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Fit to EXPLODE - re work colleague

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cofingalthetime · 30/06/2022 09:16

Sorry for the rant, but honestly, I feel like screaming.

So a colleague, who has worked with me for about 18 months just finished in this role, and has a new job - different department.

BUT, she just won't "let go" of her role. I'm supposed to be looking after her work until they get someone, which I was so happy to do as I don't have enough to do at work, and I want to be busy.

Already the manager has tried to take work off me, and says she will do it until they get a new person - but I argued and said it was no problem

Anyway, what is making me explode today is this colleague is actually on Annual Leave, starting today, until Tuesday - but she is still on her email - she sent her first one at 7.30 this morning. She won't put on an out of office directing queries to me, or to the generic inbox. She is replying to everything, and doing everything herself and just copying me in. I responded and asked her to put on OOO directing them to me, and saying she's on leave, but she hasn't replied and in the meantime has replied to more emails. i've copied in the manager, but she is silent - as she always has been since this started - colleague has been trying to do her job and mine since she began in the role.

It's just so demoralising - I mean what is the point of me even being there. She had a meeting with another person yesterday, and told them she was moving role, but they could still contact her whenever they want. I just replied to an email that came through to the generic inbox - but was too late - she got there first!!!!!!!!!!!

I feel like just logging off and letting her get on with it. I mean, she can't keep doing this can she? The manager hates me, so she just stands back and says nothing, or just laughs it off, and says "ha ha, XXX is just very dedicated".

So fed up

BTW I am looking for another job, but have failed in 2 interviews - it's not easy to get another job - well for me anyway.

OP posts:
onlythreenow · 01/07/2022 08:22

I would just let her get on with it tbh. It certainly wouldn't bother me, if she wants to do two jobs, and especially do work while she is on holiday, then good on her. It's hardly worth getting ready to EXPLODE over.

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 01/07/2022 08:55

RockinHorseShit · 30/06/2022 09:24

Leave. Find another job. You have a control freak on your hands & very ineffective management, this is never going to go well

I would definitely look for another job as others have said. I agree with @RockinHorseShit
I had this in my last role and I got so tired of it. It's such a shitty thing for someone to do. It bit my old work on the butt, now two people have left and they're so short staffed but head office has put a hiring freeze on the whole company. I couldn't help but smile when she said she was going to be over worked.

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