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assumed or ashumed?

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growandhope · 02/06/2022 13:54

where does ashumed come from and what accent thinks this is ok?😉

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youdroppedthis · 02/06/2022 14:57

It irritates me... not sure why. I think it sounds pretentious. So does "issue" with the Ss pronounced as ss and not sh.

There's a few more like this. I find it's usually quite "posh" people who say things this way?

IstayedForTheFeminism · 02/06/2022 14:59

Ashumed
Ashured
Ishue

I'd also say sure and shore the same.

Home counties.

BabyDubsEverywhere · 02/06/2022 15:09

IstayedForTheFeminism · 02/06/2022 14:59

Ashumed
Ashured
Ishue

I'd also say sure and shore the same.

Home counties.

I say the same for all of the above.

Black Country

AMindNeedsBooks · 02/06/2022 15:10

JesusSufferingFuck22 · 02/06/2022 14:25

Ashoome from Scotland. Assume is American

I'm Scottish and have always said assume. Maybe different in different parts of the country.

MajorCarolDanvers · 02/06/2022 15:13

girlmom21 · 02/06/2022 14:09

I think I might flit between the two

Me too.

I'm Scottish

Seymour5 · 02/06/2022 15:14

AMindNeedsBooks · 02/06/2022 15:10

I'm Scottish and have always said assume. Maybe different in different parts of the country.

Me too. We don't all shound like Mr Connery ☺

Mount2Climb · 02/06/2022 15:16

I only ever heard people from poor socio-economics say a-shume.
It's ass-yoom.
Assure is different, it's like saying sure.

Issue and tissue pronounces ess you and tiss you is the right pronounciation but SH is the more common one. If you say S people assume you're trying to be posh.

PurpleButterflyWings · 02/06/2022 15:18

YANBU. It's a bit like the word 'species' being pronounced 'SPEE-SHEES' - instead of SPEE-SEES!

PurpleButterflyWings · 02/06/2022 15:20

@Mount2Climb

I only ever heard people from poor socio-economics say a-shume.

Hmm
Mount2Climb · 02/06/2022 15:24

@PurpleButterflyWings
I did not say all people from poor socio economics pronounce it ashume. I said the ones I heard say assume ashume had poor socio economics.
That is my experience. I'm sure I heard many from a poor socio economic background say assume as assume, too. I've not heard a middle class person say ashume. Maybe you have and that's fine.

2bazookas · 02/06/2022 15:38

I agree, ashume id definately not asseptable. Probly people who speak like that are vunnerable in some way.

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 02/06/2022 15:46

“Assume” makes an ass out of you and me.

Hugasauras · 02/06/2022 15:50

Hmm, I'm Scottish and say 'ashyoom' and DH is from Devon and also says it like that. Both painfully middle-class I'm afraid! Does remind me of my old teacher who said 'Tissyoo' instead of 'Tishoo' for tissue.Grin

Just a standard regional variation I'd imagine.

Orla83 · 02/06/2022 15:50

I've heard three different pronunciations:

Ass-soom
Ass-syoom
Ash-oom

I use the middle pronunciation, but it's not over emphasised.

StingrayStingray · 02/06/2022 16:40

CinnabarRed · 02/06/2022 13:55

Sean Connery?

You win the internet for me today! Grin

Momicrone · 02/06/2022 16:53

Never heard of ashume

echt · 02/06/2022 17:17

Come to Australia, home of ashume, reshume, etc., at least on TV. It appears relatively recent, i.e.wasn’t a thing when I got here about 15 years ago.

MelonsMelonsMelons · 02/06/2022 17:23

I always thought it was pronounced Arse-Homed.

SpaceyCake · 02/06/2022 17:29

IstayedForTheFeminism · 02/06/2022 14:59

Ashumed
Ashured
Ishue

I'd also say sure and shore the same.

Home counties.

Same! I'm not originally from the UK but I am bilingual and have lived in the South West for 15 years now. I ashumed everyone said it like I do, but then years ago I started noticing that most BBC presenters say assyoom and thought "wtf is this?!". DH has started saying it in the last couple of years and I still can't get used to it. 😂

Daophos · 03/07/2023 20:36

If you're from London, you most likely are not an RP speaker.
The Cambridge Dictionary, which uses RP English, lists the pronunciation of "assume" as /əˈsjuːm/. The only difference between standard RP and standard North American English is the /j/ (or the "y" sound) and not "s" versus "sh." The "sh" you pronounce is a new feature of southern English dialects, but it is not "standard."

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