My wife is 25 weeks pregnant, and we have a 2 year old son. She takes him to see her parents on a weekly basis on a set day. She go's early whenever she's ready, and I'm going to work. I only ask she drives back (motorway drive) about 40 mins away to leave in daylight time/hours to avoid driving in the dark. This has invariably never happened, and getting later and later. Last week was 8.30/9pm and next day he usually go's to nursery which can also be a little disruptive to his sleep.
today Ive checked the tyres, and reinflated for her car before going to work as two were a little low on air, as some concerns tyres need changing. Again ive asked her to come back in daylight before 7/7.30pm to avoid motorway driving in the dark. Weve had a row, as she thinks I shouldnt be telling her to come back at a certain time.
Is safety not the priority and am I being unreasonable?