I know this is the very definition of a 'first world problem'.
In May I reach a big life milestone, a big achievement for me and the culmination of lots of work. I month or so ago DH and I, very out of character, booked a night at a v fancy (not glam fancy, but classy) Spa to celebrate, relax, draw a line under all the sleepless nights, stress and effort of the last few years and just...breathe a bit.
We're not Spa people. I am not a Spa person. I don't do treatments. Never get my nails done, cut my own hair, barely shave my legs for 8 months of the year! I've set foot in a beauty salon maybe three times in my life (only one of those wasn't cringey). I cleanse and moisturize, brush my teeth, occasionally use body lotion. We live in a very rural place and are usually up a mountain or surrounded by dogs, kids and mud.
I thought it was a good idea at the time. I mostly wanted to slosh around like a happy hippo in a warm pool, have a nice dinner and a big sleep. Ut
But now I'm getting a bit preoccupied that I'll feel like like fish out of water: that "they" (the staff? other guests?) will take one look at me and know I don't belong there. But I really want this tiny slice of rare self indulgence.
So my question is, what would you advise I do to get ready for and feel good at this lovely Spa? I'm a size 16 with massive boobs. Where do I find nice swimwear? Should I get a bikini wax? What products will turn my blotchy never-see-the-light-of-day legs into something that won't scare the locals? And what are the rules of a Spa? Do I wear make up (this I am a bit more familiar with)? Will they supply flip flops (I've never owned a pair)? Will everyone laugh at me??
What are the basic staples you would do before going away for a night like this? Or should I just accept I'll look like a fat farmer on day release, cancel and use the money to replaster the kitchen?
HELP!!!