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Tax childless adults

542 replies

Acidburn · 04/07/2022 13:41

Hi all

Just saw the below article on LBC news:

www.lbc.co.uk/news/childless-tax-birthrate-uk-cost-of-living-paul-morland/

AIBU to think that this insane?

OP posts:
YetAnotherSpartacus · 06/07/2022 13:53

Some of the 'oh, but what about women who cannot have children?' comments on this thread have been really disturbing and divisive. That's all very unfortunate but the inference is that these women are somehow 'blameless' unlike those unnatural women who freely choose to remain unchilded.

FourTeaFallOut · 06/07/2022 13:56

The whole thing is fucking ridiculous.

Covidagainandagain · 06/07/2022 13:56

FourTeaFallOut · 06/07/2022 13:52

I do think it would make you a better feminist.

Women either have children or we don't have children. We all have a dog in this fight, right? But we are pitted against one another. It's distraction. It achieves nothing except the denigration and erosion of both sides. It serves none of us.

Well I tell you what when I see you all over the threads where I have been called a paedophile, or unworthy of a decent house, or unworthy of taking leave when parents want it calling those people out individually then I will pay more attention to how you think I can be a better feminist.

In the meantime I will continue to have my own opinions thanks.

FourTeaFallOut · 06/07/2022 13:57

Fine, and I'll continue to think that you have been as manipulated as the idiots who hurt you.

Covidagainandagain · 06/07/2022 13:57

YetAnotherSpartacus · 06/07/2022 13:53

Some of the 'oh, but what about women who cannot have children?' comments on this thread have been really disturbing and divisive. That's all very unfortunate but the inference is that these women are somehow 'blameless' unlike those unnatural women who freely choose to remain unchilded.

I think some of us who are saying but what about those of us who can't have children are just saying it because we are seeing it from our perspective. But I defend any man or womens right to choose not to have children and you shouldn't be made to feel any different

Covidagainandagain · 06/07/2022 13:58

FourTeaFallOut · 06/07/2022 13:57

Fine, and I'll continue to think that you have been as manipulated as the idiots who hurt you.

Two throw away sarcastic comments in the whole thread are the only ones you have decided are worthy of this much attention.

Yeah, I'm the only one being manipulated here

But thanks for implying I'm an idiot, makes a change to unworthy at least

FourTeaFallOut · 06/07/2022 14:00

And I'm pretty outspoken on all those issues. I mean, mn is a big space but you can run through my post, it's all there.

FourTeaFallOut · 06/07/2022 14:01

Yeah, the whole thread is largely idiotic. Different shades of the same divisive, distracting shit.

rainbowmilk · 06/07/2022 14:25

I remember posting suggesting that I’d like it if flexible working practices were extended to me as they’d have a benefit (I didn’t say what for but I’m disabled). I had at least three women tell me I didn’t need them as I wasn’t a mother, and those who wanted flexible must to take second place to those who needed them.

Not one person called those women misogynistic, despite them saying that something shouldn’t be freely available to women who’ve not reproduced. Oddly enough though when I objected to the response I got, I was called misogynistic for not supporting mothers and therefore womens rights, and for wanting to see women put back to the 50s.

I can see why childless women get fed up, when the “feminism!!!” argument only gets brought out to protect mothers.

JemimaPuddlegoose · 06/07/2022 14:28

It's always women being pitted against each other.

There's no indication in the article that a tax would be only a tax on women (and how would that work in practice, would transwomen be taxed? Could women say they identify as men to get out of being taxed?) but penalising men for not having impregnated a woman has far more severe consequences than penalising women.

If this actually happened, it would essentially incentivise rape and reproductive control. We already live in a rape culture; this will legitimise and reward marital rape and forced pregnancy (which is already a known part of domestic violence).

And will it only affect married couples? Do people have to be actively raising their children to avoid tax, or is it simply the act of procreation that counts? If single men are taxed for not having knocked someone up, what on earth will that result in - men desperately trying to knock up the first random woman they see in a ONS then run off to avoid being taxed?

riesenrad · 06/07/2022 14:30

how do we square the circle that we do not have enough young people to carry out work that needs doing, while at the same time the world is over populated

employers could start being less fussy about who they recruit and not expecting 20 year olds to have 10 years' experience; they could invest in training and of course we were a member of a club of other countries which meant their residents could choose to come and work here.

FourTeaFallOut · 06/07/2022 14:31

They'd definitely have a benefit to me too. I gave up on trying to balance my chronic illness with a regular job and have retreated to working a mundane job from home. It's not my first choice but the only workable one I had. I'm not sure I've ever thought about it against a feminist framework but I would absolutely (if rather self servingly) defend your proposition - for what good it would do.

riesenrad · 06/07/2022 14:33

TimBoothseyes · 05/07/2022 15:31

Would smug parents like it if we charged them more or docked their pensions when their offspring turn out to be useless drains on society

Now that I would support. It might mean that some parents actually parent their kids, instead of letting them run wild (yes neighbour I am thinking about you, your charming offspring and the brick incident through the windscreen incident).

Yes but who decides who's a drain on society?

FourTeaFallOut · 06/07/2022 14:41

Do people have to be actively raising their children to avoid tax, or is it simply the act of procreation that counts?

Could they return their self assessment complete with a sperm donation?

Phrenologistsfinger · 06/07/2022 14:54

rainbowmilk · 06/07/2022 13:40

Intriguingly, I've only ever heard the "it's not feminist!" line when childless women are complaining about their treatment at the hands of women who've become mothers. The deification of motherhood is deeply ingrained in sexist thinking, and challenging the way that manifests itself is just as important as any other type of feminist action.

This

FortonServices · 06/07/2022 15:24

Be fair now, they only want to be paid for unprotected sex, that does usually come at a slightly higher rate after all

😂

FortonServices · 06/07/2022 15:27

Yes but who decides who's a drain on society?

We could have an arbitrary rule like the one that's being proposed for childless adults.

Any child who isn't earning 30k a year by the time they are 30 years old is classed as a drain on the tax payer and their parents lose access to their state pension?

CourtneeLuv · 06/07/2022 15:31

Acidburn · 04/07/2022 13:41

Hi all

Just saw the below article on LBC news:

www.lbc.co.uk/news/childless-tax-birthrate-uk-cost-of-living-paul-morland/

AIBU to think that this insane?

Stupid cnt.

We already pay more tax for services we don't use, or use A LOT less.

Maybe we should have our tax adjusted to remove the education etc bits then we might have more left over for ivf.

🙄🙄🙄

rainbowmilk · 06/07/2022 16:20

@CourtneeLuv Tax adjustment would also help us to provide more towards our own retirement so that we're not burdening anyone's children with having to wipe our selfish non-reproductive arses. No discrimination between childless not by choice and childfree!

antelopevalley · 06/07/2022 16:29

Paying totally for your own retirement is unrealistic for some. Either because you were in low-paid work, your nursery and childcare workers could not save for their own retirement. Or because you have care needs that are expensive. Contrary to the narrative on Mn most people do not go into care homes. Some never need paid care like my parents, others need only carers coming into the house for the last few months. But a smaller number of people do need more expensive care.

antelopevalley · 06/07/2022 16:31

If you really want people to save more towards their own retirement you have to guarantee them a decent state pension. Because for many people, a small private pension leaves them worse off than a state pension plus benefits. A private pension is only worth it if it gives you quite a bit more than you would get in benefits.

hatchyu · 06/07/2022 16:50

This thread is quite eye opening in terms of how some women say they have been treated by other woman who happen to be mothers.

I have friends & family who aren't interested in having dc, it's pretty irrelevant in terms of our friendships with each other. Maybe it's because I'm in a london & lots of woman aren't mothers & those that are start later.

antelopevalley · 06/07/2022 17:01

I do not think it is about mothers.
There is a certain kind of person who sees anyone making different choices to them as being critical of them as a person.

Bubblebubblebah · 06/07/2022 17:13

antelopevalley · 06/07/2022 17:01

I do not think it is about mothers.
There is a certain kind of person who sees anyone making different choices to them as being critical of them as a person.

Imho it comes from insecurity about own choices. Some comments us childree/childless recieve are disgusting.

TheWeeDonkey · 06/07/2022 17:13

hatchyu · 06/07/2022 16:50

This thread is quite eye opening in terms of how some women say they have been treated by other woman who happen to be mothers.

I have friends & family who aren't interested in having dc, it's pretty irrelevant in terms of our friendships with each other. Maybe it's because I'm in a london & lots of woman aren't mothers & those that are start later.

I'm not in London, but I've had my own fertility issues. Although I adore my son I'm not particularly maternal and comfortable with an only child.

I would never judge another woman for not having children be it through choice or circumstance and like you say it's pretty irrelevant to my friendships.

It feels like as women we are constantly judged be it for not having kids, not having enough kids, having too many kids, not raising them right etc etc etc for and its boring, unhelpful and pointless.

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