Unprotected sex scared of pregnancy!!

[cocoo43]

Hey everyone had a little fun time with my partner he ended up not pulling out on my period app it says my ovulation is in 6days I don't want to be pregnant right now is pregnancy chances very low ??

If you don’t want to have a baby and don’t agree with contraception then you need to abstain from sex. You cannot have it all ways.

I have my reasons on why I do not agree with contraception that's my own opinion that's why I was asking for any other suggestions

If you think there could be other suggestions you could do with educating yourself more about how this stuff works for your own sake. Unfortunately you can only either risk being pregnant, or take the morning after pill, there’s no shame in it OP, mistakes happen!

If you ‘do not agree with contraception’ and don’t want to be pumping out kids, you have quite the dilemma 😂

Honestly, you really need to have a long hard think about all this.

If you don't want to use contraception then maybe abstain or keep facing this same dilemma over again.

So from your other threads you
-ended a pregnancy last year (no judgement whatsoever on that)
-were 14 weeks impregnated a couple of months ago
-have 1 kid and do not want any more

No idea what’s going on, but it’s irrelevant whether you ‘agree’ with contraception, you need to arrange a way for you life to be less chaotic and not be constantly risking getting pregnant..

Make him wear a Jonny? Or do you not agree with that either 🤔

Went didn't he pull out?

Why

If you don't believe in any sort of contraception and don't want to be pregnant then you shouldn't be having sex. The pull out method isn't really a method at all of preventing pregnancy.

The only other suggest is that your OH get the snip.

@pinkyredrose he was having fun time

If you don't want hormonal contraceptives maybe at least have a good conversation with your GP at the options for non-hormonal which are wider than most people realise. The pull out method is not reliable as has been proven here, there's for too many variables. There's plenty of options out there and is certainly better than getting the MAP every time he doesn't pull out (and the underlying risk anyway).

It doesn't really sound like you're thinking long term, can you really do this for years and years until after menopause?

You're only 21, so you've got many fertile years ahead. Time for advive and serious planning, I think. I'm guessing your baby was unplanned? Or the subsequent pregnancy mentioned by pp?.

You don't agree with any forms of contraception but are happy to keep taking the MAP. Sorry, what?!

No, we haven't all had a situation like this.

Some of us are mature enough to make sensible decisions around our sex lives.

don’t agree with contraception yet takes Plan B… yer, take it now if you haven’t ovulated it should work.

If you're not mature enough to use contraception, you're not mature enough to have sex

But you’re really playing a Russian roulette with the pull out method, so unless you actually don’t mind falling pregnant you need to look into other methods.

Just to let you know if you are overweight the MAP won't be as effective.

Best sort contraception asap to avoid pregnancy.

@Spohn I've never ended a pregnancy before so don't know where you've got the from ?!

If you don't believe in contraception (?) and don't want to get pregnant then you need to not have sex...

Surely that's self explanatory?

Well, on a thread from April, you said you were 14 weeks pregnant, so if you lost that baby, you need to recover, plus you say you have a one year old baby. You're still only 21, so that's a lot to deal with.
It sounds as if you need some good advice, could you speak to your health visitor, or someone at your GP practice? There will be no judgement.

This!!

"I have my own reasons.". Ugh. Such bs. Grow up and take responsibility for your actions.

You were about 16 weeks pregnant at the end of April according to your threads, but then not pregnant by the 5th May and didn’t want any more children so that’s were people are getting that assumption from.

cocoo43 Why don't you just use condoms? At least in more fertile days? It must be so stressful worrying about him pulling out in time all the time, I couldn't relax enough to enjoy it I'm sure. We've always used condoms exclusively for 16 years.

Tell that to the Pope and all the other men who believe that women are only here to procreate no matter what the circumstances
But @PandaBrush is right OP. Withdrawal is the least safe method. If you and/or your bf are liable to random sex, use a safer method!