So I know that I am also being unreasonable but my husband won't accept that he had any part to play.
We were going to go on an impromptu walk this morning with extended family. They do this every weekend but I rarely get to go as am dealing with kids activities/housework. They always leave for the walk at 9 30. Generally DH will go as he does an activity himself at the weekends so doesn't deal with the kids ones.
Today was the first time in ages that I could go. DH wanted to be on time. He gets very stressy about this. Despite the fact that I was ready he starts taking over the chore I'm doing (not entirely sure why, maybe he can do it faster?). His stress is directed at me.
I'm ready in the car and waiting but one of our teens has decided to come and isn't quite ready. He starts having a go at me, generally being unpleasant. I asked him why it was my fault but he couldn't really answer. I said I didn't really want to spend time with him when he talked to me like that so wouldn't go. I got out of the car. Teen got in and he drove away. He wasn't late. They left on time.
I am seething. I was looking forward to going. I get so little time for things like that and he just bloody ruined it. But it will be my fault for being over-reactive and emotional. If he had some recognition that his behaviour towards me was I'll directed I would have stayed but he couldn't understand why it was a problem.
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