitly saying goodbye?

My DH is American and never says goodbye on a call. Drives me mad. He has live here for almost 40 years.

Tomasinabombadil · 20/07/2022 22:40

I don’t have any particular questions or answers, haven’t read the whole thread yet, will catch up tomorrow, but before I retired I worked with various joint British/American companies here in the U.K.
I got into the habit (and still do) of writing dates both alphabetical & numerical. Eg: 2nd October 2021 in the 🇬🇧rather than 02/10/2021 which may have been read as February 10th 2021 in the 🇺🇸.

itsonlysubterfuge · 20/07/2022 22:43

CraftyGin · 20/07/2022 22:28

My DH is American and never says goodbye on a call. Drives me mad. He has live here for almost 40 years.

I think this must be personal thing. I'm American and my whole extended family (I'm from Utah and my family is large) say goodbye and I love you at the end of every call.

blueshoes · 20/07/2022 22:46

Thanks @SenecaFallsRedux it is not slits at the bottom of doors that trouble me. It is the slits at the side, like this:

Questions you have about other nationalities!
SenecaFallsRedux · 20/07/2022 22:48

blueshoes · 20/07/2022 22:46

Thanks @SenecaFallsRedux it is not slits at the bottom of doors that trouble me. It is the slits at the side, like this:

This question comes up a lot on MN. Trust me, no one looks. At least not Americans who are used to it. Smile

TimTheEnchantress · 20/07/2022 22:52

BrioNotBiro · 18/07/2022 22:30

Where do Isle of Man and Channel Island people say you are going when travelling over to Great Britain? Do you say "Great Britain", or "the mainland' etc (I suspect not the latter, as it would deny the autonomy of the islands).

On the Isle of Man you'll often hear the UK called "across" e.g "She's from across"

Hachos2018 · 20/07/2022 22:56

I’m not German but I’ve lived here a while, and yes people do refer to it as that 😆 I don’t know why either .. but guessing it’s because scheißer doesn’t have the same ring to it

blueshoes · 20/07/2022 22:58

SenecaFallsRedux · 20/07/2022 22:48

This question comes up a lot on MN. Trust me, no one looks. At least not Americans who are used to it. Smile

That's a relief. Except British eyes are on stalks looking straight ahead. THe question remains ... why?

UndertheCedartree · 20/07/2022 23:01

SenecaFallsRedux · 19/07/2022 02:03

The kettle thing really is down to the fact that we Americans don't drink much tea. I seldom have the need to boil water.

I was thinking about the high school subject thing when posting on another thread about Jane Austen. It's actually pretty difficult to graduate from an American high school without reading at least one novel by Jane Austen. Traditionally, the last year of English in American high schools is British literature. And, at least in the schools near me, there are still five classes a week in each subject each one lasting about 50 minutes.

American education actually has some Scottish antecedents and still has some similarities, such as more breadth in secondary school, four-year university, being able to pursue more than one subject at university, etc. Even the term "high school" comes directly from the Scots.

Do you never cook pasta? Much quicker to just boil a kettle than heat in a pan (but maybe not for you due to the voltage issue.)

Teapot13 · 20/07/2022 23:06

The bathroom stalls question -- I heard on another MN thread that it's to discourage intravenous drug use in public restrooms. 🤷‍♀️

UndertheCedartree · 20/07/2022 23:12

BackToWhereItAllBegan · 19/07/2022 02:27

At my DS's US High School they take 6 subjects a year and do every subject, every day. They have 8 periods a day (including lunch and study hall) from 7.45am - 3.15pm plus a mandatory sport or extra curricular after school and homework is always due the next day so it's a lot of work to keep on top of.
It's also a lot of fun. On Friday's the whole school goes to the Pep Rally then the Football game under the lights. There's always a sporting, art or drama event taking place on a weekend which will be well attended plus the traditional Homecoming, Prom's and Social's during every year.

It is sort of mind blowing as it is so different to the English system. But I think I would of preferred less subjects to concentrate on at once and a set routine. Except if it was a subject you didn't like you'd have to do it every day rather than just not liking Monday as you had double Maths!

MadCattery · 20/07/2022 23:13

ArcticRoll2 · 20/07/2022 19:31

Another one for Americans - is it the the law for you to have health insurance? Or what is the situation if you need medical care and can’t afford it
/ have no cover? Obviously in the UK we have the NHS which entitles British citizens to free healthcare. I wonder for example if a pregnant lady - if she could not afford medical bills would she risk a home birth to avoid it? Sorry if it’s a stupid question !

My son moved out at 21, to a city 1000 miles away. He had a bicycle accident, falling on a hill, and needed his knee to be rebuilt. He had no insurance and very little income, so the medical center did it at no cost. All hospitals that receive public funds, such as Medicare for the elderly and Medicaid for the poor, also have an allowance for those who need care but cannot pay. Someone pregnant with no insurance would qualify for Medicaid virtually every time, and if she didn’t, the hospital would still deliver the baby. We don’t have wards here, so she would be in a private room, semi private at the worst, and would be treated the same as anyone else. Doctors rarely know who has insurance and who doesn’t, as it is handled through a billing department,

JudgeJ · 20/07/2022 23:14

BlueberryJammy · 19/07/2022 10:41

There was no self serve gas in Delaware either!

I love the Aussie/ Kiwi thing of supermarkets putting out empty cardboard boxes near the checkout counters. So, we could just pack our groceries in them and take them to the car. Back in the UK, we've kept a cardboard box in the boot for grocery shopping - haven't used plastic bags in ages

It used to be the norm in the UK to have empty cardboard boxes available for packing the shopping, that would be 60s/70s, ironically it was recycling by the supermarkets that put an end to it. One thing, as newly weds, we always argued about was OH's habit of emptying the box then putting the box, unflattened into the bin, the old small tin bins too, no room for anything else.

BigShoe · 20/07/2022 23:14

Nobody would buy a kettle for the sole purpose of using it to boil water to put in a pan though.

Interesting about the similarities between the Scottish and USA education systems. There are definitely a lot of high schools in Scotland eg Our Lady's High etc. I hadn't really thought about that before.

AllTheAll · 20/07/2022 23:15

Good thread.

A few answers and I have some questions as well.

Herb
theconversation.com/haitch-or-aitch-how-a-humble-letter-was-held-hostage-by-historical-haughtiness-97184

Short answer is herb and humble and some other words came to us with silent "H" and was pronounced that way. Then cockney started dropping "H" and to sound less "common" people added "H" to everything, even to words that never started with that sound.

Like people adding the word "myself" anywhere to sound fancier but they just sound incredibly stupid.

Bernaaaaaard
In the northeast of America there's lots of struggle between French and English pronunciations (and probably as other have mentioned bits of Dutch and Yiddish and other influence). The French influence is why we say Bernaaaard and Garaaaaage. Incidentally, why do you say GAR-age?

Hot Water Bottle
For aches? We just take a long shower with our three jets pounding us at once (unless we live in CA or AZ or another drought state) or we take some of our giant bottle of aspirin/paracetamol/ibuprofen. :-)

Question House Switch
What on this green earth is going on with house switching? Sometimes it sounds like people get on a list of public housing and put in their criteria and then beep boop boop you get a flat with your specs and somebody gets your flat? And is this with furniture?

Then it sounds like people are buying and selling in the switch but they have to happen at the same time (in America this is a "contingency" - if you have to sell a house first, you have that contingency and it's less attractive to buyers and they may not choose you.). But you can't lie about this stuff or change it. We put in earnest money in escrow. But in UK it sounds more flopsy?

Question - Partially Asked and Answered - Was Sat
Why is this good grammar? I was sat looking after my child, etc. Also "learnt" is another one we have moved on from in America and would not pass as professional- but it's correct and from a Brit it's A-OK and even expected.

Thank You
A Sincere Thank You for Telling me about Headlines. I'm sure my UK friends want to scream at me but are too polite. So Thank You.

SenecaFallsRedux · 20/07/2022 23:17

UndertheCedartree · 20/07/2022 23:01

Do you never cook pasta? Much quicker to just boil a kettle than heat in a pan (but maybe not for you due to the voltage issue.)

Yes, we cook pasta occasionally. We just heat the water in the pot.

Plus, we don't really have room for an electric kettle sitting out on the counter, especially one that we would not use very often. The space is already taken up with an air fryer, the coffee maker, a toaster, and a KitchenAid mixer.

gimmepeaceandsky · 20/07/2022 23:18

TheGander · 20/07/2022 21:13

This is for Spaniards. How do you manage on apparently little sleep. Ie eat at 8/9/10 at night, go to bed at midnight or later, then get up in the morning for work, day after day. And how do you get your kids up for school after they’ve been to bed late too? Also, I have seen pasta in the Spanish supermarket, so how do you manage to cook it without a kettle- do you boil a big pan from scratch every time- those electricity bills are going to tell. Thanks in advance.

Good question :) I’m not Spanish but South American and our cultures are very similar.
living in the UK for 13 years I would never imagine myself having dinner at 5pm, and login to bed around 9pm :(
We also have dinner very late, the reason behind it is because we work long hours, the traffic back home is horrendous so, around 8 is when you showered and is ready for dinner. If you so happy hour like I used to do, nearly Monday-Friday, dinner is even later when you get back home.
it’s just that we are used to enjoy more life and the day after work. That’s all :)
Of course life takes over and we had kids, is not the same anymore, I am used to eat at 6pm and bed at 9, but over there everybody follows the same dinners time, 7-8pm then bed for the children and adults enjoy a bit more :)
We don’t have kettles as well, is very hand I must admit and I love a fast ready coffee.
we just boil water on the job and make a proper filtered coffee, we made a whole jar and keep drinking along the day in our mini coffee cups like in Italy….miserable size I know lol
Im not a tea person, I love large cup of coffees.

SenecaFallsRedux · 20/07/2022 23:22

BigShoe · 20/07/2022 23:14

Nobody would buy a kettle for the sole purpose of using it to boil water to put in a pan though.

Interesting about the similarities between the Scottish and USA education systems. There are definitely a lot of high schools in Scotland eg Our Lady's High etc. I hadn't really thought about that before.

The term "high school" in the US comes directly from the Royal High School in Edinburgh.

SausageinaBun · 20/07/2022 23:25

With the distinction between College (undergrad only) and University (offers post grad) in the US, do both Colleges and Universities do research or are Colleges teaching facilities only?

In the UK our universities generally offer undergrad, postgrad and do research, so I am not sure how the research could be split out.

UndertheCedartree · 20/07/2022 23:30

mathanxiety · 19/07/2022 03:16

Wrt fitting in the subjects - high school is a four year period. There is no exam midway through after which you narrow down your subjects.

A high school day in my local HS goes from 8-3:15. Students do a homeroom period of 10ish minutes, followed by eight periods of class. Three of those periods are taken up by lunch, PE, and study hall. That leaves five academic periods. Some students who do music performance miss study hall and do music instead. You do five subjects every day therefore.

An example of a course load for one year (two semesters) would be:
English, maths, history, biology, Latin.
The following year you would do chemistry instead of biology and the year after that physics and psychology instead of chemistry and history. For your final year you might drop Latin and do studio art, US government, environmental science, maths and English.

There are endless permutation and combinations of courses possible, with over a hundred courses to choose from, and on top of that you can do summer school to fit in art courses or to advance a year in maths, or do a history course. You can also repeat a core subject course if you failed it during the school year.

Kids who are going to university have to have a minimum of three years of maths and English, a mfl or Latin, at least two years of history/ humanities, and at least three years of lab science. Kids who want to get into a good university will do their courses at honors or AP level.

Students don't progress through school in a cohort of their peers - classes can be composed of students of any age from 14 to 18. Students are placed in classes according to aptitude and/or previous grades, not age. The exception is drivers Ed, which is for students who will turn 16 by the end of the school year.

Thank you for that - very interesting.

SenecaFallsRedux · 20/07/2022 23:31

Faculty members of colleges are expected to publish so, yes, they do research.

Another use of the word college is for a particular division within a university. So there might be a college of liberal arts or a college of engineering, although often the word school is used. Another example is an undergraduate college within a university. For example, Harvard College is the undergraduate division of Harvard University.

gimmepeaceandsky · 20/07/2022 23:34

Question for English women please:
Why some women speaks in a way that they drag the end of each word as if they are singing ?
I find it extremely irritating. Is this some type of “posh” talking or what ? Do they realise they are doing this ?

Why in the UK people get in contact with you, text you saying we should meet up but never make the time for it, and then say it again, and never happens. I feel confused, I started to loose the trust in people / don’t care anymore to be honest. Is sad.

Is calling someone “hun” ok ? Please explain :) kkk

Is saying “bloody” … something really bad ? Or just a way of speaking about something when you are very angry and Ok ish ?

Why there’s no special meal for Christmas dinner when you already had roast the whole year ? Haha

Why girls dress the bare minimum clothes to go out at night in the winter knowing that will be extremely cold ?

Why kissing and hugging basically everybody when you say hello or goodbye is like a sin? Lol

sorry for so many questions, it’s been a long time I’m stuck with them and this is a great forum 👍🏻

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