It’s interesting that the rose tinted myth that it was somehow straightforward to
buy a house on one low wage back in the day just doesn’t match up to the reality in people’s actual stories.
There are couples scrimping and saving to eventually buy a really gritty flat that they scrimped and saved to do up over time, before upgrading. Their quality of life (and expectations of what was acceptable) increased over time too.
There are men working extra hours and their wives taking on work to supplement the family income.
I guess for already comfortable, middle class families it might have been a case that they could simply get married and buy a house with one salary. But the majority of families in the country didn’t look like that.
My grandparents struggled (and always lived in council housing) and couldn’t live on a single wage. My parents never lived on a single wage - they did better than their parents by going to college and becoming a teacher and a quantity surveyor. Still they struggled to buy their first house at the end of the 70s. Lots of scrimping and saving and, when it came to it, they moved to the other side of the city from their family because the £2k difference in house prices was an enormous one.
Sure, they both (now separated) look comfortable now. But it wasn’t some golden age where you could earn 50p a week and buy a 3 bed semi. That never happened.
I think the increase in expectations for quality of life really does translate through into the perception that it is so much more difficult for everyone now to afford life. Many people expected to be cold, damp and to eat poorly in the past. My parents grew up with no central heating. My dad’s family slept with coats on top of them to be warmer. Once they were old enough, my dad and uncles spent all the school holidays working on the roads with my grandpa to bring in extra money. My aunt did cleaning with my Gran. They grew up eating quickly so no one could steal the food off their plate (3 hungry boys and a tight budget) because they’d finished before them. That wasn’t unusual for life on a peripheral housing estate in Glasgow in the 60s and 70s.
Obviously it’s a good thing that we have moved past that and don’t think anyone should be in that situation. Still, it’s not helpful to imagine that there was a golden age where life was easier for everyone and the current situation for poor families is an unprecedented abomination.
It actually a good thing that many of us are horrified at the attitude that ‘these people’ should just learn to budget better to make their £6 a person food budget stretch further. In the past (even in the 80s and 90s) there’d probably be much more generally acceptance of that kind of poverty in society. It would seem much more ‘normal’. It certainly was the reality for loads of families in the 70s.