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Unprotected sex scared of pregnancy!!

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cocoo43 · 10/06/2022 23:22

Hey everyone had a little fun time with my partner he ended up not pulling out on my period app it says my ovulation is in 6days I don't want to be pregnant right now is pregnancy chances very low ??

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BlueKaftan · 11/06/2022 15:08

Something tells me the dear OO is destined for many more pregnancies.

youcantparktheresir · 11/06/2022 15:26

Don't believe in contraception 😂

XmasElf10 · 11/06/2022 15:33

We haven’t all found ourselves in this situation! Pulling out is not contraception. Sperm is released into the vagina during sex and not only at ejaculation. It is LESS sperm than with ejaculation but it is not ZERO sperm. Sex without contraception (and pulling out is not contraception) can lead to pregnancy. I don’t want to be pregnant so my choices are no sex or sex with good contraception (and I do know that even that comes with a tiny risk of pregnancy).

Get the MAP and either use contraception (condom, coil, pill, diaphragm) or stop having unprotected sex …. Or accept that you will likely end up pregnant sooner or later.

MaryBeardsShoes · 11/06/2022 15:51

cocoo43 · 11/06/2022 11:13

Thanks to everyone for their kind suggestions but to everyone else with their negativity you need to grow up your acting like we all haven't had a situation like what I'm asking for advice for young or old

I have my reasons on why I do not agree with contraception that's my own opinion that's why I was asking for any other suggestions

But I guess I'm going to have to take the MAP

I can hand on heart say I've never been in this situation. Use contraception.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 11/06/2022 17:36

Is just 17 not around anymore? I knew all of this as soon as I became sexually active.

themonkeysnuts · 11/06/2022 17:40

Dont have sex protected or otherwise then you wont have to worry
Simples

girlmom21 · 11/06/2022 19:03

I have my reasons on why I do not agree with contraception that's my own opinion that's why I was asking for any other suggestions

I guess the other suggestion is don't have sex...

But I guess I'm going to have to take the MAP

I can't imagine a situation where contraception is not ok but the MAP is.

Aquamarine1029 · 11/06/2022 19:07

You don't "agree" with contraception? Is this like not believing in unicorns? 🙄

Stop being so bloody irresponsible.

candyflossxox · 11/06/2022 19:11

Period apps aren't accurate. I was ttc and using period app for ovulation. It was working and then I bought ovulation sticks and Turnt out I was ovulating earlier then what my app was saying. And am now pregnant. So if you don't want to be pregnant right now you should deffo get some form of contraception and not depend on period apps. Morning after pill if ur worried.

Spohn · 11/06/2022 19:15

Ahh, it was a thread you’d commented on, not started, so sorry, OP! I was wrong.

take care of your body and health, don’t put yourself at risk of being pregnant, enjoy life✨

babyjellyfish · 11/06/2022 19:22

Yes, it's possible. Get the morning after pill.

And pulling out is not a method of contraception. You need to be using something reliable.

LaFloristaCalista · 11/06/2022 19:48

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Not in the spirit

LittleMiss01 · 20/02/2023 21:47

hi I wonder if anyone could help me… I was on my period on the 26th of January but I'm unsure what day before the 26th of January I started my period. Then on the 10th of February I had unprotected sex which was 15 days after the 26th of January. I don’t know if I’m a 28 day cycle or 30 day plus cycle nor do I know when I ovulate. I did take an ovulation test on the 11th of February (the day after unprotected sex) which come up 1 strong line and 1 faint line. I’ve been having period like cramping for a few days now but haven’t started my period as of yet. I’m just worried that I could possibly be pregnant. I have ordered pregnancy tests … When would be the best time to take the tests. Any other opinions and help would be grateful. Thank you

HeadacheEarthquake · 20/02/2023 21:55

cocoo43 · 11/06/2022 11:13

Thanks to everyone for their kind suggestions but to everyone else with their negativity you need to grow up your acting like we all haven't had a situation like what I'm asking for advice for young or old

I have my reasons on why I do not agree with contraception that's my own opinion that's why I was asking for any other suggestions

But I guess I'm going to have to take the MAP

You don't want to be pregnant but don't agree with contraception? That's like not agreeing with road safety but wanting to play in traffic. Ffs.

Coffeellama · 20/02/2023 22:04

LittleMiss01 · 20/02/2023 21:47

hi I wonder if anyone could help me… I was on my period on the 26th of January but I'm unsure what day before the 26th of January I started my period. Then on the 10th of February I had unprotected sex which was 15 days after the 26th of January. I don’t know if I’m a 28 day cycle or 30 day plus cycle nor do I know when I ovulate. I did take an ovulation test on the 11th of February (the day after unprotected sex) which come up 1 strong line and 1 faint line. I’ve been having period like cramping for a few days now but haven’t started my period as of yet. I’m just worried that I could possibly be pregnant. I have ordered pregnancy tests … When would be the best time to take the tests. Any other opinions and help would be grateful. Thank you

You’d be better off starting your own thread rather than posting on a zombie ones as you won’t get many responses aimed at you on here.

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