Would you End it if you found partner on a dating app?

[Lolabray]

This is a quick yes no question ..if your partner had been on the app how would you respond? I’d be interested in the results ..

He'd be dumped

End it. Trust gone.

Would he let me see the message exchanges

It would be over.

Someone would have to have found him and tell me though, I wouldn't be on a dating app.

Yes I would. (And have). It's a clear precursor to cheating.

I think you need to tell people what YABU and YANBU mean in this context.

FWIW I would end it if I found serious partner on dating app.

Yes. Couldn’t be anything else.

Of course I would

100% end it

Done. Finished. End of.

Without trust there's no relationship.

100% he would be gone. I know myself and I’d never be able to completely trust him again. I’d hate to live a life second guessing everything

@Kilimanjaro97

I think you need to tell people what YABU and YANBU mean in this context.

FWIW I would end it if I found serious partner on dating app.

Yes, clarify what you want your YABU / YANBU to mean.

But to answer the actual Q.
How would I respond - it would be over.

@Hopefullyoneday12 genuine interest. Why? Surely there can be no valid reason he went on a dating app to exchange innocent messages?

Dumped

His bags will get packed in minutes 😬

Would *

A girl I knew met her partner on a dating app. He moved into her home quickly and she discovered he was still on the app and used the excuse 'I've just never deleted it'. He was still actively exchanging photos with women on there.

She forgave him and they got engaged and a few months later she found out he was still on there and was meeting up with random women for sex.

I wish I could say that's when she binned him but nope, still together!

Yes immediately, I can't imagine doing anything else.

Unless it was a DH, and then I would wait until after getting all the financial paperwork etc.

Yes it would be over trust is gone

I kicked my exh out when I discovered he was. No message history - just a profile - but that was enough. It wasn't even a conscious decision, I was saying the words, "I want you out," before I'd even thought about it.

Thanks all.. I’ve left mine for this but sometimes I question myself probably because he denied even being on it (technology doesn’t lie)

Oh he'd be gone without a second thought.

@Kilimanjaro97

I think you need to tell people what YABU and YANBU mean in this context.

FWIW I would end it if I found serious partner on dating app.

Thank you! I voted YABU then changed it when I realised others had voted the other way. I always think OK YABU is yes and YANBU as no haha

I knew someone whose boyfriend had a very serious long affair and she still married him and had kids. I do wonder if she’s genuinely happy and can trust him again. Personally I know I couldn’t.

& didn't first time around, or the second time but third time and a decade later I did. Wish idve done it first time around