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Update- neighbours walking on lawn!

124 replies

Lochnessgiraffe · 15/04/2022 12:32

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Update- we put lawn ornaments down the side separating our lawn and their drive.
This morning when we went to walk the dogs the twats had moved the 2 ornaments onto our doorstep!!!
I've moved them back. Fuckers.
So glad we're moving.

OP posts:
Dillydollydingdong · 15/04/2022 19:14

You do realize that you are supposed to disclose any dispute with neighbours, to your buyers, don't you?

FrightorFlight · 15/04/2022 19:27

Good smear of this on them

Update- neighbours walking on lawn!
Theunamedcat · 15/04/2022 19:32

@FrightorFlight

Good smear of this on them
Oooh I like your thinking 😆
RightOnTheEdge · 15/04/2022 19:35

@Herejustforthisone

Cunts.

Just get some landmines.

🤣👏🤣👏
Shitandhills · 15/04/2022 20:47

Why wouldn't you let him park on your drive? And why do all the neighbours not like you? There's got to be more to this...

Lochnessgiraffe · 15/04/2022 21:03

Seriously! Why wouldnt I let him park on our drive ? Because I didn't want him too!
Our neighbours think we're weird as we don't have a car. We do get on with our other neighbours the ones further down the close

OP posts:
Blossomtoes · 15/04/2022 21:19

To be honest I think you’re weird not to let someone else use your drive when you haven’t got a car. People actually rent their drives out and get some money for it.

Madre123 · 15/04/2022 21:32

I would have the party of all leaving parties...FOR SURE! As much music, mayhem, noise and disruption as possible with lots of fun, singing and laughing....revenge is best served COLD and when least expected...keep smiling, shoulders back, keep singing and when you have left send the fucking twat heads a card...good luck with the move and your new life..BE HAPPY

itsgettingweird · 15/04/2022 21:42

@Blossomtoes

To be honest I think you’re weird not to let someone else use your drive when you haven’t got a car. People actually rent their drives out and get some money for it.
Yes tent it out. Make money to deal with the wear and tear that happens when the drive is used.

And why should she allow her neighbours to use her drive - her own visitors can use the space if they visit,

iheartmybeachhut · 16/04/2022 09:08

@Blossomtoes

To be honest I think you’re weird not to let someone else use your drive when you haven’t got a car. People actually rent their drives out and get some money for it.
My drive, my rules not a general car park. Why would that make me weird when it's MY PROPERTY ?
MRex · 16/04/2022 10:36

@Blossomtoes

To be honest I think you’re weird not to let someone else use your drive when you haven’t got a car. People actually rent their drives out and get some money for it.
As someone with a driveway and no car, I can help you out: 1) Their car could damage my wall, fence, drainage cover and otherwise cause additional wear on the drive; all those things would cost me money. 2) Our family, friends and any workmen park in the drive when they visit; I don't want to pay for parking permits when I have a functional drive. We also let the window cleaner and plumber park there whenever they do something on the road, because we've agreed that can if they text to ask (they do) and they are important enough to us to keep them sweet! At least once each week, a car or van will use it for however long. 3) I have a young son who scoots down the slope and sets off his rocket launcher (back garden it could get lost in other gardens); there is no visibility coming into the drive from one side; if they swung into the drive they might hit him. I don't want to not use our own front garden just so that someone else can. 4) What happens if my son's scooter or bike, or one of our bikes, scratches the car? I don't want to be liable for damage caused by squeezing out of my own drive. 5) The bins can't be put out with a car in the drive, we need the space to get them out and in again once each week. 6) I don't want to squeeze in and out of my drive past a car. 7) I don't want the noise of an engine nor the sight of a vehicle to distract me when I'm in the front room. 8) For a tiny amount of driveway rental I'd have hassle and cost to organise the Public liability insurance and tax declarations, which I don't want to do. 9) It's my property, I don't want to create expectations about others having some claim over my own space.
Shitandhills · 16/04/2022 10:37

I'd happily let a neighbour use my drive for a short while if they were doing building work, seems a bit selfish to have it sitting there unused and not let them use it temporarily 'because it's mine. And just seems a bit odd that the neighbours either side of you don't like you enough that they're going to celebrate when you leave. No smoke without fire and all that. Something must have happened previously.

MRex · 16/04/2022 10:37

Forgot one:
10) We can't open the garage doors to get things in or out of a car is in the drive.

MRex · 16/04/2022 10:40

This obsession with using other people's property is just a bit strange. The people with building work could just buy a permit to park on the road or round the corner and walk for a minute, instead of turning their own home improvement into someone else's disruption.

Theunamedcat · 16/04/2022 11:41

Will you get a bollard installed so the new owners won't have the same entitlement issues

TimeForTeaAndG · 16/04/2022 12:05

@Dillydollydingdong

You do realize that you are supposed to disclose any dispute with neighbours, to your buyers, don't you?
Isn't that only if it's been officially reported to council/police?
ExMachinaDeus · 16/04/2022 13:27

To be honest I think you’re weird not to let someone else use your drive when you haven’t got a car.

And as someone who doesn't have a car, I think you're weird for thinking like this ...

So you know, why not live and let live? We all have different priorities. But I'm not going to persecute my neighbours because they live their lives differently from me.

knowinglesseveryday · 16/04/2022 13:50

To be honest I think you’re weird not to let someone else use your drive when you haven’t got a car.

What entitlement looks like.

Laiste · 16/04/2022 15:44

The people who think OP should let other people park their cars on her drive - would you be happy to have other people store stuff in your garden if they asked nicely? It's just some boxes of kitchen stuff. They haven't got a shed.

Maybe put their wheely bins outside your front door and a few bits of old furniture they're trying to sell as well if they asked nicely - y'know, they don't have a garden ...

No? It's not your fault they haven't got a garden and you don't want their stuff on your property? Their stuff outside your front door? Or them coming and going round your house when they fancy? Well ....

Roundeartheratchriatmas · 16/04/2022 16:04

Oh yes - dig a big hole and cement them in !

Jconnais1chansonquivavsenerver · 16/04/2022 16:38

@Blossomtoes

To be honest I think you’re weird not to let someone else use your drive when you haven’t got a car. People actually rent their drives out and get some money for it.
But the OP's neighbours clearly want free use of her drive, no payment on offer. Plus all the other reasons people have given for not letting neighbours trample all over your own property as if the neighbours owned it, not you.
Nanny0gg · 16/04/2022 17:47

@Shitandhills

I'd happily let a neighbour use my drive for a short while if they were doing building work, seems a bit selfish to have it sitting there unused and not let them use it temporarily 'because it's mine. And just seems a bit odd that the neighbours either side of you don't like you enough that they're going to celebrate when you leave. No smoke without fire and all that. Something must have happened previously.
Selfish?

Can they use your back garden for a barbeque if you're not using it?

Your loo if they've got guests over? (similarly one of your bedrooms?)

You want a house with a drive - then buy one.

Bunnybingesoneggs · 16/04/2022 17:49

What if op didn't use her downstairs loo - should she leave a side door open so ndn can shit in it should he need to?
Bonkers.

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