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To hate this, no?

81 replies

Cigent · 29/05/2022 18:55

What is this trend with people sticking 'no' on the end of a sentence as a question? It drives me crackers.

'This drink is strong, no?'
'Going halters is fair, no?'
'We can get the bus at 7:30, no?'
'We won't eat a pizza each, no?'

I can't bear it. Where has it come from?

And yes, lighthearted, not my biggest concern, but still annoying, no?

OP posts:
Foldingchair · 29/05/2022 21:23

I much prefer 'innit?'.

WooNoodle · 29/05/2022 21:29

Innit tho

GriddleScone · 29/05/2022 21:52

It's just using up all of the leftover 'no's that have been deposed by 'zero's. Anyway, I have zero interest in reading any more comments. I'm off. 😉

grapewines · 29/05/2022 22:06

Much better than "do you know what I mean?"

That one is incredibly annoying.

dudsville · 29/05/2022 22:09

It's taken from the French, no? Similarly we've adopted "no worries" from Australia or some such, and lots of other things from other languages. Anyway, it isn't in any way new and we, as a people, will survive it.

GerronBuzanDoThaWomwok · 29/05/2022 22:10

"to be fair" and "going forward" do my head in, no? 😂

WishILivedInThrushGreen · 29/05/2022 22:15

It's not proper English, it sounds pretentious and fashionable, it can fuck off!

UserError012345 · 29/05/2022 22:24

A work colleague adds 'sort of thing' to almost everything. 🤷‍♀️

nometo4 · 30/05/2022 03:49

Much better than "do you know what I mean?" That one is incredibly annoying.

I have a friend who says "If you get my meanin'" after just about everything.

It doesn't bother me too much, it's just part of her personality.

ThePoorWeeDonkey · 30/05/2022 04:18

Reinventinganna · 29/05/2022 19:29

It’s very Cornish to say ‘or no’ at the end of a sentence.
‘You you want a pasty or no?’

I'm opposite end of the country but I say that too.

JangolinaPitt · 30/05/2022 05:09

My pet hate too!

JangolinaPitt · 30/05/2022 05:10

GriddleScone · 29/05/2022 21:52

It's just using up all of the leftover 'no's that have been deposed by 'zero's. Anyway, I have zero interest in reading any more comments. I'm off. 😉

😂

JangolinaPitt · 30/05/2022 05:12

Me, ‘how’s DS getting on in his new job?’
Her, ‘oh great, he’s been promoted to chief photocopier assistant, hasn’t he?’
😂😂😂

MistyRuins · 30/05/2022 05:21

Move to the west coast of Scotland. They are too busy using 'but' at the end of a statement to use 'no'.

(Unless things have changed in the last twenty years, but. It's been a while)

MistyRuins · 30/05/2022 05:24

MatildaTheCat · 29/05/2022 19:31

I can go one worse.

someone I know finishes each statement something like this:

Me, ‘what are you up to this weekend?’
Her, ‘we are going to the chiropodist, aren’t we?’

Me, ‘how’s DS getting on in his new job?’
Her, ‘oh great, he’s been promoted to chief photocopier assistant, hasn’t he?’

err, ok, am I supposed to know that?

Almost every sentence finishes in this way and no matter how many times I say that nope, I didn’t know that she keeps it up.

Are they Welsh? That sounds like Nessa from Gavin and Stacey in my head..

AnImaginaryCat · 30/05/2022 05:30

bbqhulahoop · 29/05/2022 21:07

Isn't it just an Irish thing?

No. (<- that's a complete sentence, not an add on question BTW 😁)

The 'right' and 'so' could be an Irish thing. I'll give you that thought 'right' is not put at the end of a sentence. It's all out there on it's own or at the start of a sentence and generally and indication someone is about to do something after a bit of procrastination.

Right, I better get on.

Foldingchair · 30/05/2022 07:57

I like different quirks of language, but it's the way 'no' is used that pisses me off.

'You've have remembered to do this task you didn't know you had until I just gave it to you, no?'
'Well surely you should have known he was a dick when you married him, no?'
'But everyone knows how to x, no?'
Accompanied by wide eyes and head tilt for maximum pass agg.

The correct response in each case is: fuck off.

Morristj · 30/05/2022 08:10

When you see people using it on here they almost always have a bit of an edge or sarcasm in their reply. "Unkind comment... no?"

Holly60 · 30/05/2022 09:39

I think it sounds unsure. Why do you need to check with me if your drink is strong?!

bigbootyjulie · 30/05/2022 11:16

It wouldn't bother me, unless used in a passive aggressive way.

I knew a German guy (with an accent like Arnold Schwarzenegger) who would end sentences with "or?". I did find that amusing.

10HailMarys · 30/05/2022 12:16

Language evolves. However annoying we might find it, it will always happen and it's pointless getting worked up about it.

godmum56 · 30/05/2022 12:17

vodkaredbullgirl · 29/05/2022 18:57

no no no yes

hello Jim!

Watermill · 30/05/2022 12:19

I must live in a bubble (south coast) because I haven't noticed this at all.

RobertaFirmino · 30/05/2022 12:22

I can't stand it either. I bet these people also say 'croissant' in a faux French accent too.

stuntbubbles · 30/05/2022 12:25

@RobertaFirmino The British aiming for French “quasong” is so entertaining though, almost as good as the blunt American “cross-unt”.

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