My ex of 9 years said I made him unhappy and me and our 2 children left the family home. He said I made him unhappy, he didn't like who he was with me, he thought we would be happier with other people. Our youngest was only a few months old at the time. Since I left I also found out he had been getting intimate photos and videos of other women. He was quite mentally abusive but made me feel like I was the one to make him call me names and stuff. He threw my make up bag in temper once and smashed all the contents. He turned his family against me and let his father shout at me in my own home in front of my children.
I've been left 6 months now and in that time I've started seeing someone who was a friend. We have date nights while my parents watch the children, we've had days out here and there and just enjoy each other's company. He's a lovely, kind person which tbh I'm not used to. I knew his family anyway and they've pretty much welcomed the idea of us with open arms.
My ex is trying to get me to go back home now and says he didn't realise how much he would miss me, his life is lonely and miserable.
We'd had a few wines with a meal and I had the bright idea of posting a photo of us on Facebook just smiling with a wine in our hands.
My ex's best friend put "are you taking the fucking piss!? Your beds barely cold and you've already got some other cunt jumping in it! Delete me all you like but show some class you attention seeking cunt" those were his exact words.
I went on to say how my bed had been cold a long time, and it wasn't classy that my ex had paid other women for sex. (He clearly didn't know this) I said I wasn't going to be sorry for being happy as I hadn't been for many years. Many people defended me and said how I deserved to be happy bringing up 2 children in my parents spare room and I looked the best I have for a long time and his comment showed more about him than me.
I'm ready for a roasting here about how I was in the wrong so I'm prepared.. but was I ? What's your opinion?