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To think it is wrong to smoke and breastfeed?

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Solesister · 02/07/2022 14:42

My friend thinks this is ok and I really really don’t! Surely the toxins get into the milk?

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MolliciousIntent · 11/07/2022 14:55

Solesister · 11/07/2022 14:54

I am not saying I am the perfect parent, I am saying my friend thinks it is ok to smoke just because she breastfeeds which I completely disagree with.

Yeah she's absolutely wrong. But she shouldn't stop breastfeeding.

Samsnite · 11/07/2022 14:58

She intended to formula feed initially but felt ‘too guilty’ 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

OdeToSadDisco · 11/07/2022 14:58

Of course it goes without saying that it's far better not to smoke, but the science says it's better for a smoking mother to beeastfeed than formula feed.

Hugasauras · 11/07/2022 14:59

Yep every source I've read says it's better to breastfeed and smoke than to smoke and formula feed. Obviously ideally no one would smoke when they have a baby at all, but if the smoking is going to happen regardless then it seems breastfeeding is still preferable.

The thinking that 'If I breastfeed then it's perfectly safe/fine to smoke' is warped though.

Samsnite · 11/07/2022 15:01

Her baby is also terribly colicky and unsettled, constant chest infections etc but she still doesn’t question it?

Dogtooth · 11/07/2022 15:08

You're absolutely right OP, that's why all handmaids should be transported to health camps as soon as they're impregnated

MolliciousIntent · 11/07/2022 15:09

Honestly I'm not surprised that someone stupid enough to smoke is also stupid enough to believe that breastfeeding means it's OK to smoke with a baby

ivorthengine · 11/07/2022 20:46

at the same time?

Definitely

girlfriend44 · 11/07/2022 21:00

It's disgusting to smoke full stop breastfeeding or not.

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