Interesting responses. The OP didn't say she didn't want to treat trans people or implied anything about not treating them with dignity, yet somehow that's what's been leapt on.
There are serious considerations here for NHS staff and there have been a large number of incidents where staff have been put in a very difficult position.
Take the many whistleblowers at the Tavistock. I think that's 35 resignations now?
Someone upthread mentioned that it would be 'unkind' to refuse treatment to a trans teenager.
What if that teenager was the one who had said that 'my mum wants this more than me', or one of those who came out as trans after being bullied for a lesbian and that mum was one of the openly homophobic parents mentioned in the review?
There's nothing kind about giving irreversible medical treatment to a teenager who doesn't want it and is only agreeing because of homophobia from their peers and parents.
Or if you're one of those clinicians who were told not to raise concerns with the safeguarding lead?
Or take the recent case of a woman who was raped on a single sex ward and told that it couldn't have happened because there were 'no men' on the ward? If you're the nurse who is expected to tell a woman she wasn't raped because NHS policy said it couldn't have happened?
I would find it very difficult to turn a blind eye to any of those scenarios, all of which have actually happened.
This isn't about refusing treatment to trans people or refusing to treat them with dignity. It's about medical professionals being put in a position where they have to go directly against their medical judgment.
Another analogy is a nurse working in one of the hospitals overseas that perform FGM on girls. Is she supposed to say 'it's my job' and wash her hands of it because she was respectful and kind to the girl on the post-op ward?
This isn't about the OP not being kind or not wanting to treat trans people. It's about being worried about having to go ahead with treatment that is clearly bad for the patient and having to enforce policies that go against safeguarding.
OP, it's difficult to tell someone else what to do with something like this, but I do know that the NHS needs nurses who will genuinely put their patients first and not look the other way in cases of medical malpractice or safeguarding concerns.