To think DH sleeping whilst looking after a baby is unacceptable?

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DH was looking after our baby, (not tiny but nearly walking independently) and napping toddler whilst I was out.

Got home to find out DH had been sleeping, then baby fell asleep on the carpet, and the toddler had been napping for over 3 hours! DH can't understand why I'm upset. AIBU?

If he fell asleep while the baby was still awake, which it sounds like, that’s not acceptable.

My father did this when my sister and I were the same ages, several times and there were a couple of very near misses. It was while she was at work. In the end she had to give up her job as she could never be sure we were safe. He was pissed off at the loss of money but when she pointed out that it was because of him that she had had to resign he never mentioned it again.

Also I agree that it isnt the sleeping thats the problem, we have all needed a nap in the day with young kids who dont always sleep through. Its the fact that he didnt make sure that they were safe first, and didnt set an alarm.

I'm just jealous of anyone who's baby is able to just fall asleep on the floor without assistance!

Based on just the information in the post YABU.
No doubt there'll be some massive drip feed to say YANBU.

As long as he'd made the room secure first, I think you may be getting this out of proportion.

What do you think single mums do?

When my DS was small, if I was short of sleep or poorly, I'd lock us in my bedroom, set up some toys on his mat on the floor, and try to get ds to nap beside me. But if he woke up, he was safe and happy.

When he wasn't happy, he'd let me know.

God well this is embarrassing, completely forgot I posted this 😮

Well obvs Im not bothered if he has a nap. But he fell asleep leaving a 14 month old unattended. And no, he hadnt been up all night.

And no effort to make the room safe or put her in a playpen or anything like that.