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To wear a red and white dress to a wedding?

49 replies

lyns86x · 15/06/2022 14:14

It's red with white flowers? I'll probably go for white heels and a nude clutch bag, just super stressed white is off limits! Thoughts please ladies...

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HeyDuggeesFavouriteSquirrel · 15/06/2022 14:16

I just wore a blue and white dress, I felt that blue was the predominant colour and it was fine.

AryaStarkWolf · 15/06/2022 14:17

Nah that's fine, as long as it's not all or mostly white

sorryiasked · 15/06/2022 14:17

Sounds fine (unless bridesmaids are in the same red!)

Crunchymum · 15/06/2022 14:17

Show us the dress.

I am sure it will be fine!

stripesorspotsorwhat · 15/06/2022 14:20

Depends which set of photos you are likely to be in and where you stand - you don't want to upstage everybody else, which red can do sometimes!

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averythinline · 15/06/2022 14:24

Thats a red dress so def not too white...

RhodaDendron · 15/06/2022 14:30

Ah it’s lovely. And great for a wedding.

balalake · 15/06/2022 14:39

Lovely dress and suitable in my opinion.

girlmom21 · 15/06/2022 14:46

That's perfectly fine for a wedding

jevoudrais · 15/06/2022 14:52

Really lovely, I'm sure that can be dressed up really well for a wedding.

Thatswhyimacat · 15/06/2022 14:55

That's nice! I'd be cautious that white shoes are likely to get ruined though?

Marvellousmadness · 15/06/2022 14:59

Its a red dress
But a bit to casual for a wedding imo though

girlmom21 · 15/06/2022 15:00

Thatswhyimacat · 15/06/2022 14:55

That's nice! I'd be cautious that white shoes are likely to get ruined though?

What do you do at weddings?! Grin
Presumably it's a summer wedding. White shoes will be fine!

Knowbodysphool · 15/06/2022 15:08

Red & white are the colours for death in a church I think . It's a lovely dress but possibly to casual for a wedding
I'd choose something else to wear if I had a choice

User76745333 · 15/06/2022 15:10

It's clearly not a white dress. I also agree its a bit casual for a wedding..

lyns86x · 15/06/2022 15:27

Thanks all.

I never said it was white, even the title says red and white.. some of you ladies on here do make me chuckle.

I really like it on me so am definitely going to wear it!! Xx

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Hobbesmanc · 15/06/2022 15:37

My Granny would say blood and bandages - she wouldnt have red and while flowers in the same room.

Looks lovely - enjoy

merryhouse · 15/06/2022 15:38

Knowbodysphool · 15/06/2022 15:08

Red & white are the colours for death in a church I think . It's a lovely dress but possibly to casual for a wedding
I'd choose something else to wear if I had a choice

Given that our church has red carpet, red pew cushions, white walls and white altar cloths (and red trimmings on the major festivals) I don't think anyone's going to be thinking DEATH!! on sight of that dress.

Fabric is absolutely fine. The length on the model is a bit eye-opening for a wedding, but you say it's not the same on you.

steff13 · 15/06/2022 15:42

Why does your body type make the dress look less casual on you? It's a pretty casual dress for a wedding, unless it's a more casual wedding.

Knowbodysphool · 15/06/2022 16:12

merryhouse · 15/06/2022 15:38

Given that our church has red carpet, red pew cushions, white walls and white altar cloths (and red trimmings on the major festivals) I don't think anyone's going to be thinking DEATH!! on sight of that dress.

Fabric is absolutely fine. The length on the model is a bit eye-opening for a wedding, but you say it's not the same on you.

check with your Priest , let’s see what they say
it’s was considered as bad as wearing white but the @lyns86x is going to wear it anyway so it’s completely irrelevant now …..

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 15/06/2022 16:19

Hobbesmanc · 15/06/2022 15:37

My Granny would say blood and bandages - she wouldnt have red and while flowers in the same room.

Looks lovely - enjoy

So would mine but only regarding flowers

Also blue and green should not be seen except upon the queen

I think it's a lovely dress

DappledThings · 15/06/2022 16:21

Red & white are the colours for death in a church I think
Eh? Been a churchgoer all my life, with multiple generations of clergy. Never heard anyone say red and white are associated with death.

Dress is very nice and totally fine for a wedding.

Honeyroar · 15/06/2022 16:25

My florist pulled me aside and mentioned the blood and bandages thing when I wanted red flowers for me and white for bridesmaids. As it happened the wedding never took place, so it didn’t matter (I would’ve had them regardless).

littlegingerone · 15/06/2022 16:26

I get married later this year and it won't bother me if someone wears a completely white dress to the wedding to be honest, I mean it's hardly going to be a wedding dress is it so, anything else is fine! You've found something you like and you're happy in it so those are the most important requirements in my opinion :)