[quote Onionpatch]@forinborin good to hear the men are able to work and can still send money. That wasnt my image of life in ukraine now. I take onboard that a husband in a warzone doesnt make you a lone parent if he is still able to phone and send money - although i dont think he is going to be much use for sharing nursery drop off and pick ups ...
A lot of women whose husband work abroad struggle to work full time too due to logistics of childcare availability matching the work available.
I also dont know what salaries are like to know if 300 euro is comparable in relation to salaries - but my nursery fees were 1.8k[/quote]
Some men are, some aren't. Remember, you are seeing the footage that was specifically selected for the news, but - obviously the front line cities excluded - there are some glimpses of the normal life too here and there. And that is how it should be.
Western Ukraine operates almost in a BAU mode, apart from the humanitarian crisis, of course. There were a couple of cafes open last weekend in Kyiv in some places (and for one of my friends, a very basic cappucino felt like a magic drink and a promise that a normal, boring life will return one day).
300 euros will probably be around a third of an average salary.
I know I am trying to paint a picture that is probably too rosy, I am just quite upset by this narrative that is pushed in every thread on this topic that Ukrainian refugees are some sort of mute hillbillies who will bring only crime and filth with them, and will crowd out GP surgeries and schools. And their opponents - "but, they can be an asset, how about we offer them fruit picking and street sweeping! And they must be great at farming as Ukraine is the breadbasket of the world!"