Both were heavy drinkers and this was involved. Someone at work said they were sorry but if a person can't stop drinking or taking drugs or whatever know what they are doing and it isn't as tragic as someone dying of cancer. I on the other hand think there but for the grace of God go any one of us. Who knows what's round the corner. I have had periods of severe anxiety and although I didn't turn to alcohol I did think about suicide. What's your thoughts?