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To think you should receive the meal described on the menu

106 replies

TeaAndBrie · 29/05/2022 19:30

Slightly light-hearted but also incredibly annoying!
we went for a roast dinner today, when it arrived there were no Yorkshire puddings and no stuffing (as per the menu). When i asked where these items were they went to check and came back to say you had run out.
no substitutes offered.
this just mars the whole experience but if you try and complain you’re instantly made to feel as though you’re making an issue out of something unnecessarily.
this is happening more and more often recently. Anyone else noticed this?

OP posts:
Luredbyapomegranate · 29/05/2022 20:07

It will be happening more often because shortages and rising prices, they will be being more careful not to overorder. But there are ways of managing an under order.

ellebelli · 29/05/2022 20:08

This annoys me and it happens more than it should! ( i am sure this is why they whisk the menus away from you once you have ordered haha)
Only last week I ordered a pulled pork baguette with apple and stuffing for lunch as described on the menu.
Out came a BBQ pulled pork baguette!!!!! which I dislike-I swapped with my partner but really should have complained.

EmotionalSupportWyrm · 29/05/2022 20:09

ProfessionalTeaDrinker · 29/05/2022 19:36

I recently ordered a steak baguette and they didn't add the caramilsed onions. To add insult to injury, they also added mayonnaise. No where on the description did mention mayonnaise. When I've ordered the meal previously, it was mayonnaise free. I hate mayonnaise. You'd be surprised how often it sneaks its way into things though 😡

Yes! Mayo ruins perfectly nice food with its slimeyness. Ugh. I would send back a meal that arrived with it on - easy to ask for things like burgers without it - but they shove it on the most unexpected foods without warning.

NotYourOscarSpeech · 29/05/2022 20:10

@eggsellentwork Weird, anchovies on Caesar salad came to my mind whilst reading this thread for no good reason.

I think they’re such a marmite food that I find they are excluded as often as they’re included as standard on menus now. Yes it’s in the dressing but not the same as having those little slimy buggers hanging around your lettuce. I’ve even ordered Caesar salad where waiting staff have “warned”/double checked about the anchovies, such is the frequency with which I assume people ask for them to be excluded.

Oh and OP they were being v v v unreasonable not to have at least told you.

nancy75 · 29/05/2022 20:12

catandcoffee · 29/05/2022 19:48

YANBU....how can they run out of these two things...I don't get it. Can't they go to the shop and buy more ingredients.

If it’s a chain pub /restaurant no they are not allowed to go & buy more from a shop.

JetBlackSteed · 29/05/2022 20:15

I had a similar experience recently, in a boutique hotel for breakfast.
We booked the hotel because it listed a vegetarian breakfast on the menu online. Sure enough, there it is on the actual menu. Veggie sausage, avocado, toast, eggs whatever way. Ordered it, waitress came back and said no veggie sausages, ok say I. Then comes back again, no avocado. So I had scrambled eggs on toast, and they tried to charge for the veggie breakfast!

Vikinga · 29/05/2022 20:15

Yanbu. Easy enough things to stock and it would have ruined a roast dinner. They should have told you when you ordered

TooBigForMyBoots · 29/05/2022 20:18

Bastards!😡 That would've ruined my roast. YANBU @TeaAndBrie.

saleorbouy · 29/05/2022 20:19

If its advertised in the description and doesn't arrive on your plate then you should get an option of a substitute or ask for a discount.

Clevs · 29/05/2022 20:21

I went out for a meal last night at a chain pub. After we had to remind them that we hadn't ordered after 20 minutes, and we still hadn't received our drinks they came and took our order. The meal my companion ordered (lasagne) was not available. It really annoyed me more than it should have done that we hadn't been told when they brought the menus over. She had to choose something else on the spot whilst the waitress hovered.

Dilbertian · 29/05/2022 20:34

If it’s a chain pub /restaurant no they are not allowed to go & buy more from a shop.

Not necessarily. When my dc worked at TGIFriday he would be sent over to the nearby supermarket to buy ingredients they'd run out of and needed immediately, rather than tell a customer that the dish they wanted wasn't available.

My personal bugbear at the moment is when the menu is online, and you have to enter the restaurant you're in 'to ensure dishes are available', you order, and then the waiter comes and tells you 'sorry, we've run out of it'. Particularly annoying when we've gone somewhere specifically because they have a good gluten-free selection, and then most of the items on the GF menu are not available. If ordering is online, how come stock is not accurate?!

whynotwhatknot · 29/05/2022 20:34

Yanbu in the sdlightest

why dont they tell you before

my pet hate give yo the menu but dont tell you whats not on until yove chosen-oh sorry we're out of that well tell me when im given the bloody menu then

whynotwhatknot · 29/05/2022 20:36

cross post there but GMTA!

TyrannosaurusRegina · 29/05/2022 20:46

linerforlife · 29/05/2022 19:56

@eggsellentwork you realise the actual dressing on your salad was made from puréed anchovies, right?

I could eat anchovies pureed in a sauce but not whole anchovies 🤮

AlmostAJillSandwich · 29/05/2022 20:50

Yeah, i would have told them that if you'd been informed they had none when ordering, i'd have chosen a different meal, since the stuffing and yorkie are the best bits!
I hate when they don't tell you they're out of something until you ask when your meal arrives without said advertised item. So many times it would have meant i'd have picked a different meal.

Newestname002 · 29/05/2022 21:13

Unforgivable! Yorkshire puddings and stuffing are the best bit for me - I could easily give up in the meat... 🌹

StrawberrySquash · 29/05/2022 21:13

Very annoying. I pick my dish based on all the components, so if something is missing that might affect my decision. I ordered a side salad the other day, in part because it had avocado in it. When it came, no avocado, and the dressing was terrible. I'll get the chips next time!

MountainClimber22 · 29/05/2022 21:17

I ordered a roast that was supposed to have stuffing and the whole thing was supposed to come in a huge Yorkshire pudding. Turned up no Yorkshire and no stuffing so asked and they had ran out too. Very disappointed!

Crikeyalmighty · 29/05/2022 21:17

Clearly their Aunt Bessie's stock had run out!! I'm afraid that's how I find most pub Sunday lunches- absolutely nothing wrong with aunt Bessie's, use them myself frequently but if I'm paying £12 plus- I expect them to be able to rustle up Yorkshire pudding

wallpoppy · 29/05/2022 21:24

I have lived in Yorkshire for nearly 20 years and have never once heard a yorkshire pudding referred to as a "yorkie". Is this a new thing or are the rest of you just doing it because OP did?

squashedalmondcroissant · 29/05/2022 21:28

The trouble is, in 90% of cases everything you order in a restaurant will be prepared in advance and reheated for speed of service. Even in expensive places and where everything is cooked from scratch, there just isn't enough space or time to do everything to order on the night.

So the chefs may very well have had the ingredients to make more but did they have the time and oven space to make the batter, preheat the oil and bake them during a busy lunch service while still serving a full menu? Probably not.

That said, they should have absolutely pre warned you that those items had run out so you could make an informed choice!

FredAstairesChair · 29/05/2022 21:30

eggsellentwork · 29/05/2022 19:50

That's really disappointing! I had the opposite yesterday- very posh restaurant for special occasion, ordered caesar salad, which came full of anchovies. When I had to send it back they were very snooty because caesar 'always has anchovies'. I almost always check because I hate them, but they'd listed every other ingredient down to fine shaved parmesan and cracked black and pink peppercorns then I thought I was safe enough!

I'd always expect anchovies on a ceaser sala, they're a key component.
that is crap op. Fair enough if they run out of something but they should have told you when you ordered, or taken the roast off the menu.

ZealAndArdour · 29/05/2022 21:35

I feel your pain, I recently went out for breakfast and ordered a “Toasted Bagel with Cream Cheese and Crispy Bacon”, what arrived was an over-toasted bagel which had clearly been allowed to cool down after toasting and a measly dip-sized pot of sour cream with some chives chopped into it, and one slice of chewy bacon with a huge soggy fat find. Not even enough “cream cheese” to spread onto both sides of the bagel, never mind it not being cream cheese.

I said to the waitress that it wasn’t cream cheese and was in fact sour cream with some chives, I had been expecting lashings of Philly or similar, and she said “well that’s what always gets sent out for that that menu item”, I said “it might well be, but it isn’t cream cheese”, she said do you want something else on it instead, I said “well some butter would be a start” and again I got brought a dip-sized pot to try and ration out over a whole two sides of a stale bagel.

It was really poor and I was so annoyed at being misled on what they believe cream cheese to be.

IJoinedJustForThisThread · 29/05/2022 21:36

ProfessionalTeaDrinker · 29/05/2022 19:36

I recently ordered a steak baguette and they didn't add the caramilsed onions. To add insult to injury, they also added mayonnaise. No where on the description did mention mayonnaise. When I've ordered the meal previously, it was mayonnaise free. I hate mayonnaise. You'd be surprised how often it sneaks its way into things though 😡

I’m veggie, but in my meat-eating days I would never have put mayonnaise with steak. Mayonnaise goes on lettuce to take the taste of “healthy” away, it doesn’t belong on anything else.

Cherrysherbet · 29/05/2022 21:37

Oh this really gets my goat! If you haven’t got all the ingredients for the meal you’re advertising, then tell me BEFORE you let me order it!
so annoying.

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