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I can’t physically eat leftovers

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IsItMeOrThemBeingKnobs · 07/06/2022 12:49

I’m not sure if it’s just me, but I physically cannot force myself to eat leftovers.

I always have the best intentions of meal prepping/cooking more for lunches and then when it gets down to actually eating that stuff it turns my stomach. I end up having to give extra to DH.

Does anyone else get this or am I completely U and weird?!

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jubileetrain · 07/06/2022 17:12

RedToothBrush · 07/06/2022 17:03

Sorry but this is fucked up and a luxury belief not a physical inability to eat left overs.

The only thing that's fucked up here is the deliberate ignorance. Seriously. RTFT. People have posted about why they can't eat leftover. It's not a luxury though, why would it be? I have a disability and there is fuckity fuck all luxurious about the restrictions it gives me.

famagusta · 07/06/2022 17:14

RedToothBrush · 07/06/2022 17:03

Sorry but this is fucked up and a luxury belief not a physical inability to eat left overs.

Goodness this really inflamed you!

famagusta · 07/06/2022 17:16

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Fairislefandango · 07/06/2022 17:21

Some people might be unable to eat leftovers due to a disability or illness. Other people seem to have just decided leftovers 'give them the ick'. I don't think posters are intending to criticise those with a disability or illness.

AllTheMonacles · 07/06/2022 17:22

I'm like this about loads of foods.
Sandwiches are a huge one, I can't eat pre made ones, and I can only really eat fresh ones made by me, my Husband or my Mum.
I really struggle to eat fresh food from different supermarkets and to my usual ones. Even if it's a food I really like. It makes me feel nauseous.

jubileetrain · 07/06/2022 17:25

Fairislefandango · 07/06/2022 17:21

Some people might be unable to eat leftovers due to a disability or illness. Other people seem to have just decided leftovers 'give them the ick'. I don't think posters are intending to criticise those with a disability or illness.

Read the thread. It's definitely happening.

Bbq1 · 07/06/2022 17:35

IsItMeOrThemBeingKnobs · 07/06/2022 13:11

It’s also predominately meat. Like I can eat leftover veg/salad without any real issues but anything like spag bol makes me feel like I’m going to throw up.

Not quite as an extreme reaction as yours, but I just can't face the same meal that I had for tea as my dinner the next day. It's just the fact I don't want that meal again so soon. Heaven knows how people ear the same meal over 3 or 4 consecutive days... I'm always intrigued in work when people turn up with a tub of mashed up food and declare it's leftovers from yesterdays roast. I love a roast too Thankfully I cook mostly what we eat and as a family we don't generate a lot of leftovers.

Anyfeckinusername · 07/06/2022 17:42

TheKeatingFive · 07/06/2022 14:07

I have this issue too with almost all leftovers! I hate the smell and texture of it

I don't understand this reasoning. There is no universal smell or texture of 'leftovers'. There's the smell/texture of pasta/curry/roast dinner/etc.

I left out a word - cold. I hate the texture of cold food. Lasagne cold - like a big solid wedge you can slice through like a cake. And the smell of cold food absolutely is different to hot food.

i also can’t abide the smell of meat cooking. But I’m ok with it once it’s cooked - smell completely changes.

Mostess · 07/06/2022 17:45

thistimelastweek · 07/06/2022 13:03

I love leftovers. All the cost and Effort already expended.
Perfect.

Exactly this. It gives me such a cosy feeling, knowing there's a dinner in the fridge and all I have to do is heat it up.

PlanetNormal · 07/06/2022 17:50

I would love to be able to afford to turn my nose up at and waste perfectly good food just because it was cooked the day before. I’m sure millions of other people also wish they were in that position. Sad

LakieLady · 07/06/2022 17:51

petridishmystery · 07/06/2022 13:25

I love leftovers - unless they’ve been frozen. I freeze excess meals with such good intentions but then the idea of actually defrosting and eating it is for some reason really off putting and the food will sit in the freezer until the next time I clear it out.

i dunno why cos the few times I’ve managed to make myself eat the food, it’s been just fine. And I have no issues with frozen food in general just leftovers.

I'm convinced that food that has been cooked, frozen and thawed never tastes as nice as it did before it was frozen. I completely gave up on batch cooking for that reason.

But I love leftovers. Chilli, casseroles etc always taste nicer the second day imo, leftover potatoes, greens and other veg make lovely bubble and squeak, and I love finding a few cold roast potatoes in the fridge.

Mabelface · 07/06/2022 17:56

Weird
Precious
Get a grip

No wonder people like me who are autistic struggle in this world.

EatSleepReplete · 07/06/2022 18:02

I'd love to be able to eat leftovers, it would make my life a lot easier as I'm ill in bed a lot. Ironically leftovers make me ill as fermented food & aged food such as mature cheese, sauerkraut, pickles, sourdough bread, aged meats, alcohol, give me a migraine so severe it's impossible to be certain I'm not having a stroke (it happened to a relative, they were fortunate to survive). Even just a bowl of day old stew or curry that wasn't quickly cooled & refrigerated immediately after cooking will give me a migraine, I suffer from a rare type that's notoriously difficult to control & it does look like I'm having a stroke. I can't eat loads of foods, & loads more in only very limited amounts because they naturally have a chemical called tyramine which is a migraine trigger, it also develops when foods are left to age so is present naturally in many foods. There are other chemical triggers too - histamine, caffeine, artificial sweeteners, sulphites, nitrites & nitrates. And others. Cooking is a PITA TBH. And I still get frequent attacks anyway.

I do understand that some people have different levels of tolerance for things, but it does annoy me when people refuse to eat leftovers. Unless there's a MH issue or physical illness involved I do think it's rather a luxury to refuse to eat leftovers or pre-prepared food.

mumto4boys16 · 07/06/2022 18:44

SeaDogs · 07/06/2022 13:28

I'm slightly struggling to understand what count as leftovers. Is it the gap between time of cooking and eating? Could you cook some chicken on Monday to have cold in a sandwich next day?

From my point of view, I batch cook things like spag bol, chilli, curry but I wouldn't be able to eat left over veg or roast potatoes from a Sunday lunch that's warmed up. I'd just cook new

IsItMeOrThemBeingKnobs · 07/06/2022 18:56

Wow okay, didn’t expect so many heated responses. To clarify some things:

Nothing gets wasted in this house! If I cook larger portions it’s for dinner and two lunches which my husband then has two days in a row. Nothing gets thrown away and I am not wasteful at all.

Secondly, batch cooking has the same effect on me (makes me feel nauseous) so whilst I love the idea of reframing it just doesn’t work.

In terms of childhood experiences, we actually grew up on ready meals for dinners as DM was extremely unwell and unable to cook so it’s not that I had a bad experience with leftovers in the past - I’ve just never had very good food experiences I guess.

For those calling me and others precious or whatever, I appreciate your opinions but as has been mentioned a lot throughout this thread it seems as though this may boil down to sensory issues for a lot of us so please be a bit kinder.

Thanks all

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Harissa · 07/06/2022 19:03

I get ick about certain foods or food situations and it's not logical but neither am I being precious. It's not a voluntary reaction but it is getting worse the older I get.

I can't do food that other people have touched unless it's a restaurant or cafe or takeaway or a select few people that my brain has decided are safe.

It's embarrassing and I hate it but I can't get past it.

Things aren't always just a case of being precious. I can't chew it without gipping. It's awful. And I feel rude & ungrateful.

So, I get the OP. It's just not logical.

limitedperiodonly · 07/06/2022 19:17

RedToothBrush · 07/06/2022 17:03

Sorry but this is fucked up and a luxury belief not a physical inability to eat left overs.

This is a rather heightened response.

TheZenOne22 · 07/06/2022 19:24

I’m eating leftover veggie chilli tonight. I always feel it tastes better as a leftover. I had it with rice when I made it first. Tonight I’m having it with a jacket potato - could changing it up help?

Is it the term leftovers that could be maybe turning your stomach? Maybe if you looked at it as a new portion (like when bulk making food) you may feel different about it?

LuckyAmy1986 · 07/06/2022 19:32

famagusta · 07/06/2022 13:46

Well according to this thread YOU started… your own “DH thinks I am wasteful” when it comes to milk! 😂

www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/3462382-Do-you-have-milk-leftover-in-the-bowl

@LuckyAmy1986

OMG 😂LOL hun. SO embarrassing! I really did want to stop wasting that milk though so I did stop overpouring. Yay me!

I've changed a lot in the past 4 months, really reduced all my waste. Realised how lucky I am. oh shit no, that was 4 years ago wasn't it?

LuckyAmy1986 · 07/06/2022 19:33

jubileetrain · 07/06/2022 15:45

But once again people are enjoying feeling morally superior and telling disabled people they need to get a grip.

More sickening than the leftovers, isn't it?

To be fair responses were made before OP mentioned the potential ASD!!! If that has been in the OP then I am sure the responses would have been a lot different. I was going off the assumption that there was nothing like that involved...

LuckyAmy1986 · 07/06/2022 19:41

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jubileetrain · 07/06/2022 19:47

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Some were but many responses were posted both after OP mentioned autism and after several autistic posters said they had food issues too.

jubileetrain · 07/06/2022 19:47

Oh didn't mean to italic there Blush

limitedperiodonly · 07/06/2022 19:52

I wouldn't normally do this. I'd usually report and let MNHQ handle it but this is important and it seems I'm not the only one who has noticed.

I've just reported Famagusta for following this OP around and bringing up irrelevant things from another thread. I reported Famagusta yesterday for the same thing with a different poster who seemed equally blameless.

I'm not a stalker. I just noticed Famagjusta's name and thought it was mean.

I expect MNHQ to delete this and that's right. But I want other people to see it and mostly I want to give @famagusta the opportunity to explain.

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