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To put in a complaint about this housing officer?

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NetflixMom21 · 08/04/2022 10:36

On the housing register. Owed a complete homelessness relief duty and have an urgent need to move because of violence within the home and high medical needs for both me and children. Just been put forward for a property the other side of the county to be closer to family who can provide support for all of this.

Every time I have been nominated for a property the rules change, for example, this time round was proving residency for where my family members live. A few weeks ago they accepted bank statements, now they are saying they do not. I have provided every bit of evidence they need but it seems like the goal posts move dramatically every few weeks whenever a property comes up, so I questioned this on my portal and expressed my frustration at the rules seemingly changing whenever I get offered a property. (In my past experience of them, they are just an extremely challenging and rude team of people anyway).

This morning I got quite a confrontational phone call from one of the workers saying they didn’t appreciate turning up to work and seeing my message first thing this morning (I literally just questioned why bank statements were accepted a few weeks ago but not now). They then went onto say that I am ‘leapfrogging’ people who live in the area and have been waiting for years and so on. Well I doubt many of those people have experienced trauma and violence in their home and have high medical needs which is why they are still waiting and not on a higher band…

She was rude, confrontational and insensitive - almost making it seem like I should be thankful that I have taken a house that other people in the area should be entitled to instead… without taking into consideration all the shit circumstances we have which is why we have to leave our lives behind and move to a different part of the county…

I’m so tempted to put in a complaint… but is it worth it?!

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worriedatthistime · 09/04/2022 13:16

@SilverHairedCat but they aren't all like it, is what I am saying
Some are lovely, my old HO was amazing she helped us get out mutual exchange also helping the person who was in our house and matching our needs perfectly because she knew the tenants on her patch
They seem to of gone a bit to much office only based now

NeverDropYourMooncup · 09/04/2022 13:18

[quote worriedatthistime]@NeverDropYourMooncup whos Paying £750 pcm for a 2 bed flat ha , not many if any
I know lots in ha / council associations and more like £600 a month
But we only have kitchens done every 20 years , bathrooms 30 and they aren't expensive lasting ones
My current kitchen has been patched and repaired Several times a d has to last another 12 years
Because they haven't got money to do them as regularly as they may like
Im still grateful for my Ha home but some people really are not and will scream and shout and demand what they think they should have , obviously living in a ha estate I hear some of these people and they can be so entitled .

[/quote]
Try living in the outskirts of Greater London and needing a disabled accessible property.

UsernameInTheTown · 09/04/2022 13:44

@worriedatthistime "In my experience". I think you missed this salient part of my post Confused.

urbanbuddha · 09/04/2022 13:56

?She's queue jumping when there is may well be others in worse living conditions.*

Yes, she cites dv, but that's also a very easy get out that many are advised to use.

That's an appalling comment to make. Domestic abuse victims are prioritised for housing because their lives are at risk.
Have a think before you post.

70kid · 09/04/2022 14:09

I complained about a HA who told me that of course once their Tennant had served his 2 exclusion sentence for trying to stab me with 2 knives he could return to his council house
I kicked up such a fuss through my MP
they moved him to a different department . When I check on line to see if hf is still a housing officer his name is no longer on the lists

Nidan2Sandan · 09/04/2022 15:22

@70kid

I complained about a HA who told me that of course once their Tennant had served his 2 exclusion sentence for trying to stab me with 2 knives he could return to his council house I kicked up such a fuss through my MP they moved him to a different department . When I check on line to see if hf is still a housing officer his name is no longer on the lists
Well, unless the court issues a possession order sadly that would be correct. Its not up to the council or housing association if someone is evicted, its down to the courts & in my experience getting possessions currently is a nightmare.
worriedatthistime · 10/04/2022 17:13

@70kid thats because they don't get to decide who is evicted or who isn't thats for the courts
Its really hard to evict people i, the HO may of agreed with you but all they can tell you is the facts

worriedatthistime · 10/04/2022 17:14

@NeverDropYourMooncup but its not the norm price
I have several family members living in london in hA / council and they don't pay that
Is yours a ha price or the new affordable they do ?

NeverDropYourMooncup · 10/04/2022 17:23

[quote worriedatthistime]@NeverDropYourMooncup but its not the norm price
I have several family members living in london in hA / council and they don't pay that
Is yours a ha price or the new affordable they do ? [/quote]
Normal/standard.

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