So when I was 9 months pregnant with our child literally a day before I gave birth I caught him sending flirty texts to a young girl. I found out they had worked together, because I gave birth the next day I never had the time to really talk it out but I was heartbroken.
We split up but it was at the start of the pandemic so he was stuck with me. 6 months down the line a friend of friend saw a picture of him at her birthday party, looking pretty loved up. I cut all ties with him then and told him to get out. She told me they were just friends and the jokes were just banter. Around a year passed and he wanted to get back together, he told me he was working on himself etc.
The past year has been really different but again our mutual friend had seen a message from him to her that she screenshot. He told me it’s nothing like that, I told him he needed to delete her off social media as it’s disrespectful to me. He agreed but it’s just come back up and it turns out he hasn’t deleted her. He told me no one can tell him what to do, he said he can manage his own relationships and does the necessary for us?
In all honesty I’ve checked out once I discovered they were in touch but am I unreasonable to have asked him to delete her