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WatermelonWaveclub · 18/07/2022 21:11

Just for fun. DD and I were just watching a video where Americans were asking questions about the UK. What are your questions (can be for any nationality from any nationality)? And please feel free to answer other people's questions!

I'll start with some questions for Americans:

Are your grocery bags really those ones without handles? They look really awkward to carry!

Why do you not have electric kettles?

In High school films the English teacher for example always gives them some homework to do by the next day and says 'see you tomorrow' - do you have the same classes every day? We just had English twice a week or something!

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MissConductUS · 20/07/2022 21:05

I can't believe I've somehow missed this thread up until now. The questions about the US have generally been answered well. But just to toss in my two cents,

  • we do say goodbye or similar at the end of a conversation.
  • I have a kettle, but not an electric one. If I want to boil water to make pour-over filter coffee, I heat it on my gas stove hob.
  • @unname gave a good summary of health insurance options, but left out subsidized private coverage available through the Affordable Care Act (aka Obamacare) for people who earn too much to qualify for Medicaid and don't have coverage from employment.
ScottishStar · 20/07/2022 21:06

whoamI00 · 20/07/2022 21:03

Question for European mums.. (but not all European): I might be wrong but it seems maternity leave is about 3 months or so in a lot of European countries. I'm genuinely curious who looks after babies majority of times when the maternity leave ends and once mums go back to work?

Childminders or nurseries take babies from 3 months and sometimes even 2 months old in France. It’s just normal. That’s another thing I much prefer here actually. Being a stay at home mum or working part time is still seen as too traditional and ‘back to the 50s’ in France.

MissConductUS · 20/07/2022 21:12

I always thought Americans studied a broader curriculum as they don't cut down to 3 subjects for A level. But sounds like they don't study that much of a broad range of subjects in general. Only 2 years of a language? Or would they have started learning a language in Primary school?

Actually they do. My kids studied everything from Astronomy to Accounting in high school. The two year requirement for a foreign language is two years in secondary school. They start language study earlier, at least in New York. Some of the curriculum requirements are set at the state level.

TheGander · 20/07/2022 21:13

This is for Spaniards. How do you manage on apparently little sleep. Ie eat at 8/9/10 at night, go to bed at midnight or later, then get up in the morning for work, day after day. And how do you get your kids up for school after they’ve been to bed late too? Also, I have seen pasta in the Spanish supermarket, so how do you manage to cook it without a kettle- do you boil a big pan from scratch every time- those electricity bills are going to tell. Thanks in advance.

Udre · 20/07/2022 21:17

Am I getting it wrong or I am living in one of the worst places in UK. EU national and cannot get my head around the fact that my child was the only one dressed smartly for his y6 leavers party at school. Everyone else was in T- shirts+ shorts or something very casual.
In addition, there is no grades, marks.....nothing when they finish primary school. Its just a below/at/above. Yes, I did received sats results but still. It is difficult to go from everything marked and reported to working towards.....BUT I DO like British schools.

CherrySocks · 20/07/2022 21:19

Why do Americans often say "back yard" instead of "garden"?

Is a yard something with hard ground rather than soil?
Is a back garden not very common in the USA?

Pruella · 20/07/2022 21:19

How do you manage on apparently little sleep. Ie eat at 8/9/10 at night, go to bed at midnight or later

They are more tired - it’s recognised as a problem in Spain and there have been campaigns about getting children to bed earlier as they’ve too tired to learn.

Camomila · 20/07/2022 21:20

I'm Italian and no one boils pasta water in a kettle - it's something I've only heard of people doing here in the UK.

(One of my nonnas had a kettle, the other boils water for tea on the hob).

CatAndHisKit · 20/07/2022 21:21

ScottishStar thank you! I've heard that the French wer narrow minded, which really surpises me - I thought it was left-leaning and all the revolutions / women like Joan d'Arc being admired, Coco Chanel! so especially women's rights isues surprise me. Does this actually translate into daily life with being rude etc?

unname · 20/07/2022 21:22

TwentyOneTwentyTwo · 20/07/2022 20:08

@Anonymous48 I don't think we've ever had theme parks like these, that's the sort of thing I mean.

I can't imagine it would ever have been allowed in Europe.

I wasn't familiar with these. Kansas apparently has no mechanism for inspecting rides. That's insane and not typical in the US.

But, all kinds of bad things do happen in UK and Europe at Amusement Parks.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incidents_at_European_amusement_parks

Devora13 · 20/07/2022 21:23

I would be interested to know how other nationalities would describe their humour. We Brits often have this sense of superiority around our sarcasm being a more intellectual form of humour, but there can often be a real passive aggressive/condescending flavour to it. At the same time, we judge some nationalities of having no sense of humour, being loud and brash or simply bizarre (think Eurotrash).
We conveniently forget some of the awful 70s stuff like Dick Emery and Benny Hill.

BlodynGwyn · 20/07/2022 21:26

Here in America we have electric kettles and they turn themselves off when they reach boiling point.

Walmart sells two or three different kinds. The cheapest costs $12.99 last time I looked.

Also, tea is sold in our supermarkets. So we drink it here. Yorkshire tea or PG Tips tea bags are sold in Safeway. I buy the Extra Strong PG Tips.

People don't just hang up the phone in real life without saying something such as goodbye.

I was just making an appointment over the phone and the receptionist ended the call by saying, "You enjoy the rest of your day" and I replied, "You too. Bye" and she said, "Bye".

Not all Americans say, 'Could care less'. Those who do are ignorant.

Agapornis · 20/07/2022 21:26

Cervinia · 20/07/2022 19:29

Hey I’m English, I love both black pudding and haggis! traditional Scottish food is awesome.

my question is to people in the Netherlands, Scandi countries and Germany who all seem to speak English effortlessly.

Is it true that you grow up watching American and possibly British TV in English with your own language as subtitles and therefore subconsciously learn the language at an early age by hearing spoken English before you can read written language of your own country?

The Netherlands: the subtitle thing is true, but that theory is unlikely to be true because kids TV is mainly in Dutch. Not sure I learnt much from Keeping Up Appearances and Ab Fab Grin
More likely it's because English is a compulsory subject from age 10-11 until secondary school exams (age 16,17, or 18), and has been since the 80s. Some schools choose to teach it from age 4-5, others 8-9. Some secondary (and a few primary) schools offer a bilingual curriculum where non-language subjects are taught in English. Quite a few universities teach in English.

Also, no one speaks Dutch abroad and it's a tiny country, so if you want to holiday beyond the Netherlands, English is far more useful!

BlodynGwyn · 20/07/2022 21:28

A question for Brits; why do you say 'floor' instead of 'ground' when you are outside and why do you say, 'Sat' and 'stood' instead of 'sit' and 'stand'? No one said these things when I lived there.

unname · 20/07/2022 21:31

Devora13 · 20/07/2022 21:23

I would be interested to know how other nationalities would describe their humour. We Brits often have this sense of superiority around our sarcasm being a more intellectual form of humour, but there can often be a real passive aggressive/condescending flavour to it. At the same time, we judge some nationalities of having no sense of humour, being loud and brash or simply bizarre (think Eurotrash).
We conveniently forget some of the awful 70s stuff like Dick Emery and Benny Hill.

You Brit do possess a superior sense of humor. Seriously.

I don't think there is a particular "American" sense of humor. Too many of our comedians confuse being shocking or gross with being funny.

ScottishStar · 20/07/2022 21:32

CatAndHisKit · 20/07/2022 21:21

ScottishStar thank you! I've heard that the French wer narrow minded, which really surpises me - I thought it was left-leaning and all the revolutions / women like Joan d'Arc being admired, Coco Chanel! so especially women's rights isues surprise me. Does this actually translate into daily life with being rude etc?

Definitely. And people are so brutally honest and tell you exactly what they think!

zoeFromCity · 20/07/2022 21:33

gigglinggirl · 20/07/2022 20:34

Do other countries have egg and spoon races, sack races and three legged races? Was wondering this at DD’s Sports Day today…

Czech - yes, all of those are known here, sack for small children mostly, other two even with older

NoNoNoooo · 20/07/2022 21:34

Has this been asked already?

What do other nationalities think of the British on holiday?

Trixiefirecracker · 20/07/2022 21:34

BlodynGwyn · 20/07/2022 21:28

A question for Brits; why do you say 'floor' instead of 'ground' when you are outside and why do you say, 'Sat' and 'stood' instead of 'sit' and 'stand'? No one said these things when I lived there.

We don’t say floor I don’t think! Only inside. Ground is for outside! I don’t understand the last bit. Sit is present tense so ‘I sit down’ and Sat is passed tense ‘I sat down’…same with stood (past tense) and stand (present) …you’ll have to give an example of what you mean!

PearlClutch · 20/07/2022 21:37

TheGander · 20/07/2022 21:13

This is for Spaniards. How do you manage on apparently little sleep. Ie eat at 8/9/10 at night, go to bed at midnight or later, then get up in the morning for work, day after day. And how do you get your kids up for school after they’ve been to bed late too? Also, I have seen pasta in the Spanish supermarket, so how do you manage to cook it without a kettle- do you boil a big pan from scratch every time- those electricity bills are going to tell. Thanks in advance.

Siesta!

SenecaFallsRedux · 20/07/2022 21:39

Trixiefirecracker · 20/07/2022 21:34

We don’t say floor I don’t think! Only inside. Ground is for outside! I don’t understand the last bit. Sit is present tense so ‘I sit down’ and Sat is passed tense ‘I sat down’…same with stood (past tense) and stand (present) …you’ll have to give an example of what you mean!

Maybe the question is related to the construction "I was sat, etc." as opposed to the more correct "I was sitting." You often see it on MN as in "he was sat on his phone all afternoon." I don't remember people using this construction when I lived in the UK (but it was many moons ago.)

BlodynGwyn · 20/07/2022 21:39

CherrySocks · 20/07/2022 21:19

Why do Americans often say "back yard" instead of "garden"?

Is a yard something with hard ground rather than soil?
Is a back garden not very common in the USA?

When Americans say garden they are often talking about a vegetable garden. "Are you growing a garden this year"? they often ask each other. I'm a serious gardener and have lots of lawn, trees, flowers and shrubs covering a large area. I will not have it called a 'yard'. I bristle visitors whom I'm giving a tour to call it a yard and tell them it's a garden not a yard and if they call it a yard again I tell them to call it an arboretum.

antelopevalley · 20/07/2022 21:40

3amAndImStillAwake · 19/07/2022 03:59

I am Scottish and I would like to know how the English can actually be arsed to make a roast every Sunday!!

I don't know anyone who does a Sunday roast every Sunday.

I only know one person who does a roast every single week.

TheGander · 20/07/2022 21:43

@PearlClutch my understanding is the siesta is seriously under threat and most Spaniards don’t indulge anymore.

CatatonicLadybug · 20/07/2022 21:45

CherrySocks · 20/07/2022 21:19

Why do Americans often say "back yard" instead of "garden"?

Is a yard something with hard ground rather than soil?
Is a back garden not very common in the USA?

They are two separate things in the same place. The spot where we planted things to grow then eat = the garden. The whole space of land behind the house = back yard. The space in front of the house = front yard. The combined area front and back = the yard.

I actually thought it was lovely to hear it called a garden when I moved here. It's a nicer word!

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