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Who's lying?

93 replies

FlatSusy · 16/02/2022 22:36

Sorry I hate this way of writing but!
Person 1 and person 2 have a child together. Terrible relationship, break up after person 2 leaves person 1 for someone else. That fizzles out. They hook up.
Person 2 meets new gf. Person 1 is angry because she is left to one side again. Two years later person 2 is having another baby. Person 1 tells someone (person 3, vague friends with person 2) that they'd been sleeping with person 2 off and on for the whole two years.
Person 1 has always been resentful and petty but usually honest. They have texts to prove the affair. Could texts be fabricated? Person 2 was caught with topless photos of person 1 which he replied to saying 'nice'. I know who I believe.

Who's lying?

OP posts:
WouldIwasShookspeared · 17/02/2022 11:35

The one accused of the affair.

Katya213 · 17/02/2022 11:36

Could you use names as I’m a little confused.

Chestofdraws · 17/02/2022 11:37

If there are texts to prove it then clearly person one, the bloke.

Cakelover17 · 17/02/2022 11:37

I can’t understand who’s been accused of lying? Or why it matters? 2 single people had sex for 2 years, now one in not single. Who gives a crap who’s lying? Everyone needs to get a hobby and stop sleeping with people they arnt in a relationship with and then bitching about it.

WouldIwasShookspeared · 17/02/2022 11:38

By that I mean the one with the partner who they are probably now promising on the kids lives or something that the other person is lying

Pumpfive · 17/02/2022 11:38

Couldn't keep up if I'm honest. Sounds like an episode of Eastenders!

Hankunamatata · 17/02/2022 11:39

If texts are from person 2 phone, how could they be made up?

BobbinHood · 17/02/2022 11:41

Probably both, not many people cover themselves in glory after acrimonious break ups.

DropYourSword · 17/02/2022 11:41

Christ, this would have been way easier if you'd just used fake names and proper pronouns!
But clearly person 2 is a known liar and a cheat. It's pretty likely he's lying.

custardbear · 17/02/2022 11:41

So everything person does or says is fishy ... person 2 is not a good person

BringBackCoffeeCreams · 17/02/2022 11:43

Person 2 is liar.

Person 1 is shit stirrer.

Person 3 needs to keep away from both of them.

spacehardware · 17/02/2022 11:47

This sounds mad and confusing but I would assume person 1 and 2 are both lying drama llamas to some extent or another, and steer clear of them both. No point trying to get to the bottom of a liar, you can't

ToastieSnowy · 17/02/2022 11:50

Ive done a translation, Person 1= DW, person 2 = DH.

He leaves her for someone else, that fizzles out and he starts shagging DW again.

Then he meets another woman and drops DW. She’s hurt & angry.

2 years later he’s having a child with this other woman. DW says they’ve been shagging the whole 2 years and she has texts to prove it. DH has topless photo of DW which he likes.

He’s been having his cake and eat it. No wonder DW is upset about it all. The other woman should prepare herself for him doing this to her too. What a nob.

ToastieSnowy · 17/02/2022 11:51

The DW needs to kick him into touch and move on for her own well-being.

kittensinthekitchen · 17/02/2022 11:51

You're pregnant and your boyfriends ex has texts to demonstrate she's been sleeping with him your whole relationship?

That's messy.

What are you going to do?

Ibizan · 17/02/2022 11:53

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TokyoTen · 17/02/2022 11:54

Person 1 needs to move on with their life. Person 2 is probably lying. Person 3 needs to stop gossiping. Would be my assessment from the confusing post!

Crayzeefrog · 17/02/2022 12:13

Person 2 is lying and has no respect for anyone.

Person 1 is telling the truth and has no respect for themselves.

Both are terrible parents to that poor child

twilightcustard · 17/02/2022 12:15

ffs, it is an anonymous forum, stop all this person 1,2,3 and just write a normal message

MakeMineAdoubleChocolate · 17/02/2022 12:17

Basically, a bunch of losers to sum it up in a pathetic situation.

Donson · 17/02/2022 12:20

The man is lying

TheOrigRights · 17/02/2022 12:23

I presume you are the new girlfriend of person 2 who is man, and it has come to light that 'person 2/man/your partner' has been sleeping with person 1 (woman/your partner's ex).

I am stumped on "They hook up."

DickMabutt73962 · 17/02/2022 12:29

Op where are you? 😂

SmellinOfTroy · 17/02/2022 12:39

JO and JACK have a child together. Terrible relationship, break up after JACK leaves JO for someone else. That fizzles out.

They hook up. (JO and JACK?)

JACK meets new gf. JO is angry because she is left to one side again.

Two years later JACK is having another baby. JO tells someone (SARAH, vague friends with JACK) that they'd been sleeping with JACK off and on for the whole two years.

JO has always been resentful and petty but usually honest. They have texts to prove the affair. Could texts be fabricated?

JACK was caught with topless photos of JO which he replied to saying 'nice'. I know who I believe.

SmellinOfTroy · 17/02/2022 12:40

maybe?