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- a horse is different than a cat because you HAVE to let it out. I can’t speak to what cat owners would or wouldn’t like re petting but as this thread shows, there’s a divide and
- the point is I don’t know the cat. If I pet it it could (and this is my personal experience and why I hate cats!) decide to scratch or bite me or my children. I certainly wouldn’t let my children pet a cat, dog or any other animal they don’t know.
Petting a horse you don’t know can cause huge problems. They are coming over to you for treats or petting; yes. That doesn’t mean they should get treats and/or petted. Because you don’t know what food they have eaten and can eat. You don’t know if they bite. You don’t know if it will cause issues with the other horses in the field. As another poster said, it’s a vicious cycle because they are coming over as they are used to getting treats etc so will continue to do so when people go to them and feed them.
It’s not fun for the owner to deal with at the end of the day when the horse gets bargey and rude and expects treats (trust me they can get extremely silly and it’s not funny when they are big horses shoving you around for treats as some one has been feeding them!).
1) a horse is different than a cat because you HAVE to let it out. I can’t speak to what cat owners would or wouldn’t like re petting but as this thread shows, there’s a divide and
You don't have to own a horse on land the public can access, though. If you want to own a horse and don't have private land or inaccessible fields, you need to accept you won't have 100% control over who interacts with your horse.
2) the point is I don’t know the cat. If I pet it it could (and this is my personal experience and why I hate cats!) decide to scratch or bite me or my children. I certainly wouldn’t let my children pet a cat, dog or any other animal they don’t know.
And that's a perfectly valid choice. But by letting a cat out to roam, you're accepting the risk that children might touch it or pull its' tail, that the cat might eat something toxic or get hit by a car. If you don't want to take those risks, you keep your cat inside or don't have a cat in the first place.
Petting a horse you don’t know can cause huge problems. They are coming over to you for treats or petting; yes. That doesn’t mean they should get treats and/or petted. Because you don’t know what food they have eaten and can eat. You don’t know if they bite. You don’t know if it will cause issues with the other horses in the field. As another poster said, it’s a vicious cycle because they are coming over as they are used to getting treats etc so will continue to do so when people go to them and feed them.
Nobody is saying it's acceptable to feed a horse, but if a horse approaches a person and asks for attention, it's a bit silly to say it's wrong to give them that attention. Horses (like cats and dogs) are perfectly free to walk away or ignore humans if they don't want a fuss.
It’s not fun for the owner to deal with at the end of the day when the horse gets bargey and rude and expects treats (trust me they can get extremely silly and it’s not funny when they are big horses shoving you around for treats as some one has been feeding them!).
I know, I ride and I care for horses as part of my job, but owning horses is a privilege, not a right. If you don't want the public to ever interact with your horse, then you need to make sure you have a private field and set-up before getting one.