There are a lot of other issues with this family but recently found this out...the first time my child (12) went for a sleepover at her friends house the parents told them around 8.30pm they were "going to the office" (15/20) mins away.
Anyway the dad came back 2 hours later his dc ask where's mum "at the pub" he said.
The mum in dc words "stumbles in" later slurring saying "sorry it's been a shit night I think I have covid" she was pissed up.
So basically they hadn't entertained the kids at any point just lied they were going to the office at 8.30 at night and fucked off to get pissed.
She had left my dc and her friend (12) and their other dc (9) bare in mind she has to get babysitters for her kids when they go out. I'm pissed off this is just the final nail on a big fuck off coffin with these people. When I have sleepovers I cook, try and plan activities etc if the kids want to but I would never in a million years leave someone's child unattended!! Especially at night time! The kids are only really just 12 so not even 12/13.
I've not said anything yet for the kids sake but should I? Apart from this the woman is honestly unbearable anyway....this incident happened a few months ago before any other incident o didn't know her beforehand as it's a friend my dc made when starting secondary.
AIBU?
To think this is wrong...parents leaving kids during sleepover
Maves · 05/06/2022 17:44
Sleepingb · 05/06/2022 17:49
I wouldn't plan activities for my 11 year old, no. They'd rather die than do a parent planned activity at a sleepover.
But the rest is a bit grim. I wouldn't mind them being on their own for an hour or so but not til that time in charge of a 9 year old.
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Sleepingb · 05/06/2022 17:49
I wouldn't plan activities for my 11 year old, no. They'd rather die than do a parent planned activity at a sleepover.
But the rest is a bit grim. I wouldn't mind them being on their own for an hour or so but not til that time in charge of a 9 year old.
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