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To wonder what would drive someone to steal milk?

133 replies

PigFaceForever · 16/02/2022 08:35

I've just cancelled my milkround after getting my milk stolen yet again. I've requested that the milkman puts it behind some bushes as I live on a main road, but he's continued to put it on the doorstep.

So, after it's gone missing yet again, I'm just wondering why someone would steal my three bottles of milk? I'm pretty pissed off at this point.

OP posts:
5128gap · 16/02/2022 09:21

This happens around my office. People with drug and alcohol problems and street sleepers often drink milk as a convenient source of nourishment that soothes the stomach and that their systems can tolerate. There are a few who ask you on the way into the shop to buy them some. I suppose its not too much of a stretch to think they also take it if its sitting there.

CushionSpiral · 16/02/2022 09:23

Here it wasn’t poverty just cunty teenagers. Collected it all up and hid the bottles until is was too warm to drink in hedges or smashed them. They didn’t care about ring doorbells

Waxonwaxoff0 · 16/02/2022 09:25

Milk is an easy way to get calories in if you're struggling to afford food, especially for growing kids.

HowlingKale · 16/02/2022 09:31

Similar happens in office fridges.

forlornlorna · 16/02/2022 09:33

Op when I was a kid I used to steal milk off of steps. We were starving. Our parents were addicts. I'd rotate who I stole off (just a pint) so I hopefully didn't get caught. Then suddenly milk started to appear on our doorstep most days along with a loaf. Milkman had rumbled me and was a kind man

iwishu · 16/02/2022 09:39

Leave a soured one out, a few weeks old, they might not want your milk after that.

LemonMuffins · 16/02/2022 09:44

We live near a crack house and this is the sort of thing one of their clients would do on the way in or out. After they've broken into some cars for the 25p change they've spotted on display.

Some people are just fuckers. My money is on fuckers rather than desperation. Can you get a camera?

BrioNotBiro · 16/02/2022 09:45

I often used to see a smartly dressed man nick milk off doorsteps in the same road, his route to work presumably. He'd then scurry off furtively with the bottle under his coat.

JingsMahBucket · 16/02/2022 09:52

@iwantmyownicecreamvan

Yes I wonder why they take all three bottles?

Years ago I opened my front door to put something in the bin and came face to face with the bin man swigging a bottle of milk. I didn't realise immediately that it was mine and he scarpered and then I leaned down to take the milk in and realised that he had pinched the bottle of full fat milk I got for the kids and left the skimmed.

I found the bin lorry but he wasn't in sight and I told the supervisor guy who outright denied that any of his team would do such a thing. It obviously wasn't the first time he had done it - I presume we would normally have been out at work, this was half term so we were in.

He obviously wasn't poor or needy - just a thirsty CF.

@iwantmyownicecreamvan Jesus, that’s bloody pathetic. Did you lodge a proper formal complaint with the company?
PostThenGhost · 16/02/2022 09:52

@forlornlorna

Op when I was a kid I used to steal milk off of steps. We were starving. Our parents were addicts. I'd rotate who I stole off (just a pint) so I hopefully didn't get caught. Then suddenly milk started to appear on our doorstep most days along with a loaf. Milkman had rumbled me and was a kind man
😢 bless him.
millymae · 16/02/2022 09:55

Watching the responses with interest. Stealing milk is not a new thing - my gran lived on a main road and had her milk go missing on more than one occasion.
We all loved a sleepover at hers as she spoiled us stupid, but one night my sister and I had woken up early and were looking out of the window watching the traffic and the people walking past.
We both wondered why a woman we knew to live just up the road was calling so early but before we could shout gran to tell her, the woman was off with the milk in hand.
She worked in one of the local shops and when gran went in to ask her why she was taking her milk she just said that she was sorry but on the days she was responsible for opening up there was nowhere on her way that she could buy a bottle from for her cup of tea!
She took it simply because she could.

FinallyFluid · 16/02/2022 10:01

It could be one of many things, but in the current economic climate I am utterly staggered that the OP had to have the option of poverty spelt out to them. Shock

TyrannosaurusRegina · 16/02/2022 10:27

@MoltenLasagne

We thought someone was stealing our eggs from the milkman - turned out it was a local fox who was doing the rounds of the houses! Any chance it might be wildlife?
I'm just imagining a fox strutting down the road like a human, on his two hind legs, with his hands full of glass bottles of milk 😂
MorningStarling · 16/02/2022 10:32

If it's the same house every day it's more likely to be teenagers. Where I grew up a "milk bottle run" was a common post-illegal clubbing/drinking activity amongst the scummier kids in my school. (Not "poor" kids - just the cunty ones.)

Rather than cancelling the delivery it would be better to get a camera so you can see which scumbag is doing it.

EmbarrassedAllOver · 16/02/2022 10:34

I'd guess poverty or kids. I can't imagine anyone mature with access to money would steal milk.

If cancel it too.

FujiIX · 16/02/2022 10:34

This happened to one of my neighbours in the 70s
She got so fed up with it she made a hideous concoction using milk of magnesia and laxatives
Never happened again

MoltenLasagne · 16/02/2022 10:36

@TyrannosaurusRegina I was picturing them picking up plastic ones like some milkmen have started using rather than glass bottles I must admit!

Fieldsville · 16/02/2022 10:44

Extreme poverty.

Fieldsville · 16/02/2022 10:45

Can you afford to keep it going?

Maybe someone has a lot of cats near you.

MrsSkylerWhite · 16/02/2022 10:45

Because they can’t afford to buy.

Wafflesnsniffles · 16/02/2022 10:45

They probably finish work every early mornings. Ours gets delivered at about 2:30am usually so anyone walking home sometime after that but before most people are up and about......... could easily be helping themselves to someones milk.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 16/02/2022 10:48

It could be poverty in some cases, but I think the majority will just be inherently dishonest people who steal things because they can. I think it makes them feel smart to 'get one over on' other people and companies.

Look at the other thread about stealing from hotels (and other establishments) and there are a number of people admitting to (or reporting others) deliberately thieving towels, bath robes and other items that are most clearly not consumable that are expected to be used up/taken away.

All of these are people who can afford to stay at hotels, so poverty isn't a factor - they just have a natural selfish streak that means that, if they can get away with it, they think they have a right to do it, and will.

I used to find it weird when banks put their pens on chains - and made them quite difficult to actually use - but they obviously had to do that because of the surprising number of lifestyle thieves who will not only steal a pen worth a few pence, but in so doing, mean that there are no pens left for future people who need them. Same with public toilets that now have lockable holders that only let you pinch one little sheet out at a time; imagine being the kind of person who would steal toilet roll, just because it's there and you have no morals.

Anybody trying to justify it as 'just a pint of milk' should realise that they are potentially depriving a housebound person or run-ragged parent of a lifeline. It could easily be an exhausted mum with babies and pre-schoolers (possibly disabled) who then either have to go without their breakfast or otherwise it takes her ages to get them all ready and go out to the shop to buy more, which she might be ill-able to afford, so they have to go without elsewhere. All of their lives made so much more difficult because of a selfish thief who thinks it's a laugh to steal, just because they can get away with it.

Not to mention the milkman/woman's livelihood, which will be severely affected if enough people cancel them as a direct result of doorstep milk thieves.

iwantmyownicecreamvan · 16/02/2022 10:52

@JinghsMahBucket

I tried (he worked for the council of course) but I couldn't prove it and I didn't know his name. I never saw him again that I remember and as I said, his supervisor just said he would never have done it and he must have bought the (glass) bottle of milk himself, even though I could see the wet ring on my doorstep where he had picked it up.

TBH I wouldn't have wanted him sacked, just to apologise and not do it again would have been enough. When I thought about it, all the times I thought my ex or the kids had inexplicably just brought in one bottle of milk instead of all three were probably other occasions when he had pinched it.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 16/02/2022 10:54

To add, I would classify this alongside people who are rude to waitresses and deliberately taunt animals - to me, these are apparently low-level misdemeanours, but ones which are clearly symbolic of a much more far-reaching unpleasant attitude. If they can't be trusted to be decent at a relatively low level, I assume that they're likely to do much worse without any compunction, if only they believe they can get away with it.

hangrylady · 16/02/2022 10:55

Kids having a 'laugh'.