Namechanged for obvious reasons!
In my younger irresponsible days I was a bit of a toker, in fact I smoked every day and grew my own - I was quite keen on the stuff! My mum is an eccentric character and always loved a smoke too.
Anyway, that was a few years ago now. I gave it up when I got pregnant and never got into it again due to bfing / co-sleeping. DH still smokes a bit but in the back garden after dc in bed.
Mum moved abroad three years ago, to a remote mediterranean island, and she can't find anyone to supply her there. So since she moved out therte I have been sending her parcels every now and again in the post.
So far this has worked ouy okay, although since dc came I have become more and more uncomfortable about doing it.
But she is going through a v stressful time at present - her dh, my stepdad, is having chemo for cancer.
She just rang today to tell me that the latest parcel was intercepted by customs! The stuff was removed and replaced by a note. There was nothing linking us to the parcel so fairly sure we are safe.
But she had a big go at me on the phone saying I didn't wrap it up properly! I just said that I was sorry, I would do a better job next time although I don't have much spare time these days for endless wrapping.
I am so pissed off and just want to stop doing it. But I feel bad because she is going through a hard time and probably could do with a smoke!