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AIBU to be fucked off with bagless deliveries?

131 replies

KillinMoon · 20/02/2022 13:31

I live in a second floor flat, no lift. I can't drive due to epilepsy and can't lift heavy items due to adhesions from major gynae surgery. So I get my shopping delivered.

So far so good.

When the pandemic hit the drivers started leaving the shopping downstairs and waiting for me to collect it and take it upstairs. Ok-ish, when it was in bags, although a bit of a strain. Now that it's in crates it's really hard. I have to crouch/bend over the crates to fill up my own bags which is really painful. I understand they don't want to get the covid, but this is really hard for me to do.

This morning was a particular low point. Half my key stuff was soaked with rain - sugar, flour, tea, biscuits. The driver said to they'd had to load up in the rain. Obviously as they were doing it directly into crates everything got really wet. In the other tray, a bottle of milk had leaked and it had went everywhere. So on the veggies, salad, everything, it is just unusable.

I wiped the things I could (obviously this takes time) but other things I've had to just throw away : I can't do anything with solidified sugar in a disintegrating bag, or with clumped wet tea, or with salad and herbs etc covered in milk.

AIBU to think that this is all unnecessary effort for a service that after all I am paying for and to wish that supermarkets would rethink?

I spoke with Tesco this morning and told them all this and they will refund the damaged items but I still have to go out and buy them. They also said that they would pass my comments on but I doubt anything will change. I just feel a bit fucked off.

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GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 20/02/2022 13:33

If you use Morrison’s or Ocado they will still deliver with bags - could that be an option? You then return the bags the next week

LolaButt · 20/02/2022 13:35

It is really frustrating. Will they not deliver to your actual door?

I would rather be given reusable bags or crates as part of the delivery service, that I would be charged for if I didn’t give back or something.

KillinMoon · 20/02/2022 13:37

Our Morrisons and ocado are bagless. Maybe it's different in different parts of the country. Iceland is the only one that uses bags here. I do use them but find it difficult to do a full shop with them.

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GuidingSpirit · 20/02/2022 13:38

Yes, this annoys me so much about tesco. DD is 8months now but when she was tiny, i was so annoyed at having to put her in the moses basket and faff about taking a few items at a time in and out of the house. Inevitably she would scream the whole time and it just made the whole thing so stressful. Ocado are much better but they have a habit at turning up early and ive nearly missed them more than once. Im sure it must annoy the drivers as well as it must take much longer to do their deliveries. Why cant they just bring back the tray liners so you can take a whole tray in at once?

RitaFires · 20/02/2022 13:39

I'm in Ireland so always got bagless deliveries from Tesco, they let me keep the crates and return them at the next delivery, it's worth asking if your store allows that.

manchester86 · 20/02/2022 13:40

Is there no one that could help you? A local charity or teen you could give £5 to for helping you? I couldn't imagine not taking 20 mins out my week to help a neighbour who really needed it. Doesn't solve the problem for everyone else who would benefit from the supermarkets using bags but would make your life easier.

balalake · 20/02/2022 13:42

Have you looked at who else will deliver to you? Take your money to somewhere more supportive.

KillinMoon · 20/02/2022 13:43

@LolaButt sometimes if it's a nice guy he'll bring it to the door, it's up to them what they want to do, there's no requirement to do so. That's the same for all the supermarket delivery services. Even then today it wouldn't have made a difference because the food was already ruined before it got to me, I mean it was wet and soaked in milk already, it had been sat outside the shop in crates and then got transported in the van which is when all the milk sloshed over everything. If even the milk had been in a bag that would have been less of an issue.

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ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 20/02/2022 13:44

It pisses me off too.

Random apples rolling round in the crate getting bruised.

KillinMoon · 20/02/2022 13:45

@manchester86 I am not aware of any such services/teens who I could book for a random twenty minutes once a week, no.

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KillinMoon · 20/02/2022 14:34

@ArseInTheCoOpWindow yy, I hadn't even registered annoyances like this but yes you're right it's not great.

@GuidingSpirit urk, that sounds really hard.

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Rummikub · 20/02/2022 14:43

The thin bags they used to have were better than the bags for life.
They could do paper bags or biodegradable bags.
It is annoying.

DSGR · 20/02/2022 14:46

I LOVE bagless and it’s fab for the environment BUT I have a short walk to my kitchen and no mobility issues. In your shoes I’d swap to anyone who still delivers in bags?

KillinMoon · 20/02/2022 14:49

@Rummikub yeah they were fine especially for taking stuff up into the flat. I'd unpack them, put them to one side and hand them back to the next delivery guy. All was well. Now it's become a massive stressful wasteful experience, just to get my food, even though I've paid for it and have paid for delivery. £7 this morning. For a load of wet damaged stuff that I have to pack and carry up two flights of stairs myself.

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Shortofspace · 20/02/2022 14:51

I think being able to keep the crates till next time is a great idea - also makes you more likely to go back to the same shop each week not swapping them

GCAcademic · 20/02/2022 14:52

YANBU. The sole reason I’m sticking with Ocado (which has deteriorated massively since the M&S hook-up) is the bags.

KillinMoon · 20/02/2022 14:53

@DSGR that's Iceland then. Who I do use but they don't do everything. It would be nice to have more of a choice particularly as I'm paying.

Re the environment, surely it's more wasteful to throw away bags of flour, sugar, tea, salad etc than it is to put them in bags which get handed back to the driver at next delivery?

Incidentally there's still plenty of plastic in my shop. Just not any that enables it to transport it to my kitchen.

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EmbarrassedAllOver · 20/02/2022 14:53

Is there no way to ask for bags on the basis of disability? I thought they will come into your home with them if you have a disability but I may be wrong.

That sounds incredibly stressful, I feel for your situation.

KillinMoon · 20/02/2022 14:53

That enables me that should say.

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KillinMoon · 20/02/2022 14:57

@EmbarrassedAllOver yes they will take into your kitchen if you have a house and need them to but not into a communal building and it's always been at driver's discretion if they would do stairs. There's no bags or liners for anyone regardless of disability.

Part of me can't quite believe how difficult it's become to just get my frigging shopping! I didn't used to think about it at all and now it's really hard.

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PinkiOcelot · 20/02/2022 14:58

Yes this annoys me too. I don’t have a disability either.

crumpet · 20/02/2022 14:59

Our Morrison (via Amazon prime) deliver in paper bags which has worked well

ouch321 · 20/02/2022 14:59

@GuidingSpirit

Yes, this annoys me so much about tesco. DD is 8months now but when she was tiny, i was so annoyed at having to put her in the moses basket and faff about taking a few items at a time in and out of the house. Inevitably she would scream the whole time and it just made the whole thing so stressful. Ocado are much better but they have a habit at turning up early and ive nearly missed them more than once. Im sure it must annoy the drivers as well as it must take much longer to do their deliveries. Why cant they just bring back the tray liners so you can take a whole tray in at once?
Could you not take one crate in to the kitchen, unload the items to the kitchen worktop and then go back to driver with the ,empty crate? Rather than take a few items in your hands and having to go back and forth a few times per crate?
GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 20/02/2022 15:00

Our Morrisons and ocado are bagless oh maybe! Or maybe I accidentally opted in in some way?

MyDcAreMarvel · 20/02/2022 15:02

There should be reasonable adjustments made for people with disabilities. Have you emailed the CEO of Tescos?