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Spent receptacle

56 replies

WishAway · 08/06/2022 10:44

This is how my DH referred to me when speaking to our teen ds earlier. In regards to me having birthed his children. AIBU to be highly offended?

OP posts:
Newestname002 · 08/06/2022 18:37

IsAnybodyListening · 08/06/2022 14:28

Isn't a 'spent receptacle' a polite was of saying 'used condom'?.

Yeah, i'd being causing a scene if that was my DP!

Yes that's what I thought... sorry about these two people in your home behaving so disrespectfully to you OP 🌹

Lucinda7 · 08/06/2022 18:59

That remark would not be funny in any context OP. Very coarse and crude. My DS would not laugh at that, he would be horrified.

Dalekjastninerels · 08/06/2022 19:07

Lucinda7 · 08/06/2022 18:59

That remark would not be funny in any context OP. Very coarse and crude. My DS would not laugh at that, he would be horrified.

I think most teenage sons would be- perhaps OP's son 's laugh was an anxious laugh- not because he thought his Dad was funny,

alpenguin · 08/06/2022 19:09

So basically your husband thinks you’re a spent receptacle for his sperm. He thinks you’re a container for him to ejaculate into but that you’re now past your best and useless to him as a container for his spunk?

And you have to ask if this is unreasonable?

Any man who can “joke” about the mother of his children and supposed love of his life like that has no respect for her or any other woman, including his own daughters if he has any. That’s vile.

eurochick · 08/06/2022 19:14

Wow. What a vile insult.

Johnnysgirl · 08/06/2022 19:18

WishAway · 08/06/2022 12:50

Tbh I'd advise anyone else to LTB. But he's great in lots of other ways. This just feels unforgivable. Don't feel like being intimate with him ever again. He says I'm over reacting.

God, they always are, aren't they?

No matter how shite the situation posted, it always includes the disclaimer that "he's marvellous really".
He really isn't remotely great if he indulged in this nonsense with one of your children.

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