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To be fed up with food?

102 replies

Beatrixpotterspencil · 14/05/2022 14:33

I'm one of those irritatingly healthy eaters, love good food and never had to diet. But the past year or two I seem to have just gone off everything. I have a normal appetite, but just so so sick of everything I cook.

We (just myself and DP) cut out most processed food long ago, so tend to make everything, plus sauces, any baking, etc from scratch. We like doing it so that's ok. But 80% of my plate is basically vegetables, the rest protein. Sounds good, but I am just sick to death of it.
I have tried all manner or recipes, from all cultures, and am still fed up.

I gave up bread many years ago and I can't recall why. Pasta and noodles also. Possibly due to hearing they were empty calories so didn't need them.

So there was this revelation when a friend made me a toasted slice of sourdough with a healthy topping of asparagus, mozzarella, mushroom, pepper, garlic, spinach - and it blew my mind with the taste! I can't recreate this without bread - i tried and tried and it isn't happening. It was the last thing I truly loved to eat and it made the veggies so delicious.
A week later, inspired by my reaction she made me another sourdough slice with a poached egg, avocado, cress, asparagus and mushrooms. Again I was in utter heaven, my head blown off with the taste.

When I roast vegetables with chicken breast, or make a soup, or various other healthy veg recipes I am so bored, uninspired and unsatisfied. And I am a good, adventurous cook! It's puzzling me.

Since we don't eat processed (hydrogenated oils) much I have shied away from sourdough and pitta. But it's like life is too bloody short to be this repressed. I suppose somewhere along the line I have been swept up in the 'good food bad food' evangelicalism and I just want to eat healthy but with more joy and variety than this!

So you google sourdough and it's all about glycemic index and baaaaaad calories. I am slim, otherwise healthy, I am sure eating some fucking grains a few times a week won't hurry me off to the undertakers.

Sorry, needed to get that out Grin

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Loopielu · 14/05/2022 14:36

So introduce some variety. Everything in moderation. Life is too short to eat boring food.

Ilikewinter · 14/05/2022 14:37

Well I have nothing to say except life is too short, have your sourdough slice and enjoy it !!!!

EvonneGoolagong · 14/05/2022 14:37

Just eat it then. Why all the angst? I don’t mean to be unkind but you said it yourself, life is too short.

You can be healthy and eat bread.

TwilightSkies · 14/05/2022 14:38

Do it. Life is too short. Rigid eating is no way too live.

enjoy!!

doadeer · 14/05/2022 14:38

I eat a lot of vegetables and think about health but I'm not as extreme as this! You need to find moderation. Good quality bread (the type that goes off in a day or 2) is fine! As you say life is too short. You're doing good by your body with all those excellent nutrients, live a little!
Watch pasta grannies on instagram, these 90 year olds have eaten fresh made pasta every day for 88 years... They seem OK!!

Dearmariacountmein · 14/05/2022 14:39

Google orthorexia.

Its not healthy to be obsessed with eating healthily in the way you do. Mediterranean and Japanese cuisines are shown to be the healthiest and they have bread, pasta and noodles.

As long as you eat a balanced diet, within the required calories for your body and don’t overdo the processed food I.e oils you will be healthy. So crack on and eat what makes you happy unless that’s burger kings and KFC

Pipsickl · 14/05/2022 14:40

You can go on YouTube and look how French / Spanish/ Italian people eat and notice that they eat grains and stuff and stay thin and healthy. I can’t remember the name of the channel but there is this italian student who lives in Canada but shows how to make healthy italian recipes featuring pasta and stuff, she looks amazing x

RandomQuest · 14/05/2022 14:40

It’s ok, eat some toast and enjoy it! I don’t know why think you’re think you’ve never had to diet though, you’ve been on a very restrictive and controlled diet for years by the sounds of it.

gunnersgold · 14/05/2022 14:42

Do hello fresh or Gousto for a few weeks to get some variety . I think it's great value

Beatrixpotterspencil · 14/05/2022 14:42

I know, I have developed some angst, so true!

I do think there's a HUGE difference between eating process shit and just enjoying healthier breadlike stuff. Our culture is so full of obsessive messaging about everything being bad that the whole western world seems repressed!

I would honestly like to enliven my meals with some sourdough, and noodles throughout the week. Going to Sainsbury's in a bit so if anyone can recommend a decent sourdough/pitta/noodle that would be good!

I avoid stuff with hydrogenated veg oils so anything else is fine.

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bedsidetab · 14/05/2022 14:43

just introduce some carbs

bedsidetab · 14/05/2022 14:44

never had to diet.

But you are on a diet? a very restrictive one

doadeer · 14/05/2022 14:44

I get my bread from a bakery 😆
I don't know much about the noodle quality to be honest I only buy normal ones. I suppose you could make pasta / noodles yourself so you can control what's in it?

Trivester · 14/05/2022 14:44

Moderation is the key.

This sounds like orthorexia and it can be dangerous.

Fairislefandango · 14/05/2022 14:45

Sounds a bit like you have orthorexia tbh. Eating some good bread sometimes is going to do you absolutely zero harm, especially if you have generally good eating habits. You're absolutely right - life is too short to be this restrictive about what you eat (especially when you have no actual medical or weight-related reason to be doing it).

One of the healthiest diets in the world us supposed to be the traditional Mediterranean diet. It does not eschew bread or grains in general.

Ylvamoon · 14/05/2022 14:45

Just eat decent bread!! Sourdough or a lovely crusty loaf from your farm shop or other artisan type bakery IS THE BEST!

Honestly, life is to short and you'll find that as long as you eat things in moderation all will be fine!

comealongponds · 14/05/2022 14:45

just eat some carbs, they are not actually the devil

Beatrixpotterspencil · 14/05/2022 14:46

RandomQuest · 14/05/2022 14:40

It’s ok, eat some toast and enjoy it! I don’t know why think you’re think you’ve never had to diet though, you’ve been on a very restrictive and controlled diet for years by the sounds of it.

I meant i've always been slender so not a weight loss diet. I did used to eat bread, pasta a lot, my weight wasn't any different. I chose to cut some stuff out over the years with a focus on nutrition/health. But yes I have developed too much angst!
It does feel restrictive now, but for years it felt fine, I never felt i was missing out until recently.

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Fairislefandango · 14/05/2022 14:47

never had to diet

How do you define dieting? Your life is one long diet by the sounds of it. Most people would consider the way you eat as being on a diet!

Beatrixpotterspencil · 14/05/2022 14:47

I'm not anti carb, believe it or not. We just wanted to eliminate processed stuff, but yeh.....im off to google orthorexia.

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JesusSufferingFuck22 · 14/05/2022 14:49

Life is too short. I have a very limited diet nowadays due to illness. I really miss a slice of bread, cheese and many other foods. Enjoy what you like, in moderation of course.

Pineapplepine · 14/05/2022 14:50

It sounds like you just really need some nice bread in your life. Let it in op! Get some nice granary stuff with lots of seeds and fibre.

coffeecupsandfairylights · 14/05/2022 14:50

I'm one of those irritatingly healthy eaters, love good food and never had to diet.

Your entire life is a diet and it doesn't sound very healthy at all to me.

As a PP have said, google Orthorexia. It's not healthy and you will damage your body in the long-run. For example - where's the calcium to ensure good bone health if all you eat is protein and vegetables?

Beatrixpotterspencil · 14/05/2022 14:53

Ok, I have googled and don't think orthorexia.
I didn't know that consciously eating and enjoying healthy food was a disorder now?

I've just got bored, unsatisfied with my food, and need to relax with the horror stories online, I think.

I will be buying my nice sourdough this afternoon!

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Lovemypeaceandquiet · 14/05/2022 14:53

How about learn how to make your own sourdough for bread?