I’ve read the first couple of pages of the thread and found the ‘he’s mine, I pay for him, no-one else should get joy from him’ posts odd. I have dogs and it’s lovely when they have attention from strangers, brightening someone’s day with something so innocuous. It’s weird to be possessive about your pets, they are sentient beings in their own rights, not possessions.
I don’t have a problem with people making a fuss of my horses particularly.
I do have a problem with people trespassing to get to them, climbing over and damaging locked gates and fencing, ripping down signs and electric fencing, which I then have to pay £££ to repair, and leaves my horses at risk of getting out and putting themselves and others in danger.
My old lady loves a fuss and will stand patiently for hours while people stroke her, she’ll blow you kisses and bow (arthritic legs allowing). And that’s fine, I have no problem with people making a fuss of her.
My other pony is a little shy so will tend to stay away from people.
However, if either of them think the other is getting something good then shyness and dodgy legs go out the window and they will kick the crap out of each other (and anyone else caught in the crossfire)
I have issues with people feeding them, despite perfectly polite and clear signs asking them not to. We have to keep on top of our oldies weight due to her arthritis and the other is prone to colic.
I pay ££ for our oldies pain relief, her special shoes, her supplements and her regular vet check up so that she can enjoy her very much deserved retirement for as long as possible.
I also have to pay for the emergency vet when she’s been fed something unsuitable and has choke or colic, or when they’ve been fighting and one is injured because someone has tried to give them treats.
So yes, they are my property - it’s pretty simple really - not yours? Leave it alone!
It is not entitled to ask people not to feed my horses. We have several very clear, very polite signs up along the gate and fences so not knowing is no excuse - and we’ve tried all different types of wording from the blunt “no feeding” to “my name is Dobbin, please don’t feed me I may get sick” and they still get ignored - or even ripped down