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To hate this, no?

81 replies

Cigent · 29/05/2022 18:55

What is this trend with people sticking 'no' on the end of a sentence as a question? It drives me crackers.

'This drink is strong, no?'
'Going halters is fair, no?'
'We can get the bus at 7:30, no?'
'We won't eat a pizza each, no?'

I can't bear it. Where has it come from?

And yes, lighthearted, not my biggest concern, but still annoying, no?

OP posts:
Antarcticant · 29/05/2022 18:57

Yes, as you say, mildly annoying. I think it sounds affected.

vodkaredbullgirl · 29/05/2022 18:57

no no no yes

ilovesooty · 29/05/2022 19:00

Agreed. It sounds pretentious.

FelicityFlops · 29/05/2022 19:06

Ah, yet another germanism that is infiltrating English.

MarmaladeLime · 29/05/2022 19:09

It's absolutely fine when used in most your examples but the way you've used it in your title would annoy me, no?

DrinkFeckArseBrick · 29/05/2022 19:09

My husband is from another european country and this is how they ask questions and its rubbed off on me and the children in English.

BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 29/05/2022 19:15

I always associate it with East European languages. The same with putting 'not so much' at the end of sentences as well.

MarmaladeLime · 29/05/2022 19:18

Imo it's better than when people say "don't you think?" At the end.

Hanswurst · 29/05/2022 19:19

FelicityFlops · 29/05/2022 19:06

Ah, yet another germanism that is infiltrating English.

Eh? We don’t say „nein“ in German after making a statement in German, what are you on about? 😂

worraliberty · 29/05/2022 19:21

It's worse when a sentence ends with 'non'.

Surely that's worse, non? 😬

fortheloveofcheesecake · 29/05/2022 19:23

It annoys me too...I see it more and more on Mumsnet and it makes me grimace!
It's a bit pretentious, no? Grin

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 29/05/2022 19:24

Hanswurst · 29/05/2022 19:19

Eh? We don’t say „nein“ in German after making a statement in German, what are you on about? 😂

That was exactly what I was going to post. The French may finish a question with "...non?" or similar, but I've never come across this as a particularly or even remotely German linguistic thing.

sweeneytoddsrazor · 29/05/2022 19:24

My DH does this a lot and yes it drives me mad. Usually when he is looking for something. So for example I will be in the lounge and he will call out from the kitchen have you seen my wallet. I reply no. A few minutes later he will then appear in the lounge and say its not in here no.
Grrr

DurhamDurham · 29/05/2022 19:24

I hate it. It's up there with 'Gah' and 'Makes my teeth itch'
Makes me think bad thoughts about people I don't even know 😆

RollOnWinter · 29/05/2022 19:26

It's very irritating, just as saying "so".. at the beginning of something is.

GroggyLegs · 29/05/2022 19:27

I have never knowingly encountered this, but I suspect I'm going to start seeing it everywhere now.

No?

Reinventinganna · 29/05/2022 19:29

It’s very Cornish to say ‘or no’ at the end of a sentence.
‘You you want a pasty or no?’

ATadConfused · 29/05/2022 19:30

I don't mind it at all. It's just inviting your opinion.

clumperoo · 29/05/2022 19:30

Yeh, no, yeah. It's annoying

MisguidedSheep · 29/05/2022 19:31

I'm not keen on it. I feel it's passive aggressive and used by those who don't want you to disagree with them.

MatildaTheCat · 29/05/2022 19:31

I can go one worse.

someone I know finishes each statement something like this:

Me, ‘what are you up to this weekend?’
Her, ‘we are going to the chiropodist, aren’t we?’

Me, ‘how’s DS getting on in his new job?’
Her, ‘oh great, he’s been promoted to chief photocopier assistant, hasn’t he?’

err, ok, am I supposed to know that?

Almost every sentence finishes in this way and no matter how many times I say that nope, I didn’t know that she keeps it up.

Fairislefandango · 29/05/2022 19:34

I don't find it irritating tbh, and I'm not at all convinced it's either 'wrong' in English or a particularly recent phenomenon. I teach a few languages, a couple of which use no at the end of sentences in this way, plus German which doesn't, as has already been pointed out.

I just canvassed 16yo dd's opinion. She reckons it sounds old-fashioned rather than recent. She says she can imagine a posh Victorian lady saying "I say, those crumpets are delightful, no?" Grin

youdroppedthis · 29/05/2022 19:35

This has been around for ages.

youdroppedthis · 29/05/2022 19:40

MarmaladeLime · 29/05/2022 19:09

It's absolutely fine when used in most your examples but the way you've used it in your title would annoy me, no?

How would we know?

RaindropsOnRoses12 · 29/05/2022 19:45

Yes!!

Or when people can’t start any sentence without saying … ‘right’ .. wtf does that even mean 🙄