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I mean I guess it's a nice thought for Mother's Day, pmsl.

93 replies

marvellousnightforamooncup · 14/03/2022 13:17

Thanks Tesco. Dear Mum, happy Mother's Day, have some comfy PJ's and some self love. Who doesn't want to have a wank on Mothering Sunday?

I mean I guess it's a nice thought for Mother's Day, pmsl.
OP posts:
GreyTS · 14/03/2022 15:41

@ENoeuf

Self love - masturbation Self care - glass of wine and some space from the kids Surprised no one realised it had another meaning
Yep!
Chocolattay · 14/03/2022 15:44

I’ve never thought of self-love as wanking! This is definitely a ‘you’ thing, OP.

For me self-love is having good self-esteem, prioritising yourself etc.

I’d be a bit annoyed if I were to get something marked ‘self-love” for a Mother’s Day present though. No, today is about you showing YOUR appreciation for me, kiddos.

senua · 14/03/2022 15:48

I’ve never thought of self-love as wanking! This is definitely a ‘you’ thing, OP.
No. It's always had that meaning.

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 14/03/2022 15:49

I also snigger at Self Love.

Surely pampering etc is Self Care?

Nelliephant1 · 14/03/2022 15:50

Wow guessing it's half term somewhere 🙄

mafted · 14/03/2022 15:54

I always think this when I see self love on clothing!

MichelleScarn · 14/03/2022 15:56

@marvellousnightforamooncup

Self love is definitely wanking. 'Self care' and 'me time' is feet up, relaxo mode.
That would be my take, and I think Bieber agrees... "Cause if you like the way you look that much Oh, baby, you should go and love yourself"... Wink
Dotdotdotdashdashdashdotdotdot · 14/03/2022 15:58

@marvellousnightforamooncup

Self love is definitely wanking. 'Self care' and 'me time' is feet up, relaxo mode.
Self love is all the “if you don’t love yourself, how do you expect others to love you?” Type guff. There are a whole lot of ‘inspirational quotes’ about self love, it’s definitely not about self pleasure. declutterthemind.com/blog/self-love-quotes/
MargosKaftan · 14/03/2022 16:01

Self love = wanking. This is a common enough euphemism that surely someone at their head office had heard it before that went into production, or perhaps they had and happily sniggered about it.

BeHappy91818 · 14/03/2022 16:05

Never heard that self love means wanking Hmm

Rowgtfc72 · 14/03/2022 16:06

Thought exactly the same when I saw those pjs last week and stood chuckling to myself Grin

Wanderingowl · 14/03/2022 16:07

So I have a waterproof vibrator that I bought for having a wank in the bath. Is that self love or self care? Hmm

HousePlantNeglect · 14/03/2022 16:10

Both! 🤣

yellowsmileyface · 14/03/2022 16:10

@marvellousnightforamooncup

Self love is definitely wanking. 'Self care' and 'me time' is feet up, relaxo mode.
It's not "definitely" wanking. Sure, that euphemism exists. As does the more literal definition of loving yourself.
girlmom21 · 14/03/2022 16:12

I'd never have thought that seeing it, but now I can't un-see it Grin

EarringsandLipstick · 14/03/2022 16:13

No, I'm with OP here. I've never heard of 'self love' used to mean putting your feet up, relaxing etc.

EarringsandLipstick · 14/03/2022 16:15

@BeHappy91818

Never heard that self love means wanking Hmm
These comments with the Hmm are so odd.

For some people 'self love' does = wanking.

For others, it had a different meaning. M
No need for the eye rolls & side eye.

For many of us, we have only heard it used in the context of wanking!

Smokeahontas · 14/03/2022 16:21

Yep self love = 🤚🏻👆🏻💦

worriedatthistime · 14/03/2022 16:28

I would take self love to mean love yourselv

BreastedBoobilyToTheStairs · 14/03/2022 16:30

Yep. Wanking.

Just like the Hailee Steinfeld song 'Love Myself'. That isn't about taking a spa day and embracing flaws either Grin

TheWeeDonkey · 14/03/2022 16:47

It was only when I was singing along (quite loudly) to that Justin Beiber sing that I realised what "you should go and love yourself" means 🤦🏾‍♀️

TheWeeDonkey · 14/03/2022 16:49

But in the words of Rupaul. If you can't love yourself, how in the he'll are you gonna love somebody else? 🙏

yellowsmileyface · 14/03/2022 17:48

@EarringsandLipstick

No, I'm with OP here. I've never heard of 'self love' used to mean putting your feet up, relaxing etc.
It's not trying to be synonymous with self care.

Self care is acts to nurture your body and mind, such as pampering.

Self love is loving and accepting yourself, showing yourself compassion etc. (I'm not denying that it's also used as a euphemism).

They're two different things.

Blossomtoes · 14/03/2022 17:49

@Idontevenknow

Maybe I'm being naive but I didn't think that when I read it Confused
I didn’t either. I guess our minds aren’t in the gutter 🤷‍♀️
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