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To let my son try a fizzy drink?

65 replies

Wednesdayafternoon · 31/05/2022 20:31

We were just messing about having a laugh and he had a mouthful of my fizzy drink. He just wanted to try it and I thought why not. His reaction was hilarious and we had a laugh. He's 5 and a half for context. He's not going to be having it again until he's older obviously but all of a sudden I feel bad about ting him try it 🙈 He'll no doubt tell his dad he drinks Coke Zero now and I'll get a judgmental earful off him 😬😳

I'm aware this is a very minor matter, much worse things going on in the world etc
Just interested to know what others think!

OP posts:
Oysterbabe · 31/05/2022 21:03

My 6 year old tried lemonade for the first time recently and she absolutely bloody loved it. I may allow her to have some as an occasional treat.

Wednesdayafternoon · 31/05/2022 21:05

Guyyysssss what's with the offence to my post? I just don't get people who don't like the thread/topic but proceed to post just to dress the OP down! Just ignore and Move on if you don't like it it's really simple 👍🏼

It's just a Light hearted post. I'm not going to loose sleep over it! He's my eldest child, I didn't really know what was normal with fizzy pop it's no big deal just wanted a chat!

But to the other responders thank you! He had such a funny reaction to it and then said "I'm going to try some more tomorrow" in a hyper voice I was like errrmmm maybe not! 😅

OP posts:
WTF475878237NC · 31/05/2022 21:08

FGS don't base your parenting on what's normal. What's normal now is overweight children and adults with lifestyle related diabetes! Commonly accepted behaviour/normal does not necessarily mean good parenting! It was normal for kids to go down the mine not long ago! Use the WHO and NHS guidance.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 31/05/2022 21:09

Oh, bless. Here come the 'ONLY WATER AND MILK IT'S POISION' posts.

Let's get the shock-horror out of the way.

I'd had tea since I was a baby. I started drinking coffee (obviously very weak) aged 3. Quite liked a shot glass of Babycham or Woodpecker cider aged 5/6. Wasn't that enthusiastic about standard fizzy drinks but preferred them to squash because they had a little bit of bite - was never keen on sweet things unless there was a sizeable aspect of acidity to counteract the sweetness.

Since I was 8-ish, I've been drinking black coffee, preferably espresso/Americano.

These days, if I have an alcoholic drink (which is rare, I'm not that fussed about it), it'll either be gin or a good, punchy red wine.

Not an alcoholic. Not a drug addict. Teeth are fine. Bone density is fine. I just like strong, acidic and bitter flavours.

A kid having a taste of a fizzy drink is not the end of the world. Just don't listen if his father kicks off about it.

IloveStrawberrylaces · 31/05/2022 21:10

What's the actual bad part of drinking fizzy drinks?

nearlyspringyay · 31/05/2022 21:12

Five years, not five months?!?!?

😂😂😂😂

ResentfulLemon · 31/05/2022 21:12

Forbidding stuff doesn't work. My daughter's friend virtually binges on fizzy drinks and junk food as soon as she's out of sight of her parents because they're really strict.

A little taste that made your son giggle, no harm, no foul.

LucyLeaseExtension · 31/05/2022 21:15

Maybebabyno2 · 31/05/2022 20:39

Well my 2 year old drank my mcdonalds diet coke that was on the table whilst I was doing the dishes the other day. Parenting fail to the max 🤣

Nah a one off won't hurt, putting 'pop' in baby bottles, now that's a parenting failure!!

RaginaPhalange · 31/05/2022 21:15

I gave my child some fizzy juice when he was 3. He's 6 now and will occasionally ask for some lemonade or cherryade. He is only allowed a half can because there is way to much sweetener in it. He has also had a small cup of coke here and there.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 31/05/2022 21:17

I really don’t think it’s a problem. I’m sorry to hear his Dad is such a prick though as to pass judgment.

My 8 yo had a bit of lemonade the other day and hated it! I don’t know why as he knows he doesn’t like fizzy drinks (one good thing about his sensory issues)

Waxonwaxoff0 · 31/05/2022 21:19

WTF475878237NC · 31/05/2022 21:08

FGS don't base your parenting on what's normal. What's normal now is overweight children and adults with lifestyle related diabetes! Commonly accepted behaviour/normal does not necessarily mean good parenting! It was normal for kids to go down the mine not long ago! Use the WHO and NHS guidance.

Oh get a grip on yourself. A sip of fizzy drink isn't condemning the kid to a lifestyle of obesity and diabetes. Plenty of adults drink fizzy drinks and aren't overweight.

Tallulasdancingshoes · 31/05/2022 21:19

My 6 year old had a glass of lemonade today. We were sat in a pub beer garden at the end of a nice walk in the countryside. It was a treat, no harm done.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 31/05/2022 21:19

My DS (nearly 9) tried a sip of his dad's fruit cider the other week. He hated it!

LucyLeaseExtension · 31/05/2022 21:21

Wednesdayafternoon · 31/05/2022 21:05

Guyyysssss what's with the offence to my post? I just don't get people who don't like the thread/topic but proceed to post just to dress the OP down! Just ignore and Move on if you don't like it it's really simple 👍🏼

It's just a Light hearted post. I'm not going to loose sleep over it! He's my eldest child, I didn't really know what was normal with fizzy pop it's no big deal just wanted a chat!

But to the other responders thank you! He had such a funny reaction to it and then said "I'm going to try some more tomorrow" in a hyper voice I was like errrmmm maybe not! 😅

Your mistake was leaving it so late! If you let them try it earlier the vast majority hate it and don't want 'fizzy' for years.

...now you're going to have to support his 'habit' or be the Bad Guy.🤣

Rubyroseyposey · 31/05/2022 21:21

My 5 year old has lemonade, although only not often.

TotalRhubarb · 31/05/2022 21:21

WTF475878237NC · 31/05/2022 21:08

FGS don't base your parenting on what's normal. What's normal now is overweight children and adults with lifestyle related diabetes! Commonly accepted behaviour/normal does not necessarily mean good parenting! It was normal for kids to go down the mine not long ago! Use the WHO and NHS guidance.

🤣🤣🤣

Nice one! 👍 👌

steff13 · 31/05/2022 21:24

girlmom21 · 31/05/2022 20:40

To be fair Coke Zero is essentially child cruelty. Surely you should go full fat - like with milk?

There's no fat in any kind of Coke?

R00K · 31/05/2022 21:30

LucyLeaseExtension · 31/05/2022 21:21

Your mistake was leaving it so late! If you let them try it earlier the vast majority hate it and don't want 'fizzy' for years.

...now you're going to have to support his 'habit' or be the Bad Guy.🤣

If leaving it late is a mistake, should I let my 2 year old loose on the vodka?

Notanotherwindow · 31/05/2022 21:30

Oh god is that it? I bought a can of coke for a 4 year old once at the train station because she was thirsty and it was cheaper than Evian. 🤣 She survived and is now in her late teens.

bridgetreilly · 31/05/2022 21:32

The main reason not to is in case they like it and then you have to constantly say no to repeated requests for more!

FrecklesMalone · 31/05/2022 21:33

WTF475878237NC · 31/05/2022 21:08

FGS don't base your parenting on what's normal. What's normal now is overweight children and adults with lifestyle related diabetes! Commonly accepted behaviour/normal does not necessarily mean good parenting! It was normal for kids to go down the mine not long ago! Use the WHO and NHS guidance.

Sadly true. Just shy of a third of the kids in my child's primary school are obese.

RosieCockle · 31/05/2022 21:34

@ShirleyPhallus I've got tears down my cheeks. Thank you. Cubed tomatoes for a treat.

ShaneTwane · 31/05/2022 21:36

Fuck me you lot would hate me. My DSS is 4 and I give him a fizzy drink in a can on occasion and he drinks it all. Shrugs

vodkaredbullgirl · 31/05/2022 21:38
Shock
ahwobabob · 31/05/2022 21:38

ShirleyPhallus · 31/05/2022 20:39

Oh my god, sorry OP but that’s really inappropriate parenting. My kids didn’t have any hint of a fizzy drink until they were 18, I figured if they were responsible enough to vote then they could probably handle a few bubbles by then too.

We also took a sensible approach to treats generally, they were allowed to sniff birthday cakes only (but not for too long, each could have 2-3 inhales) until they were 12. Treats were strictly limited to carrot sticks and sliced cucumber. Raisins off limits - you may as well give them sugar syrup through a drip. The result now is that they never ask for sugar and just love cubed tomatoes for a treat.

Careful who you tell this to in case SS visit you and make sure you’ve learnt your lesson.

Pahahaha!