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Neighbour has cut my tree...a lot!

274 replies

NeighbourCutMyTree · 18/07/2022 09:23

How much is usual? I know they can trim overhanging branches, they've gone right to the top of the tree. I'll see if I can add a photo.

OP posts:
WinterMusings · 18/07/2022 10:53

saraclara · 18/07/2022 10:00

You can, as long as the tree is carefully checked for nests.
I had some work done in May, and one large laurel bush had to left because there was a nest. The tree surgeon was meticulous in checking.

Well clearly this idiot is no tree surgeon & would probably be surprised to learn that birds nest in trees & do lots of good for the environment! I think @Tauranga has it right, they're probably bothered by real leaves on their plastic grass.

Tessasanderson · 18/07/2022 10:56

HideousKinky · 18/07/2022 10:47

I am aghast at this, We have many large trees, a couple of which overhang a neighbour's garden. We offer at intervals to cut for her and she lets us know when she wants it done, then DH spends half a day doing it. There needs to be a dialogue about it between you

You sound like a responsible neighbour who respects your neighbours. Not all people who have trees act like this though. As many have said on here, lots of tree owners only care about their view of the tree and neglect to maintain the view the neighbours get with all the associated encroachment and mess it can bring

80sMum · 18/07/2022 10:57

TrashyPanda · 18/07/2022 09:35

What they have done is totally fine.

that’s far too big a tree for a back garden

Whether or not it's deemed to be too big would depend on the size of the garden, I think. We have mature oaks and firs in our garden, close to the boundaries, but they are 200 feet away from the house.

ThreeLittleDots · 18/07/2022 10:58

No, there doesn't need to be a dialogue at all, apart from the neighbour offering the cut branches back.

Somethingneedstochange · 18/07/2022 10:58

I've seen this done before.😂😂😂Was it blocking your neighbours light?

sidheandlight · 18/07/2022 10:59

Tessasanderson · 18/07/2022 10:44

Always makes me laugh when someone complains about someone trimming a tree on their side and moaning about lack of discussion, notice of intended works. That is a BIG tree which would take a bit of work to trim. If YOU had been the nice neighbour then YOU would have realised it was encroaching on your neighbours land and already offered to have it professionally trimmed to BOTH of your requirements.

TBH if it was me it looks like they started to struggle higher up. I would have lopped the last 6ft off.

My guess is you have other trees in that garden. Maybe go and look at them all as if you were a neighbour who hates trees. Consider IF it would be good to get in first and pay someone to trim them all before other neighbours deem it a good idea to trim them.

who put a bee in your bonnet, your going to upset yourself on this fine day. I'd be growing more trees back from the boundary so they don't overhang and in such a position that they block as much light as possible OP.

mam0918 · 18/07/2022 11:04

Love people saying thats too big a tree, you shouldnt have it so close to their fence, your selfish etc...

Its NATURE people and its a simple tree not a planted rose and ivy boarder or topiary bush lol.

Every single plant in my garden (and my parents garden) planted themselves and my options are to pull/kill them (unnecasery, hard work, bad for the enviroment and expensive) or leave them.

Im certainly not digging up the bloody oak trees that are 3 times taller than me (dispite only being 2-3 years old) to move them a few foot over because a person deemed they grew close to a manmade up boundry line lol.

Januarytoes · 18/07/2022 11:05

BewareTheBeardedDragon · 18/07/2022 09:32

It looks like there are several trunks? If so perhaps cut the now lopsided one, and keep the one that's fully in your garden?

This is what I'd do and I'd also apologise that it was overhanging their garden.

Annfr · 18/07/2022 11:05

Sorry but I would have done the same.

Our neighbour has an apple tree just the other side of the fence. They don't maintain it. Every year it drops apples in our garden that flattern and ruin my plants if I don't do anything. Every Autumn I get a proper tree surgeon to cut every last bit that hangs over my fence. It's bloody annoying as it's £100 to sort out someone else's tree that should never have been that close to a fence.

easyday · 18/07/2022 11:05

Three neighbours trees overhang my very small London garden. I love them. They provide privacy, shade and look beautiful. It's one thing if a tree is cutting out all your light, but your tree looks fairly vertical. They may be allowed to under the letter if the law, but it's a shame they couldn't work with you to reach a compromise.

JustlookingNotbuying · 18/07/2022 11:06

Our new neighbours did this to my beautiful 40 year old Mountain Ash tree that my grandparents had planted. It’s all lopsided now. Sadly, nothing we can do as it was hanging over their side (although was at the front garden and doesn’t block light etc), they were within their rights to do so.

Frazzled2207 · 18/07/2022 11:07

I think technically it is fine however they should have discussed it with you if bothered by it and the right thing would have been that you pay for a tree surgeon

Glittertwins · 18/07/2022 11:08

@bruffin : your neighbours certainly can touch your trees with a TPO on them, it just means they have to get planning permission to have them cut back. A reputable tree surgeon will apply for it prior to work.

VioletInsolence · 18/07/2022 11:11

I wouldn’t ask this sort of thing on here. The replies will make you despair!

I despise the type of people who don’t like trees. I had a window replaced with clear glass in my bathroom solely so that I could see my neighbours tree.
I think he’s a bit worried about having it trimmed now because I’ve expressly forbidden him from chopping it down😆.

Trees make an area beautiful. All the ‘middle class’ leafy areas are lovely because of all the trees. Even less aesthetically pleasing areas could look nice with the addition of some mature trees. Obviously I’m concerned about the environmental reasons for not removing trees too and the shade they provide will become more and more important. Without trees I wouldn’t have been able to walk my dogs at 9am in recent weeks.

LorW · 18/07/2022 11:11

Well OP it actually looks terrible on their side so 😂

Whatiswrongwithmyknee · 18/07/2022 11:12

MintJulia · 18/07/2022 09:36

Uhmm, trees provide shade, maintain humidity, prevent soil erosion, provide habitat for multiple species, and release oxygen that combats climate change.

God help the environment, with an attitude like that! 🙄

Not really as trees planted in the middle of your garden and not the edge also provide those benefits!

NoSquirrels · 18/07/2022 11:16

mam0918 · 18/07/2022 11:04

Love people saying thats too big a tree, you shouldnt have it so close to their fence, your selfish etc...

Its NATURE people and its a simple tree not a planted rose and ivy boarder or topiary bush lol.

Every single plant in my garden (and my parents garden) planted themselves and my options are to pull/kill them (unnecasery, hard work, bad for the enviroment and expensive) or leave them.

Im certainly not digging up the bloody oak trees that are 3 times taller than me (dispite only being 2-3 years old) to move them a few foot over because a person deemed they grew close to a manmade up boundry line lol.

Hope you live on a big property, then, and that the oak trees didn’t plant themselves too close to your house.

Nature is amazing. Trees are amazing. In the wrong place they are also extremely costly in the end.

Pulling up a seedling in the wrong place saves a great deal of hassle in the future.

DockOTheBay · 18/07/2022 11:18

TrashyPanda · 18/07/2022 09:35

What they have done is totally fine.

that’s far too big a tree for a back garden

Surely "too big" depends on the size of the garden. My grandparents have a 300 year old oak in their back garden, it's massive in all directions, but their back garden is huge so it's not a problem

C8H10N4O2 · 18/07/2022 11:19

NeighbourCutMyTree · 18/07/2022 09:29

Here's the picture.

What sort of tree is this? It looks like an overgrown shrub with multiple stems although the shape is conifer like.

If its an overgrown shrub they can usually take heavy pruning and come back.

Whammyyammy · 18/07/2022 11:25

Looks reasonable to me, I've trimmed similar overtime my gardens in the past

Baconbutties · 18/07/2022 11:27

Yes they are entitled to do this . It’s unfortunate for the tree.

User12398712 · 18/07/2022 11:27

Is it a holly as some people have suggested? It was probably planted as a hedge plant but if you don't keep them trimmed, they will grow up into trees. They aren't particularly nice garden trees as the leaves drop and don't rot away like deciduous leaves so you have a prickly carpet.

OhmygodDont · 18/07/2022 11:28

If it was overhanging their boundary then they are free to chop it back.

we have loads of trees and bushes and just like the neighbours we make sure there’s no encroachment.

milkyaqua · 18/07/2022 11:31

How are people supposed to "maintain" a tree? It's not a flipping bonsai.

Maurepas · 18/07/2022 11:32

OP from photo it looks like it might be a dreaded Leylandii? They are not suited to small English gardens (or any gardens?) at all and can grow to 90m.

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