To be blunt, I don't think KK is always doing the right things behind closed doors, despite projecting a saintly image in public.
For example, Kanye has said he doesn't want North - who is 8 yrs old - to be posting on TikTok. And I think that's a fairly reasonable request, even if she does it under parental supervision. So what does KK do? Lets North repeatedly post on TikTok, knowing that it's going to enrage Kanye. And I think the latest post was a song North was singing with pretty explicit lyrics.
They're supposed to be co-parenting. If KK had said no to TikTok for North, but Kanye was letting her post, people would be quick to condemn him for ignoring her wishes.
So I don't think that KK is quite as innocent as she seems, and I suspect that at least part of these shenanigans are being considered as good publicity/substance for her new reality show.
But....
Having said all of that - Kanye is absolutely awful. I can't believe the shit he's getting away with saying, and it genuinely is truly shocking.
He put KK through the wringer even before they split, announcing publicly that she considered a termination etc. I think he's severely mentally ill with delusions of grandeur, but you can be mentally ill and also a ginormous, misogynistic, arrogant prick. Which he is. And those two things combined are extremely concerning.
I guess she feels quite safe because of her security. But I think it would be smarter for her to dial down her behaviour, and for Pete Davidson to stop inflaming things too. This isn't about victim blaming - it's about being safe around someone who's incredibly volatile, and potentially dangerous.
I really hope Kanye moves onto a new obsession and all this passes.
I also think that those who have pointed out that if he was female he'd be under a conservatorship by now have got a bloody good point.
I really can't predict how this is going to end right now, but it does highlight the predicament that women face. Imagine if KK wasn't rich. It would be sickeningly scary. At least she's protected.