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To miss my old house I was bullied out of

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Thepeasantonland · 26/06/2022 01:10

NC as I don’t want to get even more abuse for possibly identifying this person and myself.

A year ago I had to pack up and leave my house that I loved and spent years making a home for my children and I because we were being bullied by neighbours.

One of the bullies was one of these ‘insta famous’ people. Her and a few others subjected us to abuse daily, harassment, criminal damage and generally just made our lives hell. My partner left me in the midst of it and I had no one to turn to for help. I had no choice but to protect my children and move to a safe house but it’s one I hate and feel unhappy here.

I’m constantly bitter about the fact we were pushed from our home for no good reason at all. No body in authority would help me and I was ignored by everyone including the police, council and doctors. My only option was to escape.

I noticed today a page pop up about the insta woman and saw how everyone thinks the sun shines out her bum, the comments were cult like with everyone worshipping her. I don’t know what I was thinking but I commented about her being a bully behind closed doors and other personal (identifying) details I won’t mention, just to shame her publicly. I was called all sorts of names and accused of lying.

I know I should of ignored and moved on but I still feel like this ring leader is affecting me to date while she gets the privilege of non stop money rolling in and living in her home she’s not pushed out of. All while these so called fans are protecting her and claiming she wouldn’t do those things. One of them told me she hopes my child dies for the lies I told. It’s brought back all the feelings of last year and I feel so deflated. I just want my old house back and the life we loved before she ruined it and took it away and even now she’s smugly ‘winning’ while her little lost puppies sing her praises.

AIBU to wish these cult followers would understand it’s just an act and behind closed doors some of them are abusers, bullies, thieves and so on. Other local people know what I posted is true but many are too scared to speak up.

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Sswhinesthebest · 26/06/2022 12:36

She’s still affecting you. Get one over on her and move on. Whilst the bitterness persists, you’ll be unhappy. Try to let it go and stick a metaphorical two fingers up at her.

FrodisCapering · 26/06/2022 12:43

Does she have a daughter who is also social media-famous?

Amid · 26/06/2022 12:44

Did you never record her ? Do you have an proof ?

Kennykenkencat · 26/06/2022 12:45

I don’t know what I was thinking but I commented about her being a bully behind closed doors and other personal (identifying) details I won’t mention, just to shame her publicly. I was called all sorts of names and accused of lying

If they are so convinced you are lying wouldn’t she take you to court for libel.

Wonder if that is going to come to anything? Or are her followers too in thrall to her and lost their powers of deduction

The police and other authorities have all the details.

Kennykenkencat · 26/06/2022 12:48

For all those saying Karma will get her
I don’t believe in Karma on its own
I believe in helping it along with a little curse
That seems to work.

Kennykenkencat · 26/06/2022 12:58

Even she has responded that she’s never met me and I’m a sad troll trying to ruin her as I’m jealous and want to be an influencer

Given you were neighbours that alone is proof that she is a liar.

Marvellousmadness · 26/06/2022 13:06

Let it go now. Stop following her online. Stop thinking about your old home. Stop feeling like a victim and restart your life. It serves no point on looking back in anger and sadness all the time.

Fuck her. Really.

Stiltonlover · 26/06/2022 13:27

Marvellousmadness · 26/06/2022 13:06

Let it go now. Stop following her online. Stop thinking about your old home. Stop feeling like a victim and restart your life. It serves no point on looking back in anger and sadness all the time.

Fuck her. Really.

This.

"Holding onto resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die."

It was unfair, life's unfair, but don't waste any more of your precious time on this planet on her.

Thepeasantonland · 26/06/2022 13:52

Thank you all I will try and move on as I don’t want to risk any defamation accusations but I’ve already posted about her bullying and when she abused her boyfriend in front of me which she denies although at least 6 people saw. She has a baby but no influencer daughter that I’m aware of no. Sadly she’s allowed to keep her council house regardless of income, perhaps I’m bitter yes but only because my life has been ruined at the hands of her and her ‘friends’ who lived next door. I guess I just wanted to ruin her image and it’s obviously not worked so I have no choice but to move on. If I posted evidence for being neighbours or recordings of her calling me names I’d imagine there would be a court case and I have no interest in that.

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